Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Ritz]

Allo! my big is 37. i just had my birfday in June. my little is 3-4 and my middle is 10-13. i'm a very active girly and like to craft and color. i'm also learning to sword dance. i'd love to find a CG one day. Being an orphan is hard.

[Guest Dandy Blob]

New too, and 33 years old.

 

I have suspected I've been a little for a few years (and for years before that I just thought I was strange because I had no idea this was a thing!) but never really got to experiment with it much yet. So far I think I am a little, but there are rare times where I think I might be a middle too. I definitely hold back a lot, I guess I am not fully comfortable yet, so knowing there are others here my age makes me feel a bit less apprehensive about it all.

 

I am not looking for a daddy/mommy/caregiver, but I wouldn't mind making friends with some of you.

[FeistyHandful]

Hiya! My Big is 39. My Little is undetermined. I lean towards Middle more than Little though. I recently found my Middle headspace and am still exploring that part of me. I just posted in the Introduction board for anyone who may want to know a bit more about me.  

[Blakely_Branch]

I was wondering if someone is 13 years old mentally does that make them a middle ?

[LilJabbyWocky]

Hello,

 

I'm new to the forum. 45 years of age. Would love some new friends.

[Guest SparklesLove]

I was wondering if someone is 13 years old mentally does that make them a middle ?

I think that is considered a middle

[Guest BrieNN]

Oooh. Just the cut off to be in the thread. Turned 30 this year. 

I'm so new to the forum. I'm going to try to be consistent in posting here, because I want to see where it could lead.
But if anyone's interested, a link to my fet account is in my profile. I'm more active there. 

 

Right now, I'm just interested in getting to know people, looking into Dlg more closely and getting a better idea of what I'm looking for. Just sort of jump into this and figure it out as I go along...cautiously. Jump cautiously 

[Guest TinyDancer2020]

I'm very new to this...married but husbànd is not so open minded. I feel stuck...

[Dino-Daddy]

Im not sure if this topic is still .. relevant..

 

But it seems to me that almost everyone on here is tryly lots younger then i am .. or i am verrty old compared to the others ...

That as a DD isnt always cool coz most want to talk and relate  to people in there own age-range ..let alone to een find the one you dream of

 

i seen people say ..but im older and mention a age of 25 something.. only thing i can do is hink ok .. im 50 , define "older"  or Mature for that matter

 

How do older lg-mg experience that? do they have the same issues and younger  ( 18-30) lg-mg including find a CG or Daddy/Mommy?

[Little kaiya]

Personally I'm 42 and my Daddy is 21. We've had a lot of discussions about what that age gap means both now and in the long run.

 

I do find it difficult to relate to a lot of littles as the notion of everyone should be friends, willing to drop their entire life and move for a DDlg relationship and other things just dont resonate with me. That said, it isn't so much age that I find as the issue as it is maturity.

 

All I can recommend if focus on finding the people who add to your life, regardless of age.

[Guest Dandy Blob]

With any relationship I have ever been in, it's more about how compatible we are together vs age. I have dated a few men younger than me, and some far older than me. My current boyfriend of 4 years is only 2 years older than me, but I was engaged to a man 20 years older than me when I was in my 20's and we got along amazingly well despite the age difference & the only problems we had were other people disapproving of our relationship. *major shrugs* None of it had to do with age, it all had to do with how we got on & felt around each other. If I am talking to someone, even if I don't know either age, whether we continue talking has next to nothing to do with age & all in how we get along and if we are compatible as partners or friends.

 

That being said, I do prefer men older than me, I always have. I rarely had crushes on boys my own age, it was usually the ones a few years older than me that really made my heart beat faster & lead me to girly daydreaming about us getting married and riding off into the sunset. 

Edited August 6, 2020 by Apple Sauce Dandy

[Xiamora]

Yeeeeeeeees!!!!I am newish to the site I have stopped being so active because It definitely seems like A WAAAAAAY YOUNGER CROWD..  I am  32 years old and discovered my little side late at the age of 30..heheh 

I am honestly NOT AT ALL COMFORTABLE  with dating someone in their early 20's its not my thing.. I have always been into older men or men maybe my age.. I don't mind making friends who are younger because we may be able to converse possibly.hhahahaha  But it's just nicer if you can find people your own age or older to speak and connect with.

Edited August 6, 2020 by Xiamora

[Guest sshyguy123]

As an older Daddy i can relate to quite a bit of what i've read here. i also came into this later in life after having already established myself... but it answers so many questions about why i am the way i am.

