A daddy feeling like a little, I feel lost, please help

[Guest Dark wolf]

Hey all. I need help. I've recently joined the cg/l lifestyle. I always thought I'd be a daddy but I've been doubting myself lately. I'm a soft and gentle person, I love games and cartoon. I also love being taken care of as well as taking care of someone. I dunno what I am anymore. Am I secretly a little or what's going on with me?

[Antoinette]

It sounds like you're either just a not-so-dominant daddy or you could be a switch.

 

Do a little more research into switches, talk to other DDs on here for more insight and I'm sure you'll figure it out.

[Guest Dark wolf]

I feel weird being a switch. I'd prefer being one or the other. Thanks for the advice :)

[Guest pumpkinmunchkin]

I think your just a Daddy. Maybe not a Dom. Certainly nothing wrong with that or feeling vulnerable. Some littles like being able to care for their Daddy too. I know I always did.

[Guest Dark wolf]

I took some time to think about it, talked with some friends, and decided to be honest with myself for once, I want to be a little.even the thought makes me happy

[Guest Mittens]

Personally, i am a caring and doting daddy. i love to do things with my little like coloring, playing games, watching cartoons, playing with stuffies, tea parties, ect. But when it comes to the rules I can be stern and put my foot down. No means no, and i am willing to take any action necessary to enforce the rules as long as it goes along with the guidelines we set up. I can be cuddly and loving and I need tons and tons attention, which is coming to my attention of being literally impossible to find as much as I need. LOL! However, I am trying to be patient and get over that, I only need to suffer a little while till I am more used to it. But I am a daddy, just because you are sensitive doesn't mean much, you don't have to be stern, daddy's can baby talk their littles, and they can have fun. They don't really push the rules though and they uphold them and they know when to be loving and caring for the one they are with. They are always willing to push aside their happiness to give their little what they need. That's my opinion. I felt I was a switch myself for awhile, but things like coloring and playing with toys doesn't excite me or take my mind off things or De-stress me like it does for littles. But i love doing them with someone. It's that bonding and spending time feeling i enjoy so much. Again, this is just me, I hope I can give you insight from an almost similar situation.

[Guest Dark wolf]

Thanks a lot mittens, really appreciate the advice, but I think I've found what I was looking for. And the acceptance I've receiving has made me feel so special. It's like something I've never experienced before. I feel like I have found where I belong.