Nervous Little

[Guest sunnybaby]

So I've recently found a daddy that I reaallllly like, and he says he likes me too, but these past few days he's been really distant. I know he's going through some mental stuff but so am I, and all I want to do is help him through it. He won't even read my messages! We're supposed to have a movie date tomorrow (he said so yesterday) but now I don't know if that's even happening anymore. Am I too clingy?

[Guest chilldude]

First tip would be talk to him for a while. If you haven't talked to him for at least a few weeks, then don't consider him your daddy.

 

Mental health is difficult. I realise you want to support him, but if he chooses to take that up he will contact you. 

 

I don't think too clingy exists, but its important both daddy and little have similar communication needs. 

[Guest SUeB]

Clingy (and different levels of it) is subjective. Some people love it, some hate it, but yes, if you are someone that runs from it, too clingy definitely exists.

How long have you known him? Is it an established relationship, or a relatively new online only situation? That makes a difference.

[Guest sunnybaby]

Clingy (and different levels of it) is subjective. Some people love it, some hate it, but yes, if you are someone that runs from it, too clingy definitely exists.

How long have you known him? Is it an established relationship, or a relatively new online only situation? That makes a difference.

It's an LDR relationship for about 2 weeks now.

[Guest SUeB]

Ah ok, well I have to say that after such a short time, I would prepare for the very real possibility that he just got bored. Sorry, but it happens so often online that it has to be expected along the way towards something real and worthy of your time.