Being a little and setting boundaries

[MiAcushla]

I am still pretty new to DD/lg, never had a Daddy type or really gotten to indulge that side of myself. I have found in my search for a Daddy that so many people seem to think I should just be grateful for any attention at all and get quite upset when I try to set any boundaries at all. I think I am being reasonable but its starting to get to a point where I am wondering if I am just being a shrew. The whole thing is just depressing.

 

Has anyone else dealt with issues when they try to establish boundaries with people?

[Antoinette]

If the person doesn't respect your boundaries then they don't respect you. You're not being unreasonable, it's your boundaries, nobody else's. It may just be wherever you're finding these daddies - you'll find different types of people in different areas. I'm sure a lot of the DDs on here are extremely mindful of boundaries, at least the daddies I've talked to are at least. But, if you're talking to daddies from say Omegle or even Tumblr and whatnot you're going to find a lot of toxic ownership/God complexes. 

[BruceDaLittle]

ive had issues with mommy doms too not jus respecting my boundaries but not respecting me in general

[MiAcushla]

If the person doesn't respect your boundaries then they don't respect you. You're not being unreasonable, it's your boundaries, nobody else's. It may just be wherever you're finding these daddies - you'll find different types of people in different areas. I'm sure a lot of the DDs on here are extremely mindful of boundaries, at least the daddies I've talked to are at least. But, if you're talking to daddies from say Omegle or even Tumblr and whatnot you're going to find a lot of toxic ownership/God complexes. 

 

I have been looking mostly on Fetlife and more recently OKCupid. I don't even know how Tumblr works and never heard of Omegle.

[MiAcushla]

ive had issues with mommy doms too not jus respecting my boundaries but not respecting me in general

Sorry you had to go through that, it sucks not being respected.

[BruceDaLittle]

Sorry you had to go through that, it sucks not being respected.

Agreed and I still havent found a mommy an i sicky so bein big is really hard. best of luck AdorableAcushia

[jakooluo]

It's completely normal to want to put boundaries to be honest, do not feel bad about yourself. Best of luck.

[Sweetstix]

Lack of a strong foundation boundary system invites disrespect. Anyone who truly is worth your time and trust will be accepting of those limits that you have set in place. Pay attention to where other people react with anger and hostility to your boundaries. You have found the edge where their respect for you ends. You can be a good little with a kind heart and so much to offer and still say "no". Anyone who projects guilt on you for protecting yourself and your wants/needs, should be removed from your life. You will receive only what you are willing to accept.

If you need a supporting conversation about the setting of proper boundaries that you see fit; please don't hesitate to contact me. This was the single most important aspect of my blossoming relationship.