Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Gntlheart]

This is a great idea! I'm a 54 yr old middle. I'm 16 in middle space. It would be great to meet older middles to talk to

[LeeLee1]

Waves hi I’m new as well.And new to being a little .which as an older little feel so nice to meet other older littles x

[PolyMolly]

Hi all! I am turning 39 next week and have pretty recently discovered my little side. I think I'm a middle, around 13 or so. Not totally certain yet. I'm located in Alberta, Canada.

 

I almost had a Daddy last year (unexpectedly). He is 27 now. We are still together but he has a 24/7 little and she doesn't want him to be anyone else's Daddy. I understand and respect that but he has great Daddy energy so it's hard not to think of him as that or call him that while we're together.

 

I'm currently searching in earnest for my Daddy. I'm happy there is a specific thread for us older littles!

[Guest HRed74]

I agree. I’m in my 40’s. Doesn’t mean I don’t want things not everyone can give me.

[Guest liljeannie]

Nice to see other older Littles/Middles. I just felt really weird that I'm discovering this so late in my life. I almost didn't want to post on this site. Hello to all!

[Amber_dragon]

Hi all! I am turning 39 next week and have pretty recently discovered my little side. I think I'm a middle, around 13 or so. Not totally certain yet. I'm located in Alberta, Canada.

 

I almost had a Daddy last year (unexpectedly). He is 27 now. We are still together but he has a 24/7 little and she doesn't want him to be anyone else's Daddy. I understand and respect that but he has great Daddy energy so it's hard not to think of him as that or call him that while we're together.

 

I'm currently searching in earnest for my Daddy. I'm happy there is a specific thread for us older littles!

Hi Molly, I'm in SK if you wanna be chat friends, I sent you a friend request. Nice to find someone (relatively) close. I'm 35 too, so similar age. 

[LittleNece]

I am a  47 yo mom of 3. Married for 27 years and just recently had an aha moment while reading some Ddlg stories that have made me wonder if I am submissive and possibly Little. I prefer animated movies over mostly everything besides Hallmark movies, and avoid the news as much as possible. I prefer reading to TV, and love playing games and coloring on my iPad. My husband is not the Daddy type and definitely does not have a Dominant bone in his body. I am so new to this I don’t know where to start to explore who I may be. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.

[Amber_dragon]

I am a  47 yo mom of 3. Married for 27 years and just recently had an aha moment while reading some Ddlg stories that have made me wonder if I am submissive and possibly Little. I prefer animated movies over mostly everything besides Hallmark movies, and avoid the news as much as possible. I prefer reading to TV, and love playing games and coloring on my iPad. My husband is not the Daddy type and definitely does not have a Dominant bone in his body. I am so new to this I don’t know where to start to explore who I may be. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.

Hello! It's cool that you are exploring.  What I did when I was getting started was set aside my own Little Space time with no distractions... maybe that's something you could do? See what you can set up to make it cozy, have some nice toys etc.  And for the submissive aspect, you can start by "self-collaring"... again set aside some time for this, make one or two simple rules... decide how you are going to follow them, what the consequences are if you don't and how you will enforce them. See how it feels.  Go from there and explore deeper if that all sits well.  

[LittleNece]

Amber_dragon, Thank you for the suggestions. I think I have been allowing Little time without really realizing it. I’ll have to try doing more during those times. As for the “self-collaring”, I’ll have to think about that. Thanks again!!

[Guest HRed74]

Hey, I’m a 46 yr old Mother of 3. Just accepting my little now. I wish I could help but new to this as well..

[LittleNece]

Hey, I’m a 46 yr old Mother of 3. Just accepting my little now. I wish I could help but new to this as well..

Good to know I’m not alone. We can explore and learn together.

[Guest HRed74]

We sure can.

[evilday]

Agreed. I’m 37, a middle with a family and in a STEM field and it’s a much different experience than it was in my 20s and single. My needs as a middle now are vastly different than they were 10 years ago. I’d love to see how many more people there are in our age range and discuss little/middle life with careers, families, and other experiences unique to our age range.

[Guest HRed74]

We can all try to help each other if we can, regardless of our little or middle ages

[fushidarananeko]

Hi hi!

I am turning 33 in about a month, and while I do feel like I am old...

And sometimes struggle with my feelings of being little, 

I feel like me being a mom makes me more out of place than being older.

[LittleNece]

 

Hi hi!

I am turning 33 in about a month, and while I do feel like I am old...

And sometimes struggle with my feelings of being little, 

I feel like me being a mom makes me more out of place than being older.

 

I am a little worried about that too. My youngest is a college senior and will be home for the holidays soon. I’ve just started allowing myself to let go and now I won’t be able to. Do you have a caregiver you can lean on during private times?

[fushidarananeko]

I am a little worried about that too. My youngest is a college senior and will be home for the holidays soon. I’ve just started allowing myself to let go and now I won’t be able to. Do you have a caregiver you can lean on during private times?

No, I don't have a caregiver, and I am the only one who cares for my daughter.

So private time is a very rare thing for me.

[LittleNece]

 

No, I don't have a caregiver, and I am the only one who cares for my daughter.

So private time is a very rare thing for me.

 

I understand that. While my circumstances are different in that I am married, my husband is in Emergency Services and has always had the weird schedules so I did 90ish% of the parenting. It is possible to be with someone and still be lonely. I have always found my decompress time after everyone went to bed. I hope you can find some time yourself and I hope you find some comfort on the form!

[Kitten_princesd]

Yes there should be a section for us older littles/middles..I don't particularly care for the drama of the young ones.

[Kichōna]

Hello! i know I'm definitely not an older little but I want all of the older littles who come on to this topic to know that you are very inspiring! To be able to continue being who you are and doing what you love despite backlash from society and maybe even within the community is amazingly powerful. You manage to tackle an adult life while enjoying littlespace and that's something I really hope I am able to emulate the older I get. You are wise members of this community who I really look up to for advice not only about the community but in the outside world too! So please remember that you are all very special, unique and, most importantly, very cute. ^o^

[lilsmarty]

Just wanted to say hi to folks interested in this topic. I'm 53 and LOVING being a baby girl/middle/brat. Happy to talk to anyone interested in having community and fun conversation about DD/bg from this perspective!

[Guest Daddydesistyle1]

I am 43 year old married daddy, looking for a little to spend some time to get to know her. I feel that it’s super hard to find a little first my age and second because I am married (even when I say my wife knows and she is ok with it) it’s been a while I did not had any success Edited November 25, 2020 by Daddydesistyle1

[Amber_dragon]

I am 43 year old married daddy, looking for a little to spend some time to get to know her. I feel that it’s super hard to find a little first my age and second because I am married (even when I say my wife knows and she is ok with it) it’s been a while I did not had any success

It's great that you are open about that.  I'd be interested in chatting if you like, as long as at some point your wife confirms she's good with it. If I dabble with poly folks, I like to make sure their partners are cool too.  

[Guest Daddydesistyle1]

It's great that you are open about that.  I'd be interested in chatting if you like, as long as at some point your wife confirms she's good with it. If I dabble with poly folks, I like to make sure their partners are cool too.

 

I just sent you friends request, and yes and down the road I can do the intro of both of you to each other

[Mar45]

New but in my 40s and love this thread! I'd love to get to know more mature littles and middles as I am still caught in between little and middle but leaning more towards middle