Not so 'little' Littles

[Littlest_Lushie]

I'am not a little little at all! I'am 5 ft 1, US 22-24 and am about 260 lbs. I have come a long way with my self image, and am no longer ashamed about my body. I love my body and myself- and so does my Daddy. 

 

Being a Little helps my self esteem in so many ways. I do however wish that their were more affordable plus size cutesy clothes! I do definitely want to give Sock Dreams a look too. Let me try to dig up a plus size little clothes master list post I saw on tumblr, I'm going to be sleeping first. So, bear with me please!

[Daddys-Kawaii-Princess]

I am a not so little little too!~

I am 6 foot 3 inches

I weigh 290-320 depending on what I ate that day it always changes

My sizes are 1-2xl, 20-24 pants, and 44DD

I am constantly thinking Im too big to be a little....

Someone help me.... I used to be bulimic and anorexic too.... I still kinda am.. My Daddy hates it

[Princess-P]

Being plus sized and where I'm from in Canada we don't have many plus size clothing stores, and I'm not a big fan of online shopping, I always want to try before I buy. So Addition Elle is kinda it lol. But I find they really have a lot of cute frilly and lacy things and you can accessories with lots of adorable things from kids jewelry stores (Clair's or Ardene) and when I want something for when I'm deep in little space onsies are awesome (they come in plus size just about anywhere) or I get iron on decals from craft/fabric stores (I've even made MLP matching bra and panty set out of plain ones from Walmart) and dress up some plain or colorful tops or bedazzle leggings and never mind my obsession with hair bows!! Lol

 

It can sometimes be hard to feel cute and be discouraged about shopping for your little side when your body doesn't match how you feel. Just trying to be body positive and find clothes you feel good in is so important.

 

Plus size littles, tall littles, older littles, boy littles, littles of all genders/shapes/sizes/whatever.... Were all amazing. Love it, embrace it, be you, and express yourself/your style however you want.

[Alice]

It's hard to be so body positive, when everyone looks down at me as 'the chubby girl' or 'chunk' It makes me feel like I need to get out of little space and just be upset. I am currently trying to work past my issues, but it gets really hard sometimes.

[nanna-banana]

I'm not so little I'm chubby and that's cool but I have big thighs and it stops me from finding cute thigh high socks and skirts I also struggled with a ED but I've been trying to keep my curvy self I'm 5'7 and 170

[nanna-banana]

I'm not so little I'm chubby and that's cool but I have big thighs and it stops me from finding cute thigh high socks and skirts I also struggled with a ED but I've been trying to keep my curvy self I'm 5'7 and 170

[Little_Princess_Char]

I'am not a little little at all! I'am 5 ft 1, US 22-24 and am about 260 lbs. I have come a long way with my self image, and am no longer ashamed about my body. I love my body and myself- and so does my Daddy. 

 

Being a Little helps my self esteem in so many ways. I do however wish that their were more affordable plus size cutesy clothes! I do definitely want to give Sock Dreams a look too. Let me try to dig up a plus size little clothes master list post I saw on tumblr, I'm going to be sleeping first. So, bear with me please!

Have you found this master list??? I'm dying to find plus size little clothes.. Lol

I feel you all! I'm 6'2 and 380lbs.. But I have a Daddy who adores me.. But I still have a hard time being little, but when I do get into it, nothing else matters.

[Plump Princess]

I'm not little at all and you can see full body shots of me on my profile.
In order to get cute clothes as a plus size person, it's best to get your correct measurements and buy online.

I personally don't have this issue because I am naked 99.9% of the time. I hate clothes in general, lmao.

 

Edited May 7, 2016 by Plump Princess

[Plump Princess]

Have you found this master list??? I'm dying to find plus size little clothes.. Lol

I feel you all! I'm 6'2 and 380lbs.. But I have a Daddy who adores me.. But I still have a hard time being little, but when I do get into it, nothing else matters.

 

I'm not sure if this was the list they were talking about but here is one master list for plus size shops.

http://wtfplus.tumblr.com/post/77303554907/plus-size-shopping-master-post

 

[LoralieHaze]

OMG you guise, I have so much to say about this! I'm 5'3" and currently a size 26. The struggle is real!

 

It is certainly possible to find cute Little clothes in plus sizes, you just have to look hard enough and be creative. Those things are very important for us bigger littles and middles because if you're small you can find something to fit you at any store, or even fit into clothes for actual children. I like to think that I'm creative with my clothing choices but I admit that I don't search hard enough for clothes because I'm lazy...and cheap XD 

 

The best and easiest place is Torrid, as previously stated. It can definitely be pricey but they seem to have sales ALL the time. Lots of Barbie and Disney stuff there right now that I like. They also have a great clearance section and a reward program for frequent shoppers. I'm dying for a set of their knee high socks!

