Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[ᴘᴇᴀᴄʜʏʙᴏᴏ]

I'm glad I'm not the only one whos older and feels a bit out of place because of age.. I just turned 28 in january, and I'm already feeling too old to be able to express my little side

[LittleCelticLass]

I agree as well, I get frustrated when I think of my age and all of the younger littles posts. I almost feel like I can’t relate to the younger littles. It’s hard to explain.

I completely agree. At 48, I'm old enough to have given birth to most of the littles I've met, and most of the Daddies. It's difficult, when the only thing I have in common with the other littles, is being a little. I don't share the same taste in music, pop culture, or books with most of them. So glad that through the Forum, I've met others more like me.

[LittleTeacup]

I'm glad I'm not the only one whos older and feels a bit out of place because of age.. I just turned 28 in january, and I'm already feeling too old to be able to express my little side

 

I turned 29 in January. But I feel more able to express myself, since I've always been this way and I'm braver now. I'd never heard of ddlg until my mid-20s anyway and didn't figure out I'm a little until just last year. I used to think I needed to "grow up" so to speak despite not liking my idea of being "grown up" and it was stressful. Things are much better now I don't feel any shame for liking the stuff I do.

 

If being little is part of your personality, you're just gonna be a little for life. Sometimes the things we like aren't appropriate to express at our jobs or situations where we have to be mature and responsible, but we can always decorate our homes the way we like or go to a festival wearing cute clothes. A turning point came to me a few years ago when I saw an elderly lady at the farmer's market with her gray hair in pigtails. I thought, "if she can do it at her age, I certainly can at mine". Be confident - be yourself.

[Guest LostFox]

I would love to meet older Littles/Middles/Daddies....

I'm 43 and kinda feel like I don't fit in real well sometimes, even though everyone is so nice here.

[little_at_heart]

I'm going to be 51 in July.

I hold an executive position in my workplace, and having a little side allows me to decompress.

 

It's harder when you don't have a Daddy, but we can still express joy and wonder at this amazing thing called life!

 

The great thing about being a 50 year old little is that i don't really care anymore what people think about it. Life is too short to stress about stuff like that.

 

Plus, there are way too many Hello Kitty stuffies in the world that i don't own yet lol!!

[middleprincess]

I'm an older middle with little interests (36 over here)! I don't worry a lot about fitting in, just that I'm doing what I need to do to help myself be happy (as long as I'm not hurting myself or others).

[Little kaiya]

I'm 41, 42 in a few months, and I admit it is nice being able to talk to older littles. I tend not to worry too much about age, my Daddy tends to tickle me when I do that, but the thoughts do pop up occasionally.

[Quirkygrl16]

This is beyond relatable

[Holly.lea]

Evening all, I'm new to being a little/middle and happy to have found a group around my big age (34). The daddy I have been speaking to has recommended this site. And any advice would be much appreciated x

[little_at_heart]

Hi Holly.

Welcome aboard!

[Namir_119]

I am a total noob in this community and am looking for my first middle, but I don’t care about her real age as long as she is a consenting adult. This is especially easy because I’m going into this anonymously and keeping it online only. I’m hoping there is a middle out there who feels the same about my actual age. I think if both people respect each other it doesn’t really matter about age. I don’t think I will “outgrow” this either. I’m so glad I’m here in the family after so long wondering why I felt so different.

[LilRaeofSunshine]

Hi everybody, I'm glad I was able to find this topic with others like me. I'm a 28yr with a middle age of 11. I'd love to connect and meet with other middles

[Guest frozenwolf]

I'm 43 and a switch, but lately heavily favor my little side. The more I find out the more it has me wondering. My info can be found at https://www.ddlgforum.com/user/135579-frozenwolf/ for anyone interested.

[Holly.lea]

Thank you little_at_heart

[Cabbitgurl]

I had a papa, then he was abusive, and cruel, and now he's gone. I'm pretty sure I'm never gonna find someone like that again, I thought he was so understanding and nice, I was wrong. I am still hurt from the breakup it wasn't that long ago. My license says I'm 36, almost 37, I'm a six-eight year old little and I'm asexual and transgender. I'm pretty sure I'm never gonna find anyone ever again...

So yeah, I feel you

 

I'm not... completely against sexual like things, I just... don't feel it, LIke maybe sometimes it's fun, but like, not ALL the time, if that makes sense. I'm also pansexual so having a papa or a mama or a caregiver is perfectly fine for me. But yeah...
 

Oh yeah I'm autistic too and sometimes that's a problem...

Edited April 7, 2020 by Cabbitgurl

[Guest Geektastic Lulu]

I would like to see a Middlespace section, rather than separating everyone by age. I'm 27, but I find it more difficult to find content for the older mindset (preteen and teen) than the older biological age. 

[Trueshellz]

Yay, so glad I found this forum and especially this page

I felt so old before

[Bigbaby]

I do agree too ... I'm a 20 yr old switch & I'd like to find 26_30 Switch too ... most of the little boys or daddies here are 16_24 & most of them are taken lol

[Little kaiya]

I do agree too ... I'm a 20 yr old switch & I'd like to find 26_30 Switch too ... most of the little boys or daddies here are 16_24 & most of them are taken lol

If you see anyone that is under 18 you really need to be reporting them to the moderators as they cant be here.

[Kittenstyle]

I don’t mean to sound mean but one of the reasons i really liked this community is how sectioned it is and gives a place for the littles only to socialize especially since i have a daddy, being able to come chat here is because daddy feels i’m safe here because of the space just for littles i’m thinking that maybe a second personals section might be better if people are looking for older littles for non friendship means it should be under personals type of thing yes?  As to friendships little between little i think the littles section is great as is because most of us will befriend based on similar interests and little ages?  Actually i’d really love for the looking for friends thing to be in the littles space too that way its in our littles safe place too.  

Edited May 2, 2020 by Kittenstyle

[Guest SparklesLove]

Hi all. I'm new here and an older little. I'm 36

[Kittenstyle]

Hi sparkles welcome <3

[Guest SparklesLove]

Hi sparkles welcome <3

Hi kitten thank you <3

[Nymph]

I am 37 and a middle, love this place but I go on long hiatus regularly because I find it exhausting to find people I can relate to, at this point is mostly caregivers even though I am not one so it's quite frustrating.

 

Sometimes I am not in the mood to see baby-ish posts tbh

 

It would be my happy place if I could hang out with some other middles that will understand when I talk about my old tamagotchi or older shows or movies without needing to explain and just, I don't know, the generation gap is getting strong I guess. 

[Guest hideouslovely]

I think it would be great to have a section for middles. I'm 34 and I'd be happy to meet others that are closer to my age. I just don't find that I have much in common with people who are significantly younger. Being little, or middle, is something we have in common but it's unlikely to be the foundation of a friendship without there being more.