 

I have absolutely nothing against the younger people on this site, some of them are quite lovely! But unfortunately they have yet to gain a lot of the life experiences that age brings, so sometimes it's a bit difficult for them to relate to me. I almost wish they had a way to do a modified search with age as a factor.

 

I'd love to talk with some older littles/middles!!!!

Edited August 6, 2020 by sshyguy123

[Guest TinyDancer2020]

I am 52 and I am a little. My situation is complicated though....I have a home and family and a husband but no one would understand this side of me. I am here for friends and support and I look forward to "meeting" some of you!

[JosieJo]

Good Morning! I am 36 y/o. I am new to being a little, the lifestyle and would love to have more understanding. My husband has experience being a Daddy and asked me to reach out to other littles so I can gain better understanding and insight. I recognize that the lifestyle is different for everyone but I’m confused on a lot. Where do I start?!

[MissBHavin_DK]

I'm 43 and a middle (12-13) and I think it's hard to be and older middle. Not so much because I can't relate to younger littles, but mostly because it's hard to find cute clothes for a plus size middle. It's just cuter when You're younger. I've been a middle since I was 19, and seing My body get old, have a kid and well just life changes things. For my Daddy as well. The mind is the same, but physical it's just different. I miss a place to talk about stuff like that.

[Guest sshyguy123]

I had a little/middle who was 40 and plus sized... i agree that the selections in clothing isn't great, but there are still some cute outfits out there!!! lol, i know cause i've bought a few

 

But yes. The younger generation does have a much easier time finding all the really good stuff!

Edited August 20, 2020 by sshyguy123

[Little kaiya]

I'm 42 and certainly not petite. I'm lucky in that some of my friends sew and love making me cute outfits. That said, finding an open minded seamstress is another great way to go for getting super sweet and cute outfits.

[JosieJo]

Where do y’all find your cute Little clothes? Stores? Online?

[Guest sshyguy123]

I've gotten them online. Amazon has a decent selection. Specialty sites are out there too, like DDlgplayground and the littlestshop if i remember the names correctly all of them offer a limited selection for plus sizes

[Princess-Echo]

Introducing myself: I'm a 36 year old middle, and my daddy who I met in real life, is 62.

[RainDoeSprinkles]

I'm 43 and a middle (12-13) and I think it's hard to be and older middle. Not so much because I can't relate to younger littles, but mostly because it's hard to find cute clothes for a plus size middle. It's just cuter when You're younger. I've been a middle since I was 19, and seing My body get old, have a kid and well just life changes things. For my Daddy as well. The mind is the same, but physical it's just different. I miss a place to talk about stuff like that.

Hey MissBHavin, I can relate! I have found that I don't look or feel right in full blown kawaii outfits. But I really feel good about a adding a dash of "little" to my cottage core aesthetic! A fabric daisy in my hair, frilly or fun sockies, Doc Martin T strap shoes with a pretty skirt...all that works for me! And the truth is, littleness is in our heart and soul,which never ages!! Older people who are kiddos at heart are a joy to be around and continue to have fun, breaking the stereotypes and the rules!! Hee hee!

[aa.ng]

I felt that way at first too. I'm 25 and i've noticed that a lot of the littles here are 18. But i was a little before i even knew that this kink existed and my mother is a little too though i'm not sure she identifies as one in the sense of the kink. That's probably why it's been so natural for me to be one. I don't see it being something i grow out of as i get older, as it is a part of my real identity. 

I feel this way too. I never traced it back to my mom though, although I can see resemblances now, and it is all starting to make more sense... I also don't think it's something I will grow out of, but do you ever fear that the person you are seeing (if you are seeing) might grow out of it? That is my fear sometimes. 

[RainDoeSprinkles]

I feel the same as Princess Light! 

 

I feel this way too. I never traced it back to my mom though, although I can see resemblances now, and it is all starting to make more sense... I also don't think it's something I will grow out of, but do you ever fear that the person you are seeing (if you are seeing) might grow out of it? That is my fear sometimes. 

My Daddy and I have been married for 24 years, and he still loves my littleness!  I really think that when you find the right person, they will be attracted to who you are at your very core. I think the beautiful inner qualities that draw two people together can never be outgrown.

[Guest My_daddy_calls_me_princess]

I'm a 35yo middle, in my middle space I am something between 14-16, it's a certain mood. I don't feel that I am too old because of my real age because when I am in my middle state of mind I am only that old, real age doesn't matter to me then.