 

Another place that I'm surprised no one suggested is Mod Cloth. Yes, its pricey and they don't have sales often but they have a huge selection of adorable clothes with very thorough reviews. I just wish they had actual stores because I prefer not to order things online. They also have super cute accessories and house-decorating stuff.

 

Now that I think about it, most of my clothes are from Old Navy. My two "go to" LG dresses are both from there. The quality isn't what it once was but it's still very affordable, especially compared to the two places I already mentioned. Most of their stores don't carry plus size items but their website does. Also, and this is very important here, if you see something you like in the store, try it on. The sizing there varies wildly between each item so while you might normally be a 2X, you can probably fit into a XL at Old Navy. You never know until you try it on! 

 

I can't stress enough the importance of accessories and styling. This is what makes or breaks a look for me as the right hairstyle and jewelry can instantly make me look cuter and feel little. A few suggestions, based on my experience and what I like:

-Pigtails or braids are a must for me but if your hair is short then a headband will work perfectly.

-Not a necessity but I think its totally adorable to always have your finger/toe nails painted.

-A backpack is generally better than a purse but if you do want to carry a purse, it should be small or in a unique shape.

-I love stretchy plastic-bead bracelets for littles and charm bracelets for middles.

-Post/stud earrings are the way to go because I think hoops or anything dangly is too grown up.

-Three kinds of socks: 1) short ones with cute characters or objects, such as Hello Kitty or cupcakes, 2) ruffled, lacy, or frilly ones of any height, 3) tall ones, either knee high or thigh high. Sock Dreams has all of these.

-Heart-shaped sunglasses are an absolute favorite of mine (I have 7 pairs) although they might be more appropriate for middles. Your choice though obviously.

 

With the stuff I listed above, you can take quite a plain outfit and make it a Little outfit. That's what I do. Not to brag but I got a lot of compliments when I went to the mall the weekend before last. I was wearing my hair in two braids, a dark blue dress with white polka dots (from Old Navy), red heart-shaped sunglasses, small red anchor earrings, white ruffled socks and shiny black mary jane shoes. The hot pink purse didn't match but I was in a hurry and didn't have time to put all my stuff in a better one.

 

Beyond just the clothing factor, being a bigger Little is tough. The vast majority of Littles I see on tumblr, pinterest, and youtube all seem to be so skinny. I can't look at them for too long or else I start to feel sad. For me, it helps to know that there are many other big Littles and many caregivers that are attracted to us. Most of the time, I'm okay with my body though. Seeing it doesn't take me out of little space thankfully since one of the few things my first daddy did right was to tell me how much he loved my curves. The one physical thing that does take me out of little space is being hairy :-( As was previously mentioned in this thread, I too have PCOS and it sometimes makes me feel more like a grown man than a little girl.

 

Lastly but most importantly, do not EVER let your significant other or potential significant other pressure or force you to lose weight. If you want to lose weight, that's fine, but make sure YOU want to and you're doing it for YOURSELF.

Edited May 11, 2016 by LittleKittenLo

[Klynner]

I'm a little. Though my height would say otherwise. I grow nerves that I won't find a partner because of it. Hopeing to find some open minded people very soon! I'm 6'8 by the way. This post has been really assuring and informative thank you all!

[Guest ♥️ ashcake ♥️]

Honestly, I'm what you would consider a "little" little (5'3 125 lbs) and I still can't compare my body to what you see on tumblr under those dd/lg tags and not feel kinda bad about myself. I have curves in the wrong places and little to none where they need to be (read: really small boobs, thicker thighs  ). The point is, we can't compare ourselves to those tumblr girls... we are all beautiful in our own right. keep doing you, girlies     

[Guest pearlpizza22]

i understand completely and i'm so happy youre confident with yourself! you have no reason not to be, youre beautiful!

my problem with little clothes is that my legs are too long making dresses and pants very hard to find because i'm so skinny. this just shows that there really is no perfect little size, and it's just a cutesy state of mind

[sunchaser]

I think I'm pretty average for a woman but I don't feel like I fit the little ideal. I'm 5'6" and 170 but like others have mentioned here I have the pudge in the wrong places. I do have big boobs which is its own pain in the butt. It is nice to go through this thread and see that I'm not the only one.

[KayBaby♥]

I'm pretty tall and body wise not so little. I worried about it before joining but seeing all of you has made me feel better. Plus Cutie has some really nice stuff...I've never shopped there before I really like a lot of the stuff that they have. 

