Help. I'm a little. Bf isn't into ddlg......

[FlatbedPrincess]

He knows I'm a little. Ddlg isn't his cup of tea. I've tried explaining to him I can't just quit. It's hard. Its who I am. And he knows I go into little space a lot. He asked what do I want him to do. I reply idk because it's not his thing... Ugh

[Danikuma00]

Sammeeeeee. What my boyfriend does might help your situation... so basically he knows that i'm turned on by it. and if I'm turned on then he gets turned on by me more so than the actual kink. I'm allowed to call him daddy and get spanked and all that jazz. however when it comes to littlespace i just go ahead and act the way i want to without giving it much of a title because if so, he gets weirded out by it. maybe you can just ask him what he likes to do as well so it might be an equal level of respect if you act out his wishes in the bedroom. idk if this was helpful. i sort of just ranted(:

[FlatbedPrincess]

I think that's where I vary. Because it isn't an arousal thing for me. I litterally only want a caregiver for when I'm in little space because I can't be in ls w/o a cg to help me and it makes me. Depressed.

[Danikuma00]

awww. maybe start off with watching movies together while holding a stuffie and ask if he can do things for you like prepare snacks. or when youre out maybe ask if he could buy you small stuff thats cute but affordable so he's willing to act on your request. maybe compliment him on how he's such a good person to you and how much he takes care of you to make him a more confident caregiver?? idk

[FlatbedPrincess]

Idk.. He's not into ddlg at all.. Ugh