Not so 'little' Littles

[LittleLuna13]

I'm *very* large. I'm 400lbs. I've lost 16lbs so far. I really want to wear all the cute lolita and fairy kei clothes, but I worry one because I'm too big so even if I managed to get some made in my size, I'd look stupid, or that I'm too old since I'm 32 and I usually see teenagers and people in their early 20's in it =/

[Guest Rainbow]

So, um, I'm for sure not a 'little' Little, and I was looking for websites for littles that are for both ABDL, but then older, toddler age littles. Well I found a ton of those, but seeing as I'm not a 'little' little and I know there are other plus size littles that want to dress cute too! So I have this link for sure:

http://www.thesissystore.com

And a bonus, they're stuff seems pretty reasonable! I'll add more if I come across any!

I don't like how they're so over the top and costume wear like. Plus the descriptions sound tacky and gender unequal. But I reeeeally like the rose gal one! Edit: where's the plus sizes on it tho? So much for that

 

I usually go with torrid. Though they are pricey. I love when I spot their stuff in second hand stores

[Nia]

I'm *very* large. I'm 400lbs. I've lost 16lbs so far. I really want to wear all the cute lolita and fairy kei clothes, but I worry one because I'm too big so even if I managed to get some made in my size, I'd look stupid, or that I'm too old since I'm 32 and I usually see teenagers and people in their early 20's in it =/

 

I am in the same boat as you. I am a very large but incredibly short person (about 5 feet maybe 5'1" and 300lbs) so I understand the struggles. I buy whats comfortable and most "cute" clothing isn't really made for larger sizes so it can be a struggle. I am also older like you, so I get how it can feel as though you shouldn't dress a certain way because of your age. 

 

These are the kinds of struggles that make life in general hard, not just little life. Congrats on the 16lbs though! All I can say is just do what you are comfortable with. Maybe you aren't comfortable with certain clothes, but you can always add cute accessories to outfits to help you tie your little into your wardrobe. I wish I had advice, but this is a struggle I know all too well and it is a fight I do not appear to be winning. 

[Grace]

I'm about averge size 10-12 and 5'6.5 but I am very busty so all the cute dresses I want bunch up and the waist is just under my boobs and DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO FIND A HELLO KITTY BRA IN MY SIZE or any cute bra so with that and my acne it's hard to feel like a pretty little princess when the cute stuff I like won't fit over one leg. It even makes sitting on laps and getting piggyback rides hard because I know I'm heavy. In that way people who reach my little side really get to the happier me because even for a Short time it helps me feel like I'm the pretty girl.

[Guest Buttons]

There's also a cute website that sells footed-sleepers/onesies/footed-pjs in lots of different colours and characters, and I think it carries all sizes! I'll try my best to post the link here, once I find it!  

[Daddysmagicalgirl]

I'm a not so little little as well.  I'm size 16 atm I've had 2 children as well.  I'm sick and tired of being so upset when I see adorable cute clothes and I can't buy them because I'm too big .  I can't express myself properly and it's hard for me as well because I never got to be a girly girl when growing up I ended up hating that side (cause of bullying) but now I love it. I've always been into lolita and want to express that but I just...I can't.  I'm on a diet now and lost 8lbs in my first week fingers crossed I can keep going :3

[Guest ChibiKitKat]

Hi, I'm new but your thread stood out to me!

I'm like 5ft 8 and in US size 10 and weigh around 10st.

 

Maybe not so with weight but I always feel like I'm too tall and I'm not little enough to be a little ya know??

 

I'm quite curvy so I've been struggling to find cute things to wear as they dont accomadate different sizes -.- It can be disheartening at times D:

 

But I'm glad I found your post!! Littles come in all shapes and sizes right! ^.^

[Guest Leilah]

I almost got my sewing room ready to start sewing Little clothes..... I'm so excited to be able to make cute things for Daddy to see ... and maybe even get my business rolling....

 

It's getting better.....

 

Thanks Daddy

[Guest curious-babydoll]

i'm 5 foot (5'1 on a Really good day) size 18/20...) Luckily my weight seems to be proportioned to an extent other than my chest (I'm a 40 DDD) and I'm Extremely self conscious about...

[mylittlemermaid]

I'm 5'2 and 130 pounds. I've gained 20 over the last year from my antidepressants. I'm hoping to get back down to my regular size soon. I'm very pear shaped, huge wide hips. It's partly my bone structure and partly all the weight I've gained but I'll always have wide hips and thick thighs. it's a struggle finding cute clothes that fit properly without making me look like a baby prostitute, especially mini skirts that fit my shape. most of them get super short in the back because of my butt I've noticed on tumblr, the most "popular" littles are very slender all over and it makes me feel bad because I will just never look like that.

[Daddys_Little_Kitten]

I know what you mean! I used to be 350 lbs. Not my proudest moment in my life!  In half of a year, I managed to drop to 290. My Daddy loves me my size though :3 I still want to take care of myself though, but I am much more accepting of my size. I mainly work at keeping my body toned. I order cute clothes online, mainly Lolita for my days where I want to play dress up when I'm little.

