Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Littlemerlot]

Hi all. New here 25 real age. Not really sure what my little/middle age is? Maybe 12?

 

I’ve been a little/middle for a long time, since hs? Maybe 13 years old? And my little age varies a lot. I have a “daddy” in some sense of the word. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6.5 years but I only really call him that in bed. Would love to take it further but not really sure how to get there. I feel like it was monumental when I first called him daddy in bed but feel like it’s plateaued from there. Any advice?

[Aniboy8215]

Hi all. I am 38m and little 5-7ish? I new to my little side and just wanted to say Hi to everyone and give hugs!.

[sprinklelove]

Hey! Older little/middle - looking for other older DDlg friends - just friends - I like science and witchcraft and my stuffy and reading - what do you like?!?

[Aria]

Hellos! I'm a older little (34 RL age, 2-6 Little Age) I've been away for a while but I was really missing it here and being around other Littles where its safe!

I'm from Australia, and I love fandoms of all types. Supernatural, Doctor Who, Comics, etc) I also love animals and I have two big doggies (who are trying to kick me off my bed right now cause they love to snuggle up to me when they sleep). It's almost dawn here and I couldn't stay asleep.

[Guest Bashful_Flower218]

I feel like I am definately a middle. Most likely in the 12 year old range. I'm sure there's not too many middles on here, but that's what I always felt like. 

[Whitesox]

I've just turned 60, am big-boned, overweight and cannot imagine ever being described as little girl - although I have been called "big girl", though I would identify more as a middle.

Being big and older makes the whole thing seem very hard to follow as a lifestyle, or to have hope of finding a relationship. Add to that that I feel what I want so close to vanilla and asexual most might think "why bother?"

 

I don't hold out a lot of hope, it's a bit late in life to figure out this interests me. But I plan to go to a munch when lockdown is over on the basis that at least people will understand if they ask what I'm into and they'll be a more interesting crowd than down at the local pub.

 

In a niche community with limited members is it possible I could find someone big strong and masterful who could make me feel more little? 

If anyone is interested in an elderly, very plump lady who is tall, asexual, arty and a middle who wants to go to galleries and restaurants playing subtle ageplay that passers-by would not even notice is happening, talk to me!

 

But I suspect a lot of us will have trouble finding a great playmate because desire is so specific, and relatively few people share this kink.

So it's really nice to find a virtual community where people can talk, share, learn and scratch the itch a little, but safely.

 

 

 

[Whitesox]

I feel like I am definately a middle. Most likely in the 12 year old range. I'm sure there's not too many middles on here, but that's what I always felt like. 

 

I've only just realised "middle" is a term. Early to mid teens is where I feel I'd be happy.

I don't know how many others there are, but you're not alone.

[Cabbitgurl]

My license says I'm 37, but my little age is 8... I feel like I'm going to be unloved forever because I didn't find someone when I was much younger... also because of my... problems

[Little kaiya]

My license says I'm 37, but my little age is 8... I feel like I'm going to be unloved forever because I didn't find someone when I was much younger... also because of my... problems

I didn't find my Daddy until I was 39 and now were talking about marriage. Never give up looking and hoping.

[Guest Bashful_Flower218]

I feel like I may give up right now. It seems like all the Daddy Doms who are interested in me, only want to focus on the sex part. Thats not what I want to focus on. If people don't want to get to know me, I can't relate with them and feel close with them on a personal level.. I'm not a sob... but I love talking deeply, having conversations about life and knowing their hobbies and interests. I don't want to be just a sex object, I'm more than that. If there main focus is sex, I ignore them.

[plushiepoodle]

Hi everyone! I'm a 34-year-old little (I feel like I'm 6 years old!) and this thread is super relatable. Just earlier today I was looking at some super cute schoolgirl pleated skirts for adults and noticing that all the models on the site were like 20 years old. I felt like I was way too old to buy something like that, which stinks when I just want to enjoy my littlespace!

[Whitesox]

Hi everyone! I'm a 34-year-old little (I feel like I'm 6 years old!) and this thread is super relatable. Just earlier today I was looking at some super cute schoolgirl pleated skirts for adults and noticing that all the models on the site were like 20 years old. I felt like I was way too old to buy something like that, which stinks when I just want to enjoy my littlespace!

 

No way!

If you can find stuff to fit enjoy it. You don't have to wear it to work, although when you play a bit at home and get used to it you may be surprised what you can wear just to maintain a personal connexion to little space with no one even noticing.