[Meggles]

I am a 22-24 and I weigh over 300lbs. I am uncomfortable sometimes when clothes shopping because usually when I do find something cute, of course it does not come big enough to fit me. I have found that Amazon carries many adorable things in ALL sizes. Lingerie, thigh highs, corsets, dresses, sweaters... everything. I found that in Little space I love, love, love big sweaters..and I found a 5X with Pikachu from Pokemon on the front. Amazon rarely lies about how big their clothing items are, and the prices are a tad high, but they are lower there than in any plus size store I've stepped foot in.

[Daddyslilhoneybee]

Thank you for posting! I am 5'3 and 205 lbs. I used to be 265 lbs but have lost a lot of weight in the past year! I went from a XXL pant to a L. Same size on the top because I have boobs, haha..

I have found some cute hello kitty, MLP and care bear stuff in the most random places: DEB, Torrid, Target.. To name a few! I own leggings in every color of the rainbow!

 

Sock it to me are my fav socks, but I will have to check out sock dreams. I have huge calves from playing softball for years (on a side note, I can leg press almost 600 lbs!)

 

Big girls rule, and we are beautiful!

[haruharu]

Im new, but this is a topic that I've thinking about a lot since I've discovered dd/lg. I always see such cute clothes and dresses but i feel like im too ugly and big to look cute in any of them. And a lot of times the clothes wont even go over my thighs or ass or stomach and boobs. But seeing this thread and how others are overcoming their fears inspires me to love myself better and try to dress the way i wanna dress. Thank you for recommendations.

[renea]

SO I THINK I CAN HELP EVERYONE! I found tonnns of places where plus size littles can shop! But there's bad news. Some of the sites....ARE CHEAP. You don't have to spend a shit (excuse my french) of money to feel like a little / feel cute. Also yes, some of these sites are a bit cashy but there's some that are not so it's kay.

 

https://www.aliexpress.com/w/wholesale-kawaii-plus-size.html?site=glo&SearchText=kawaii+plus+size&g=y&attrRel=or&CatId=200003482&needQuery=n&pvId=5-100014065&isrefine=y

 

(With this site, you need to search for. "Kawaii plus size." And once you do just scroll down and click whatever clothing material you're looking for, ex; dresses. Mae sure to hit you size too! I believe it goes up to 2x or 3x if I'm not mistaken. If you need help with this one let me know.)

 

https://spreepicky.com/collections/bigger-sizes

 

(A bit on the cashy side but some cute things.)

 

https://kawaiibabe.com/collections/plus-sizes?page=3

 

(This is half and half, some cashy, some fair price, some a little not so cashy.)

 

https://www.sockdreams.com/lima-textured-tights-black-plus.html

 

(Pretty sure everyone has seen this one, the plus size socks.)

 

http://www.storenvy.com/stores/318757-plus-cutie

 

(Has a lotta cute things for about $25+.)

 

http://kawaiigoods.storenvy.com/

 

(I personally haven't looked at the prices, I've just looked at the clothes but check it out.)

 

http://www.my-lolita-dress.com/lolita-shoes

 

(Super freaking cute from what I've seen. Shoes are kinda high but the socks are low and cutes asf.)

 

https://www.teeturtle.com/

 

(Some cute tees.)

[Guest gravityy]

I'm 5'1 and 120 lbs. I'm also really broad-shouldered, which means I can't find anything that fits me right. I am currently trying to lose weight, but it's really hard when I get into my littlespace because all of my littlespace food is unhealty. 

[ALittleAndAMom]

I am 5'3 very short but I weigh between 230-245 and I'm considered a 2x in top and size 18 in juniors below because I can't fit the length of the adult sizes. I want to buy little clothes, but the guy who is supposed to be daddy doesn't like them. I'm working towards getting my own money although "daddy" says I never have to work because I should stay home and be a princess.

[TeddybearCandyfloss]

I relate to this a lot. When I got into ddlg I was 155lbs, which doesn't seem like a lot but I am only 5'1. I have lost 35lbs now and wear mainly size small and petite things but I am still very curvy so many lolita/kawaii style outfits don't sit well on me. I've come to accept that this is the way my body is after years of wrestling with poor self image through learning to love healthy food and realizing that any daddy should love me for me and if he could do that then I should also be able to do so.

[princesshard]

I am 5’11 or 180 which is very very tall for a girl and everytime I have to stand straight next to my daddy I feel very awkward since he is the same height. He still calls me little but I always feel a bit embarrassed and I can’t relax. When in bed tho I don’t pay attention to my height and it doesn’t bother me but when he wants me to stand up I just loose this “little” feeling and I don’t know what to do with that -.-“ I liked being called like that but I immediately think about how big I actually am.