Sunshine Posted October 9, 2017 Report Posted October 9, 2017 I do not currently have a daddy, nor do I have many little friends. I am hoping that being apart of this will help me make new friends. On another note: Does anyone here feel nervous shopping for little things in big world stores? or feel uncomfortable/anxious when shopping alone? I have this problem constantly, but I don't know what to do. If I am with friends (non littles) I don't want to feel strange buying clothes that I feel comfortable in. I also hate that if I'm shopping alone I get mean looks because I find a paci very nice and suitable, but b/c I don't have a daddy or anyone to help me feel less insecure, I feel very inadequate. I just want to have all the cute thingies, but when I get anxious I don't buy anything because I am afraid of the looks... I feel this way too! When I'm shopping for new stuffies or cute little things I get very nervous and insecure, and just wish I had a daddy to help take all those nasty feelings away by just taking control and being like "I'm getting you this, don't worry princess" or something like that. It's like I have these insecurities about being a little that would be so much easier to deal with if I had a daddy, and since I don't, that just makes the feelings feel worse! So I totally get where you're coming from <3 I know it's hard to not feel insecure when you're buying little clothes out in public. If just keeping your head down and pretending not to care/feel the stares of others isn't enough, you could always pretend that you're buying it for someone else! That's something I do when I'm shopping for my little self with friends who don't understand. 1
Guest angel_baby Posted October 9, 2017 Report Posted October 9, 2017 I’m daddyless but I want little friends
ScaryNewLittle Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Can i be friends with you guys? I don't have a daddy. I'm new. It's okay if the answer is no though. But I can atleast say I tried.
little_babyprincess Posted October 11, 2017 Report Posted October 11, 2017 HI... I am really new with this community but I am a little for a long time already... I don't have daddy and this makes me sad... I also don't have little friends so I want to be friends with all of you here if it is okay...
bbybrit Posted October 11, 2017 Report Posted October 11, 2017 *throws confetti and cookies at every one* Welcome all ye lonely littles! We have cookies and juice on tap!
Bratty Bunny Posted October 12, 2017 Report Posted October 12, 2017 Hey! I am a little that currently has no daddy or little friends so I would love to make some! Hello all!
Middletown Posted October 12, 2017 Report Posted October 12, 2017 I’m a middle without a daddy. Those with daddies are complaining cause they feel excluded well guess what so do we when we see you’re praised and adored the way we want to be but have no ability to since we don’t have care givers. As fellow littles you should want to support your sisters by NOT rubbing our faces in it you don’t have the same struggle as us since you have support and love from your caregiver. We only have each other. There are other forums for little with daddies to make friends this is for those of us still facing the world on our own and it wouldn’t be fair to have to open up to someone who can’t see it in the same light as someone walking the same path. By you pouting and making an issue of exclusion is unfair to those of us who only get to watch happiness or relationship issue. Have some sensitivity I know we are all little but this is something that we are gonna have to be big girls about. 1
Guest Dulci Posted October 13, 2017 Report Posted October 13, 2017 Hiya! I'm really really new to being a little, so I'd love to make little friends. I don't have a daddy, and I don't see me having one until I've worked things out and know what I like and dislike. So yes, let's be friends <3
Guest CaptainAmerica97 Posted October 16, 2017 Report Posted October 16, 2017 I have never wished more for a daddy than I do today. I had to be a big girl today and I ended up waking as a little girl today. I had to grocery shop tote the stuff on the bus back and then help my sister get back to her place with her grocreys and on top of all that my niece and nephew was throwing fit. Then I got stranded in a bad part of the neighborhood waiting on bus which never came. She finally got someone to take me home around 10 at night. I think I am going night night now
WylieCoyote Posted October 17, 2017 Report Posted October 17, 2017 Hiya, I'm a little without a daddy. I'm still very new and would love some friends in the community to talk to! I really appreciate you for making this post, because I was considering posting my own similar when I came across yours. It's nice to know there are so many of us out there without daddies. We aren't alone. <3 1
PrincessEmily Posted October 19, 2017 Report Posted October 19, 2017 Me just vants fiends.. me needz to be a little fo a vhile... itz a big big vorld and me iz lonely...
