Percentage of "creepy" DD on the internets

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Sadly, some boys just wanna get their dicky sticky And they think us easy prey. Outsiders and "Tourists" as my Dominus likes to call them think that as submissive we are weak and gullible. These are the same kind of douche canoes that feed drunk girls more alcohol at nightclubs in hopes of scoring.

 

Long before I discovered ddlg I was a domestic submissive. Kinda like a step Ford wife. I joined get life because I heard it was like Facebook for people like me.... I quickly learned that was not correct but as a previous poster stated - creeps are everywhere! Every social group and place has its weirdos. When I first joined here I was a little too trusting and added people thinking "nice! Friends!" And had a very unpleasant experience with a guy who seemed to have the impression that as a Dom, all submissive had to give in to his charms.... and I use the term charms...very loosely. This is by far the safest place I have seen for littles, hands down.. but it happens here too.

 

Discretion and caution are important regardless of where you are.

 

The Internet's anonymous nature is alluring for people like that because if they whipped their bits out in the mall and said half the crap they had the balls to type out... they'd be arrested and probably registered as a sexual offenders lol

 

And for every creepy DD wannabe there's a gold digging skanger calling herself a little looking for some poor fool to give her money and buy her things because they think it's acceptable.

Edited October 27, 2016 by Lil' Miss Dolly

[Guest Aussie]

As an older DD myself I am very cautious when speaking to a little for the first time especially as many littles have experienced these creepers on more than one occasion so it makes it harder for those of us who are simply friendly and not out for instant gratification, which by the way seems to be another trend on both sides of the fence. Respect, courtesy, and empathy seem to be disappearing sadly.

[Guest Little_Galaxy]

There are a lot of creeps out there. At this point, I’m leery of posting any information about myself at all. When I first filled out my Fetlife and posted some tasteful photos, I got a bunch of messages from people telling me to call them master, inviting me to be a cam girl, saying what they wanted to do me in graphic detail or asking me to play without even bothering to say hi first. Those people must think littles/subs are easy targets or something. Why would anyone respond to some random forceful, "I am alpha," message from a stranger? That approach can't actually work.... It's expected to an extent, but it was a little frustrating. Just because it's a kink site doesn't mean common decency can be abandoned.

 

A guy from Fetlife managed to find my social media accounts and harassed me there, which was really terrifying. (It's fine now.)  I deactivated my Fetlife account after that and completely abandoned my search for a while. I recently made my account here but I’m still trying to figure out what approach to take. Like how to protect myself, but to still be open enough to really meet someone. I’m afraid I’m just going to be preyed upon, cat fished, or harassed. I realize the internet makes meeting like-minded people easier, but I don’t really like anonymity of it; anyone could be on the other end. But I know there are creeps anywhere you go, online or not. And there are lots of good people all around us too!

 

There’s probably another world of frustration on the DD side of it as well. Like littles who are only looking to take advantage of their kindness or think this is some kind of trendy thing to play around with. There are plenty of people who seem to have the right intentions though. And they seem to be handling things pretty well. I’m just peacefully sitting on the sidelines observing until I feel brave enough to be a big girl and find my amazing Daddy, wherever he is.   ^.^  

 

I will say the DD/lg forum has been much better than my Fetlife experience. lol.

 

 

 

After posting, I realized this turned into a bit of a rambling rant. Oopsie! Sorry about that.

Edited October 29, 2016 by Little_Galaxy

[DollDirector]

This is really ddlgforum at it's best ! Thank you all

 

Just my 2cents,and because this has not yet been mentioned on this thread: When looking for someone it's really necessary to make it clear you are not going to send more than xx messages before you "stop and make sure" you could actually meet if you felt like it.

Also,I can't imagine myself asking for,or sending a nude to,someone I haven't met IRL.

This is not going to solve issues such as gold digging like Lil' Miss Dolly quite rightly mentions,but hopefully anyone trying to fake from behind their screen is going to flee if you talk about public places you both know and could use in the event of a future date.