Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[LilBrat381]

Hi! 🤭 I’m 38 and a bratty little. I’ve been dabbling in mdlg/ddlg a while..  my little/middle age is more 10-14 ish. I’m new to this forum and restarting life without judgment soooo Hi! 😅☺️

Edited August 29, 2024 by LilBrat381
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[Huggybear]

As a 35yo Ddy I still feel like im too young sometimes. Theres still so much to learn and experience that even though I got my life in check, I still sometimes feel like a school boy trying to take this all in. I dont know if its the same for some of you ladies, but finding myself has definately taken alot of time and im still far from ready here. I still need more time :D.

By that logic I wouldnt feel selfconcious at all about being an older little. An older little tends to know who they are and what they want, have life somewhat under wraps and are capable of mature emotions. I regognize the difficulty in finding someone as we men often think that younger is better (lizardbrainthings), but thats definately not the case when building life long relationships where both parties need to carry some weight of the world. As you get older you start to appreciate age-brought-wisdom more and more, works the same for both sexes I would imagine.

Atleast personally I search qualities in women that would help us both move forward first and foremost. Younger girls often cant really even grasp what that means (there are exceptions of course). Nurture and guidance with practical goals and positive achiements feels amazing, so it helps if both parties have already laid some groundwork in life, and figured out what they want to achieve and who they want to be :). Nothing brings that except age and maturity, no matter who you are.

Sorry to sneak some male opinion into your safe space, I hope you dont mind ^^.

Edited August 29, 2024 by Huggybear

[weirdunicorn]

hey, im 37! i move through life feeling like a late teen/early adult. congrats on restarting your life sans judgment.
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[Sadistic_Nursing_Mommy]

    Well truthfully, age really does not have anything to do with it...

 

   We should all know, that this type of relationship is built on connection and unity, trust, deep giving of self, on Both Sides.

     "Older" Littles are Obviously valid right? It is all in the actions you take, the feelings you experience, isn't it? I Do Not Know how one tell themselves that people who have been here longer, experienced more and matured internally in, -hopefully a very beneficial and uplifting way, are to MUCH,.. ... THIS, OR THAT ... IT'S THE INTERNAL F.I.R.E... ALL.

    We experience the world internally,... and HOPEFULLY the internal desire and drive grow more and more into the beautiful individuals that we strive to be. Learning and moving in this world with more and more pure           Honesty, we are able to focus fire 🔥nothing to do with the skin on the outside.... 

 

   I sure hope people start to disregard this type of disrespect, because if you keep on with it, you will definitely ok your Latter Years.... And I don't think anything is worth that ever do you? 

 

    Hurray and hurray for mature littles, and mature Daddies and Mommies ..... Experience can be such a turn on..... TRULY... And blowing even an experienced littles mind, is such a HARD, TURN ON.

   And sometimes people who are more mature, maybe later in life, they know what they want, they go after it in a very step-by-step way....With Much More Precision.

   Devotion to, and the understanding of this dynamic, and it's internal, and external lifestyle changes, challenges, highs, even Lows... is priceless.

 

   Mature or older littles, are likely to be much more dedicated, focused, and end up pleasing their dominant much more than a child like youngster running around and looking at life as their personal little playground, LOL...

..... Not that that's not awesome too...

 

   But a mature little will probably show you devotion in a very intense focused way, and their submission can be so much more intense, and much deeper, just from the Challenge Of TIME.

 

    It's all about the push, .. and pull, that SWEET, ...  SLOW, ..... DANCE. 

 

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    So, Dance On, ... All you Perfect Perfect Individuals....

 

ON AND ON AND ON.......

[sammar]

Hi, I am Samar, I am 30 years old. I have known about DDLG for a long time, but I did not know about this site until now. I'm a little/meddle I'm not sure.I thought I was the only old little who liked this but I don't care now I'm happy I found this site  .

Edited October 4, 2024 by sammar

[CrimsonComfort]

Gosh, I'm 31 and reading that my age fell under "older/mature" made me shiver a little bit. However, I do fall under this thread I suppose so hello to all! I'm a little new to this site but certainly not new to the lifestyle. Hope to make some little friends and have some pleasant conversations. ~Happy holiday season!~

[Josey Wales]

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to all ! 

[BJZ]

I have been quiet lately. Thinking, learning, trying to process middleness. 

I hope yall had a fantastic Christmas. Anyone have New Years Eve plans? Resolutions for 2025?

[Little kaiya]

My Wife Daddy and I will be doing our usual New Years which is a movie out together, followed by Chinese food and ringing in the New Year on the couch with cuddles and kisses.

[Guest CareBearCloud]

Hello! I'm new here and I'm glad I found this! Here I was thinking I would be the oldest one on here and I was wrong. I hope everyone had a lovely holiday!