 

There was a lady I used to see before lockdown in a cafe, must have been in her 60s, and I used to wonder whether she knew her grey pinafore and white blouse looked like a school uniform... whether it was deliberate? But it was smart and she seemed to treat it like her work uniform, and no one else seemed to think it even slightly odd.

 

Takes one to know one - or not?

[Whitesox]

I feel like I may give up right now. It seems like all the Daddy Doms who are interested in me, only want to focus on the sex part. Thats not what I want to focus on. If people don't want to get to know me, I can't relate with them and feel close with them on a personal level.. I'm not a sob... but I love talking deeply, having conversations about life and knowing their hobbies and interests. I don't want to be just a sex object, I'm more than that. If there main focus is sex, I ignore them.

 

No don't be discouraged.

There's always a surplus of men thinking about sex. There must be thoughtful intelligent ones out there too. Keep plodding on with patience and hope. But don't put all your eggs in this basket either. You may meet someone who's not into this scene at all, find them attractive, and they may love the idea once introduced.

Things don't always happen immediately, but put your desires on a back burner on constant simmer and something will probably appear in time.

[Cabbitgurl]

I didn't find my Daddy until I was 39 and now were talking about marriage. Never give up looking and hoping.

I thought I found the one, I had a papa... I thought we were in love. I think we were... but he... he was abusive. It was the hardest thing in the world leaving him. 6 and half years I spent with him... If eel like I'm unloveable now... but... thank you for the kind words.

 

Maybe after Covid is finally over, I'll be able to try again

[Whitesox]

I thought I found the one, I had a papa... I thought we were in love. I think we were... but he... he was abusive. It was the hardest thing in the world leaving him. 6 and half years I spent with him... If eel like I'm unloveable now... but... thank you for the kind words.

 

Maybe after Covid is finally over, I'll be able to try again

 

Yes, Cabbitgurl, Covid gives us all a bit of time to think although it can be a lonely thinking time.

 

Feeling unlovable is a really common reaction to being hurt, but it's not justified especially when you're the hurt party.

You may have to consciously remind yourself to be kind to yourself for a while. Keep all your plushies close, they'll never let you down and will help keeping up the loving feelings for when it feels safe again.

[Cabbitgurl]

Yes, Cabbitgurl, Covid gives us all a bit of time to think although it can be a lonely thinking time.

 

Feeling unlovable is a really common reaction to being hurt, but it's not justified especially when you're the hurt party.

You may have to consciously remind yourself to be kind to yourself for a while. Keep all your plushies close, they'll never let you down and will help keeping up the loving feelings for when it feels safe again.

I really hoope you are right. Also, OMG your shoes are soooo cuteeeee! Also your socks, awwwww!

[Avy]

Henloo

I wish this was still an active thread, but I’m new and maybe there is one.

[Avy]

I've just turned 60, am big-boned, overweight and cannot imagine ever being described as little girl - although I have been called "big girl", though I would identify more as a middle.

Being big and older makes the whole thing seem very hard to follow as a lifestyle, or to have hope of finding a relationship. Add to that that I feel what I want so close to vanilla and asexual most might think "why bother?"

 

I don't hold out a lot of hope, it's a bit late in life to figure out this interests me. But I plan to go to a munch when lockdown is over on the basis that at least people will understand if they ask what I'm into and they'll be a more interesting crowd than down at the local pub.

 

In a niche community with limited members is it possible I could find someone big strong and masterful who could make me feel more little? 

If anyone is interested in an elderly, very plump lady who is tall, asexual, arty and a middle who wants to go to galleries and restaurants playing subtle ageplay that passers-by would not even notice is happening, talk to me!

 

But I suspect a lot of us will have trouble finding a great playmate because desire is so specific, and relatively few people share this kink.

So it's really nice to find a virtual community where people can talk, share, learn and scratch the itch a little, but safely.

 

 

 

Henloo

 

I hope I am replying properly.

 

It makes my heart soar to see you here. I just turned 57 and I figured that I would have no luck making friends my own age. I am kinda stuck feeling middle but I think I would love for a friend to trust to let me let out my little side.

 

I live in the US but I've been to london years ago and actually did my first two years of uni there.

I hope i'm not rambling on but i'm so happy to see someone I may be able to relate to as a big.

I'm just so glad to see you

 

Avy

[Avy]

I've just turned 60, am big-boned, overweight and cannot imagine ever being described as little girl - although I have been called "big girl", though I would identify more as a middle.

Being big and older makes the whole thing seem very hard to follow as a lifestyle, or to have hope of finding a relationship. Add to that that I feel what I want so close to vanilla and asexual most might think "why bother?"

