When You Shouldn't Be A Nice Person

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

I've posted this on all of my kinky social media. If you're uncomfortable with profanity, please be aware that I swear repeatedly here.

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TW: child sexual abuse

 

When people find out I express a part of myself as a Little, they ask me what it is like or if I have “tips” for them. I don’t consider myself as any sort of expert. I’m fumbling along like everyone else.

 

I always try to be a nice person. I go out of my way to be kind and friendly. I love meeting new people and always want them to feel welcome.

 

There are times when you should not be a nice person, and it’s perfectly okay not to be. I’m going to share an incident with you.

 

I met this guy on a kink chat room that I’m not going to name. He knew I was a Little, and he began asking me questions. These questions were generic. I answered them and he proceeded to ask if I played with any Little Girl toys. I said yes. If you ask me about my dolls and stuffed animals, I will literally become a chatterbox. Fuck, I just love them! I even shared a picture of them with him. This is important. Remember this part.

 

He began asking how I view sex as a Little and if I have a Little age. I’m thinking about this because I don’t really discuss a Little “age” or whether or not I am a sexual Little with random strangers. I was kind of creeped out and told him that, so we began discussing other kinks. Yet he kept going back to whether or not I was a sexual Little or if I had a Little age [i never shared that].

 

This is where the picture is important. I watermark all of my pictures. He takes the watermark and Googles me. This motherfucker Googled me like a job interview.

 

He proceeds to tell me that he is a registered sex offender, and he says that he found a (since deleted) kink blog of mine. He proceeds to claim that my wanting to learn as a Little is like his wanting to “teach”. I was fucking disgusted. Fuck, I still am. There is no fucking way that you can compare my being childlike to a pedophile’s “teaching”. There is no fucking correlation. I’m not a child. I can consent to being in a power dynamic that I am “little”. An actual child cannot fucking consent.

 

I flipped out and literally ripped him a new one. I flipped out because he was a fucking pedophile. I flipped out because he took my expression as a Little and used it for his fucking gross agenda. I flipped out because he took a consentual power dynamic and compared it to abuse. I flipped the fuck out because he made a correlation that he was a “Daddy” since he wanted to teach. No dude, you’re not a “Daddy” when it’s actual physical children.

 

So there’s times where you don’t have to be a nice person and that is okay.

Edited August 28, 2017 by itsbabygirlbean

[Sir_Sir123]

Pedophilia make me depressed

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

Pedophilia make me depressed

It enrages me.

[dacgn]

Glad to hear you tore him a new one! DDlg is as you say between consenting adults no ifs ands buts or maybes. I believe this world is complex and that most things are more grey scale that black and white, pedophilia is not fucking one of them!

[Guest greenhoney]

THANK YOU SO MUCH. Ive always had issues with this, and it enrages me (and my Daddy) when someone tries to take advantage of a little using the "daddy" role for their sick ideas. ugh. 

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

THANK YOU SO MUCH. Ive always had issues with this, and it enrages me (and my Daddy) when someone tries to take advantage of a little using the "daddy" role for their sick ideas. ugh.

 

You are more than welcome.

[Frog]

Good job. A few close to me were victims of that. You handled it better than I probably would have.

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

Good job. A few close to me were victims of that. You handled it better than I probably would have.

My support to those close to you.

 

Thank you. I still feel gross about it all.