Depressed and Nervous little

[WittleKate]

I've been active in the DD/LG community for 2 years now and just recently started talking to a potential Daddy. We've been talking for about a month now and I just find it extremely hard to talk to him about certain things. He knows that I was hurt at work and that I will be out of work for 2-3 more months before I can be cleared to work again and he also knows about my depression. Not only has my depression grabbed me and pulled me into a bad headspace it's started creeping into my little space. I try to be honest with him and tell him how I'm feeling but being this been into my depression and talking to him is making me nervous and scared that he's just gonna up and leave. Even when I get in the mood for sexy times it somehow seems to creep up on me and I lose my mood and feel bad and feel the need to continue for him even tho I'm longer into it because of my depression. I just genuinely don't know what to do or think. I'm so lost. Has anyone else ever felt like this or have any advice/ words of wisdom?

[Guest ~ Ducky ~]

If he truly cares for you, he won't leave no matter what you tell him. I'd say go ahead and tell him about your depression, lay it all out on the table. I did that with my daddy and I was scared, but shocked when he said he completely understood. Don't keep things like this from your daddy, he may be able to help you! Good luck Kate. ^-^

[Guest Shalott]

. Edited December 20, 2017 by Shalott

[Guest SUeB]

You can't start a relationship with pretence and hiding things. This is part of who you are, if he can't handle that, then you need to accept that. That doesn't make him a bad person, just not the right one for you.

[Guest infinitecases]

My daddy found out quite early on I had some problems, and then not long after that, found that I had anxiety. If they love you for who you are, then they will listen to you and actually understand you more in the long run. I was always scared Daddy would leave me the more he found out about me (and some things he realised even before I did) but I was really wrong and he never left. The sooner you tell your daddy, the sooner you'll find out what'll happen. If it's too much for him, you have a chance to find someone who can understand you better and if he accepts it as part of who you are, then you get to go ahead with making your relationship even greater!!