Daddy doesn't want to be daddy anymore

[Guest LittleMissBelle]

My new daddy said he might not want to date my little side and I don't know what to do. I met him on here and I thought he wanted to be a daddy.

 

Any advice?

[YourSecretDaddy]

I dunno what I could say without being a little horrible.. I think he maybe feels like people might make fun for loving someone who loves being little and acting younger so he might be trying to adjust to it.. maybe give it some time and see if he changes his mind?!? That's the best advice I can give.

[Guest LittleMissBelle]

I hadn't thought of that. Thank you

[YourSecretDaddy]

Just trying to help out.. always about on Kik if you need anything else btw Your_Secret_Daddy

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

Hmm, since there are a lot unknown factors here - I can only give you my own opinion. A general idea on what may be going on.

 

The first thing that comes to mind is: how long has he been a daddy? Perhaps he isnt as comfortable or experienced with ddlg as he thought and he prefers to maintain a vanilla relationship. Possibly building up to a ddlg dynamic once the bond grows stronger. It seems as if he wants to be with you in the way he feels most comfortable - which is good! That shows that he doesnt want to lose you. However, if you are looking for a full fledged ddlg relationship then you need to express this to him immediately. Only you truly know what you want and if he willing to incorporate ddlg elements into the relationship thn perhaps its best to reach a compromise. If you have feelings for him and he is willing to try , at some point, then just be patient and see how the relationship progresses. Otherwise, just look for someone that will satisfy your expectations - theres no reason to force yourself to be with someone.

 

Either way, I really hope it works out for you

I wish you the very best. Take care

Edited August 8, 2017 by Stuffykins

[DavCentral]

I kind of feel like if you met him on here, then he understands what you're looking for... and surely he's looking for the same?

 

My biggest question is, what did he mean by "might not want to date your little side".

have you discussed what you and he are like? what you want? are you compatible?

 

My personal onion, with regards to dating: you need to get to know each other as adults, find out how comfortable you are around him, and therefor how happy you' be to be little with him.

[Guest daddy_zach]

I would give him a little more time; but make it clear to him, that being little is an integral part of you.

 

If he can't accept your little side or learn to adjust to it, I feel it will lead to unhappiness for both of you.

 

Good luck & Best wishes <3

[Guest LittleMissBelle]

Thank you everyone for your help:) Xx