How to talk about it: Help!

[LittleCornflower]

I have this one friend who kind of acts caregiver-ish towards me. And whenever we talk I am almost always going to go into Little Space with him. The thing is, I'm not sure if he even knows what ddlg is. I really want to talk to him about it, but not sure how to bring it up? We're not dating or anything, and he lives in Canada and I live in the US, not sure if that really matters. 

He's not super dominating or anything, but I would really like him to be more of a "daddy" and take more control. 

I guess I'm just not sure how to bring up the idea to him? 

[Ikneelonly4Daddy]

"There's something I really want to talk to you about but not sure how." Always works for me.

[Antoinette]

The thing is you're never going to get anywhere with this unless you just come out and say how you feel and what you're thinking. Honestly, why hold back? You two aren't an item, you're just friends. So at the very worst all that happens is you lose a (valuable, I'm assuming) friendship and the best thing that could happen is you gain a daddy. Would you risk one for the chance of another? That's what you have to decide. 

 

With regards to initially starting the conversation you could be subtle about it, ask him if he's ever heard about DDlg, or even if he's dominant. Perhaps ask him if he's ever taken a BDSM test and trade results - things like that. And if it turns out he is a DD, or even if he's interested in the lifestyle, go from there. 

 

Good luck.

[LittleCornflower]

I went ahead and messaged him, trying to answer his questions as best as I can. lol Thank you for the help! I will keep ya'll updated.  

[LittleCornflower]

And he said he's interested in the idea! 

[Ikneelonly4Daddy]

Cool!

[Guest TenderhartMommy]

Such wonderful news  Be patient with him and take things slow and most important, communicate.

[LittleCornflower]

And see what's hard is that I have really know idea what to ask/do? It's both our "first times". Is there like a ddlg 101? lmao