[BunnieBabe]

I'm very new here and this thread caught my attention. I'm 4'9 and kinda chubby. I really want to start eating better and exercising, but I have absolutely zero motivation. It gets really bad sometimes 'cause I'll feel really cute until I see my reflection in something. :c

[bgGoddess]

I'm bigger, too. 5'9" - 52-44-51  My DD thinks I'm gorgeous and has made me feel more beautiful than I've ever felt. I have more self confidence now than I did when I was at a size 9

[jakeslittlegirl2015]

i'm definitely not a "little" little either ... i wear between a size 16-18 depending on the style .. i wear a LOT of yoga pants/shorts , sweatpants to help deal with myself . i hate the way i feel when i get something in a size that should fit but doesn't. daddy doesn't like it when i refer to myself as a big girl or as fat , and he is helping me become more confident with my body . when daddy and i first got together , i wouldn't even get undressed in front of him with the lights on , they had to be off and he had to face the other way for me to even think about taking my clothes off .. the other night was the first time we ever had sexy time with the lights on and i swear i could've cried because i hate the way i look compared to him ... he is smaller than i am (not by a whole lot , but he still weighs less than me) and it just makes it really hard . 

[littlewolf2008]

I saw this and i was soo happy! All my life I've liked cute things but because of my size I either strange looks or negative comments from relatives. I've never felt comfortable to live how I wanted because I wasn't as slim as my sister. I wanted a daddy so much but I've never had the courage to join This site because I was , and still am scared of being laughed at for wanting to be cute with a body like mine. 

 

Its happened before....how do I know it wont happen again?

[cassafrass]

US sizes 18-20 depending, and I have severe issues when I am in little space because of it... As with anything, most of the media we see, even in this community, emphasizes really tiny littles and it can mess with your head for sure.

Thankfully, Sir is very happy with larger females and still sees us as His babygirls, regardless of our very grown up bodies lol.

 

Thanks to all the littles who post links around here for plus size clothing BTW, it's very helpful!

[PrincessBriiBaby]

Daddy won't let me say that I'm fat! I lost over 50 pounds since February, I'm at 295 pnds and I'm 5'9". In high school I was 200 and wore an 11/12 (U.S.). I've never been tiny in size, but I'm little in my heart! I've been "cute" forever and part of my "cuteness" is my chubbiness! It's what makes me, Britanie. I'd love to wear the little styles, but I have an alternative, my Daddy's mother is great at sewing and has offered to sew me a little outfit! I'm sure it won't be the last one

[Chelly]

I'm 25, 5 feet even, and ~235 pounds... I don't even know what size i wear cause I don't go shopping ever cause I feel so bad about my body and not fitting into anything cute. about 40 pounds of my weight I put on cause I don't have a thyroid anymore which helps regulate some hormones for that. Plus with depression, working for home, I tend to not exercise much more than basic walking. Like I'm good with how I look. I wish others would take it into consideration and make cute clothes for people like me >.<

[SpinSpinSugar]

I don't know if anyone has mentioned Sock Dreams yet but I highly recommend them for cute socks! I'm not only Super-sized, I'm six feet tall. The struggle is real. So I Dreams makes gorgeous socks in all sizes and their sock garters are great too! All my favourite socks are from Sock Dreams; they're worth the international shipping!

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

I'm also a not so little little. It's hard but I try and be myself and live myself. I'd love to talk to you and possibly be friends. You seem like a great gal

[daddyslittlefrenchprincess]

Newbie here. Just figured out that I'm a little and always have been. I'm 5'2 and fluctuate between 180 and about 195. Too heavy for my height. I love cutsy clothes and occasionally find something that works but not as much as I'd like. My daddy is 6'3 and has a football build but I still won't let him try and pick me up. I feel too big. I want to lose weight for him and feel comfortable with being picked up. I will sit in his lap though but even then I feel too big

[DaddyJsPrincess]

I'm chubby. Usually I wear a US 16 and it's reeeeally hard for me to find cute little clothes, especially since I like my little clothes to be kind of roomy.

 

I've sewn for years though and I made most of the clothes in my little wardrobe. Sometimes I have to buy "quirky old lady" clothes and fix them up a little if I want something I can't make. Usually fabric dye or an adjustment to the silhouette does the trick.

 

Other times if I can't make it (or don't want to put up with making mountains of ruffles because they are SUCH a pain in the ass) I check out Milanoo.com. Some of their Lolita style dresses have an option to order a custom size. I've never use that service but I've been tempted to on a number of occasions. If I ever do, I'll tell you all how it went

[CandyMilk]

New here! The pressure to be small has been both the best and worst part of this lifestyle for me.  The best because between wanting to please Daddy and following my rules, I've lost 85 pounds, which I never would have done!  But the worst also, because I worry about it so much all the time.  I'm still not small enough to get into actual girls' sizes, losing enough weight to do that is really hard.  I just try to remember how much I love making Daddy happy and proud, that he owns me and I belong to him.  But some days I feel like I will never get there.  I feel so bad about myself right now.

[SpinSpinSugar]

Oh my various deities, can I just take a moment and link this shop from Ontario??? Custom dresses and kimono dresses. I can't even with this. I don't know how she can make these at the prices she is offering, and I know customs to the UK must be crazy, but zomg, R2D2 kimono? GIEF.

 

https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/skycreation I am gonna be all over this place at the end of October.

 

 

 

Oh! And if you're in the UK, these tights are amazing!, and also are for the not so little. I've got my eye on the narwhal prints. https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/TejaJamilla

[nymphette]

I'm about 5'5" and about 196 lbs.  I has a chubby belly and huge thighs and hips. (my chest hasn't caught up i guess XD) 

I always think to myself, "I am never going to get to wear all these cute clothes I see other littles wear." Well I recently stopped thinking that. I know im not a "little" little, but that doesnt mean im not a little. I am starting to eat better and i am going to start exercising more. i am starting to be comfortable in my body and i am going to rock those cute skirts and dresses i see! c: