New Daddy Advice? - from both daddy's and little's perspective

[tenshicutie]

[MrWrongUk]

I think the daddy part is easy..i would guess the dom bit is hard for some guys (like me) every person/women/little has different needs so not one size fits all.

 

I would say go into detail with him on what you would like. Communication is key imo....god i sound like dr phil

[Leo_Ascendent]

Has he ever had a pet, specifically a dog? That's a very basic way of looking at being a Daddy. He has to teach, reward, punish, and take care of you. I know being compared to a dog probably isn't exactly flattering, but it's a very simplistic way to start out as being a Daddy.

 

Start with basics like what he, and you, expect from each other. Does he expect you to listen to him without question? Are you bratty or more princess like? What are the punishments, and are they REALLY punishments (ie, spanking isn't a punishment for my Little, she loves it), so finding what works when you misbehave is 100% needed. Likewise, what should he do when you do well (ie homework if you're in school, or cleaning your room, etc).

 

Have him start with those basics, and see how it goes. After that, gauge his dominance, and if possible, let us know on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being not very) dominant he is.

[Guest kirababygirl]

 

Has he ever had a pet, specifically a dog? That's a very basic way of looking at being a Daddy. He has to teach, reward, punish, and take care of you. I know being compared to a dog probably isn't exactly flattering, but it's a very simplistic way to start out as being a Daddy.

 

Start with basics like what he, and you, expect from each other. Does he expect you to listen to him without question? Are you bratty or more princess like? What are the punishments, and are they REALLY punishments (ie, spanking isn't a punishment for my Little, she loves it), so finding what works when you misbehave is 100% needed. Likewise, what should he do when you do well (ie homework if you're in school, or cleaning your room, etc).

 

Have him start with those basics, and see how it goes. After that, gauge his dominance, and if possible, let us know on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being not very) dominant he is.

 

I feel this is for sure a good start..i would agree 100%. Also remember that to be a good daddy dom he has to know you inside and out...otherwise how can he know what is best for you. I am wonder though if you aren't more talking about the dom side as in stern Daddy voice and a stern hand???