Breaking up: How to

[shortNsweet]

I have a friend (little, slave, sub, pet, etc.) who is no longer feeling fulfilled in her relationship and has decided to leave her dom (Daddy Dom and Master, in her case).

 

She has no clue how to go about doing it. And, unfortunately, I haven't been able to offer much help as I've never had a Daddy :/  Does anyone have any ideas?

 

BTW, they are in a LDR.

Edited August 6, 2017 by shortNsweet

[osito]

Well, there are s couple of ways to go about it.

But it's probably best for her just to be straightforward. Tell him what the problem has been and that it's time yo gontheir separate ways. One big thing she needs to be careful of is him trying to rope her back in with a sob story and a lot of "I'll do better" attempts to keep her. She needs to be strong. Don't fall for that stuff. She shouldn't feel like she's "not allowed" because she's subby

[Princess-P]

Breaking up with a caregiver is no different than breaking up with any other person. Were grown, she's grown, he's grown... This is an easy situation. Say its not working and break up.

[Guest Daddyskitten65]

They need to explain how they feel and that they are not happy in the relationship.

[DavCentral]

She's just gotta tell him how she feels, not as little/slave/sub, but as his equal.

 

Maybe she can write down how she feels so she doesn't forget to tell him any of it.

 

But yeah, only one way for her to get what she wants, and thats communicate clearly and calmly. She also needs to be prepared to answer any questions he may have. Break ups are never easy but an open conversation about it will help both sides understand why its happening and be accepting of it.

[Guest Fros†beard]

I think it's imporant to mention that the CG has no right to go, "well, you're mine, you're not going anywhere."
If the situation is as described, she just has to put her honest feelings out there and it should roll on from there.