Confused and scared

[Guest StonerBaby]

Why do daddys say they want to know everything n share everything when thats not really what they want? Why do they ask me to open n be vulnerable, share my insecurities then ghost out on me when I share that part of me? I know everyone finds confidence attractive but how am I to build any confidence when I only get lied to and left without a word? I dont want to lonely and insecure feeling like I'm damaged and unlovable but thats what happens every time I let someone in..I'm never good enough once they know my insecurities...

And why say you want needy and clingy but then push me away when I have those days? Why can't anyone just tell me the truth..you dont have to lie to me about loving me if all you want is playtime..I'm not a toy..I have a mind of my own and a fragile heart..why can't anyone just be honest?

[AliciaCrunk]

oh honey bun i went through something very similar and I'm still going through it.... therapy has helped me a lot. i know its expensive but its worth it! also build a bear is a real picker upper <3

[osito]

*hugs you both*

Man. It's terrible when that happens.

But! There are good, honest daddies out there!!! *hugs* don't give up on love. And remember that you are worthwhile!

[SkunkPrincess]

First of all, you never have to share everything with a Daddy you barely know. They might tell you that but as you can see, they will ghost you because they are selfish pricks who don't care. 

Only tell your secrets and stuff to a Daddy you really trust and talked with for very long. They will understand!

[iLuvKittens14]

ditto to all of the OP, except about littles

[Guest Loki]

That is a stinky thing to do to anyone and is sad it happens to you. Unfortunately many people say whatever as long as they get what they want. Don’t let those people color your prerception of peeps

 

One thing I noticed tho is most people do want their others to be vunerable and open, just not all at once. Like I mean, um, how someone might love swimming but when starting out don’t want to be dropped in the middle of the ocean with no instructions.

 

Don’t give up!

[TinyMoonPrincess]

I totally relate and I am so sorry.. I know it hurts more than anything.