 

I don't hold out a lot of hope, it's a bit late in life to figure out this interests me. But I plan to go to a munch when lockdown is over on the basis that at least people will understand if they ask what I'm into and they'll be a more interesting crowd than down at the local pub.

 

In a niche community with limited members is it possible I could find someone big strong and masterful who could make me feel more little? 

If anyone is interested in an elderly, very plump lady who is tall, asexual, arty and a middle who wants to go to galleries and restaurants playing subtle ageplay that passers-by would not even notice is happening, talk to me!

 

But I suspect a lot of us will have trouble finding a great playmate because desire is so specific, and relatively few people share this kink.

So it's really nice to find a virtual community where people can talk, share, learn and scratch the itch a little, but safely.

Henloo

 

I think I messed it up. I thought I replied to this post of yours. We have a lot in common. I just turned 57 and was not holding out hope I would find someone big my age. I'm a little but I think I have been stuck being a middle for a long time, without even knowing it. I made a long rambling post to this but I guess I didn't post.

A few key points, I'm also female and asexual. I spent my first 2 years of uni in london. I'm in the US and quite lonely. I'm also Black so I don't know how many people are or who care about that. I'd love to be able to see if we could be friends also because of the shared cultural things age wise. I thought I would reach out.

 

Avy

[Cabbitgurl]

Henloo

I wish this was still an active thread, but I’m new and maybe there is one.

What's up? you okay?

[MaddieJasper]

I'm in my late 40s, still need my little space. Should have nothing to do with age. Am I way too old??

[Little kaiya]

Nope, im 42 and a little. Biological age only means something if you let it. My Daddy loves having me as His little and age never comes into it.

[DaddysLittleRageMonster]

Agreed! My daddy and I are both in our 30's. I'm happy to see younger littles/middles exploring the community and I also feel like I'm too old to enjoy the things I do. :/

 

I'm down to make older middle/little friends if folx are looking to connect.

[Whitesox]

Henloo

 

I think I messed it up. I thought I replied to this post of yours. We have a lot in common. I just turned 57 and was not holding out hope I would find someone big my age. I'm a little but I think I have been stuck being a middle for a long time, without even knowing it. I made a long rambling post to this but I guess I didn't post.

A few key points, I'm also female and asexual. I spent my first 2 years of uni in london. I'm in the US and quite lonely. I'm also Black so I don't know how many people are or who care about that. I'd love to be able to see if we could be friends also because of the shared cultural things age wise. I thought I would reach out.

 

Avy

 

Hi Avy, 

Sorry for the late reply.

 

I tend not to check in too often, especially as I've not long been a member so I'm only just meeting people and don't want to come back too often when I'll not be interacting a great deal. If you can cope with my not appearing more than every couple of weeks it would be nice to chat. Great to hear of our common interests. If you're looking for a big, I don't think that would be me, and I'm very inexperienced in all this.

I've always been kinda kinky but mostly in private and I didn't even know the idea of being a "middle" until recently and it feels like it might be a good fit for me. But I guess it would always depend on relationships. I imagine there would be some people it would just feel silly to be a little with, and others it would feel impossible to be a grown up with, and those feelings would probably vary from person to person. I don't know though, I'm just guessing.

 

But we can parley as a couple of middles wondering where our bigs might be, wondering how many big folk would still find us interesting if we're asexual - which seems wholly appropriate to me in age play, but I suppose some people want adult relationships outside of the play scenario and would want something sexy in that space. I guess most people need that, but I've been single and celibate so long I can't remember if I even knew what I'm missing and I'm happy enough with that.

I was deeply "in love" once, but it was awful really. I don't see the point unless I'm madly, head-over-heels in love: and I know now that that's not a good state of mind. For me anyway.

 

So if you're okay with my only passing this way occasionally, then do let's chat.

 

In the meantime

Happy Easter

 

XX

Maryjane

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Hello.. I found this thread thanks to a topic actually asking for a special page for older Littles. I am new here. I am trying to make new friends about my age... Feeling alone as an "older" Little makes me feel very anxious. I have always shifted to what is called "Little Space" naturally but finding out about DDLG a month or so ago has actually made things bit more complicated as I tend to over analyze everything... I am 44. I'm super awkward at these things so.. not sure what to say... I am French. The DDLG community is no-existent or very well hidden in France. So far I only completed my profile and posted an introduction post... I had joined a FB group but older Littles were being ignored so I left. I am in a relationship. We're exploring.. So, if you want to interact with me, please go ahead. Thanks