BabieFae Posted October 22, 2017 Report Posted October 22, 2017 I has a question.. If I eventually find a Daddy do I no longer has fwiends?
softangel Posted October 22, 2017 Report Posted October 22, 2017 So even tho I want one, I don't has a daddy but I still want little friends... but it's hard to be friends with littles who have daddies sometimes because it makes me feel bad/lonely... idk if anyone else is having this problem... but... maybe we can have a space here if you is having same problem? EDIT: I have spoken to a lot of people in here who feel very strongly about whether this topic space should exist or not.... I want all lonely or excluded feeling littles, CG or not, to have a place where they can come and make friends. I do, however, want the focus to be littles that don't have daddies and/or other regular support systems to address the feelings and difficulties that come with being little in a big world. I ask that if you come in here and feel excluded because you currently have a daddy, that you don't say that it is unfair for this space to exist. I have not, and won't ever, tell you that you are not welcomed in this space. I will request that any conversations in this topic be focused on your struggles or joys of being a little separate of having a CG. If you are having problems related specifically to your relationship that can be addressed elsewhere, it would be appreciated if you create your own topic. However, if you feel more comfortable addressing it among friends in here, ask, and we will likely not turn you away. This topic is about support, not about exclusion. Remember that everyone on this forum deserves a place of their own where they can come and feel safe. Please do not come in and tell the people on this forum that they should not have this topic because you want friends too. You can still have friends. None of us are saying that you cannot. But this space is specifically for littles who want friends in a similar, CGless situation. eeeeeee i love this idea!!! i don't have a caregiver but i want little friends <3
Guest Thelittlebear Posted October 23, 2017 Report Posted October 23, 2017 I love this idea ! I have no daddy but i really want little friends ! I miss having people to actually talk to and go into little space with !
quinnie Posted October 23, 2017 Author Report Posted October 23, 2017 I has a question.. If I eventually find a Daddy do I no longer has fwiends? You can still be friends with people here! Finding a daddy doesn't mean any friends you make here are no longer your friends!! 1
Guest lapetitelune Posted October 23, 2017 Report Posted October 23, 2017 this is such a good topic! i often feel like littles who don't have caregivers are excluded from cg/l discussions because sometimes i feel like all the attention is on daddies/mommies or just caregivers in general (this is an opinion, not a fact, i'd like to point that out lol)! so yes! having a community of littles who don't have cgs is so important to me bc we must uplift one another! encourage! have playdates! littles don't exist for caregivers, we exist for ourselves. anyways!! that got super deep, im sorry ahh! i would love to have more little friends and people who can relate to this struggle of being caregiver-less
BabieFae Posted October 23, 2017 Report Posted October 23, 2017 If anyone would like to, you can add me and PM me! I love to make new fwiends!!
Guest lapetitelune Posted October 23, 2017 Report Posted October 23, 2017 I do not currently have a daddy, nor do I have many little friends. I am hoping that being apart of this will help me make new friends. On another note: Does anyone here feel nervous shopping for little things in big world stores? or feel uncomfortable/anxious when shopping alone? I have this problem constantly, but I don't know what to do. If I am with friends (non littles) I don't want to feel strange buying clothes that I feel comfortable in. I also hate that if I'm shopping alone I get mean looks because I find a paci very nice and suitable, but b/c I don't have a daddy or anyone to help me feel less insecure, I feel very inadequate. I just want to have all the cute thingies, but when I get anxious I don't buy anything because I am afraid of the looks... oh my goodness, i understand this completely! going shopping is usually something i enjoy, but there are times where all i want is to look at little things, but i'm too nervous/afraid to actually go and fulfill that desire also! i run the risk of falling into little space if i'm not careful lol and that's not something i want to do in public, especially if i'm alone sigh what i can offer you is encouragement! and a supporting hand if u ever need that extra push to look/buy at the little things you truly want to shop for, i believe in you!
BabieFae Posted October 23, 2017 Report Posted October 23, 2017 oh my goodness, i understand this completely! going shopping is usually something i enjoy, but there are times where all i want is to look at little things, but i'm too nervous/afraid to actually go and fulfill that desire also! i run the risk of falling into little space if i'm not careful lol and that's not something i want to do in public, especially if i'm alone sigh what i can offer you is encouragement! and a supporting hand if u ever need that extra push to look/buy at the little things you truly want to shop for, i believe in you! Thank you! I feel in a lot of places I get anxious and then end up in little space scared and alone... I'm trying to work on being more confident in buying the little things I want
Guest littlelisafrank Posted October 24, 2017 Report Posted October 24, 2017 I like the idea of a support group! I recently had a semi-bad break up with my former Daddy. We're friends, now, but I'm finding it a little harder to get back into the Daddy-less little life. Anyway, count me in! : ) I'm here for anyone who needs someone to talk to! : )
littlecuddlebunny Posted October 24, 2017 Report Posted October 24, 2017 I'm so lonely I'd love some little friends
Ocean_Princess1271 Posted October 26, 2017 Report Posted October 26, 2017 I really need little friends! I no longer have a daddy and getting a new one is super scary and difficult so if there’s anyone who would like to be friends, Message me!! ☺️☺️
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