My daddy has a habit of disappearing?

[kawaiighostx]

Hey all

 So, a bit of background. As far as littles go, I can say that I am pretty needy and clingy. I tend to also get jealous fairly easily. :/ (Although, I consider part of that just a part of my little complex).

 

 Anyways, my Daddy has a habit of disappearing for hours on end without a warning. This upsets me in particular since I have a tendency to worry. (That and i'm clingy haha). He'll say it was because he was asleep, which I understand of course. But often there is no explanation. I've tried talking with him a bit about it, and he has said he will do better to let me know when he needs to go or be alone or whatever, but things haven't really changed.  

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Also, this is his first dd/lg relationship and his first time being a daddy. Any ideas on what I should do? :') it's been making me pretty sad as of late. 

 

P.S, sorry if this is a dumb question lmao 

[Guest Soft_Fugde]

Hmm, I guess maybe your daddy is pretty busy with stuff? 

That's my guess tbh.

 

I dunno.

[AliciaCrunk]

I had the same exact problem and everytime it was a scene afterwards and i thought like how could he forget after i fought so much about it? I put him in my shoes and asked how he'd feel. Eventually he got better But it was a huge hill. But don't feel bad about it. You seem reasonable and clingy comes with the territory

[ISOSanity]

I know exactly how you feel! My last Daddy was, thankfully, really good about keeping contact but I think it's definitely going to be a hard thing to deal with in future relationships. I don't really have any advice, because I get just as anxious, sad, and worried as you do but just here to say that I totally understand and feel the same way! Edited August 24, 2017 by ISOSanity

[curlyheadspace]

I know the feelings and situations.

Ask him what he's doing when he's not texting you back. If it's his first time being a Daddy he should understand how much attention and anxiety soothing little needs.

My Daddy for example sometimes doesn't text me back but he always gives me explanation when I ask or not, before or after, on why didn't he reply, it's e.g. because he went to the grocery store, was reading a book, fell aspleep. He always tries to answer me back but I know that firstly, it's not possible always because there are things important and more important and secondly, men love slightly different than women I think - that's what I tell myself when I get all feelings mixed up in that situations.

Ask him and maybe try to push a little to squeeze the reasons out of him. It shouldn't be a secret what he's doing without his little. Cause it's not very probable that he's a secret agent or so...

But I advise you to ask him face-to-face, if you can of course. If's better that way, because his behaviour and/or reaction may tell you a lot.

Edited August 24, 2017 by e-nchanted