how to ask your dom or caretaker to be more authoritative

[Guest bunnydragon]

I finally have a mommy and a little girl im so happy that i am able to exspress both sides of me and am in veary happy relationships.Both of them are sweet kind and loving but i kinda want my mommy to be more authoritative i want to have a bed time and her be a tad bit more strict im not sure how to ask her this without making her feel bad or asking for a punishment please help thank you

[Guest Fros†beard]

Talk to her. That's... literally it.
Rules, such as bedtime, are things that you should always discuss thoroughly, together.
All relationships, but especially ones of this nature, require absolute honesty & open communication.

As for you wanting her to assert authority, well, I've noticed there's a sort of adjusting stage to DDLG relationship.
It might just happen naturally over time, but I feel you should be able to discuss this with her as well.

[Guest PrincessKittyx]

sometimes it can be scary to ask for what you want with your mouth. And that's okay! There are other ways to ask without asking. Writing a letter could help! It is a little less scary and you could decide to give it to your CG to read or you could read it to them! If you dont let your CG know what you need, you cant expect them to give it to you. So you gotta ask, but there are less scary/awkward ways to do it. And your CG will appreciate the open honesty! Hope this helps!

[Antoinette]

"Hey mommy, y'know I've been thinking about stuff and I thought it'd be nice if maybe you were a little bit more authoritative - I'd really like stricter rules!"

 

Something like that'd work, I think.

[Hot loving dom]

It can be scary but the environment he creates should encourage good and easy communication. Also is he just holding back on his authority andndominance or do you think he has possibly reached his peak. If it's the latter then you may find he feels uncomfortable being andom or more dominant

[boomslang]

Just open up a dialog. "I'm so thrilled with how things have progressed for us! Can we talk about taking things further or tweaking some things?" Also, remember to ask for her input and be open to discussing her wishes too.