Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Ouija]

I'm a 32 year old little. It's hard to find Daddies my age or older. I'm glad this thread exists and that I'm not alone in this. 

[Juju]

Welcome! And no, you're definitely not alone!  But, this is a great community and best wishes to you!

[Aikko]

We’re glad to have you with us older littles! 😸

[Aurora_Elizabeth]

I hope i can connect with other older littles and CGs, its hard on me emotionally always to see younger littles(18-25) get picked and loved, over us older aged littles. I know I sound cynical and I should be happy for everyone, but I always feel like the last choice.

Edited May 8, 2024 by Aurora_Elizabeth

[Princess stuffie monster]

Space for older bodied littles and middle and cgs oooo that be fun im hyper and wiggly n giggle and Daddys princess of chaos (really no idea why 🤣🤣🤣🤣) and anyways hi im new on here but i do agree a lots of people are 18 in most places online would loves to meet new friends my ageish 

[Aikko]

7 minutes ago, Princess stuffie monster said:

Space for older bodied littles and middle and cgs oooo that be fun im hyper and wiggly n giggle and Daddys princess of chaos (really no idea why 🤣🤣🤣🤣) and anyways hi im new on here but i do agree a lots of people are 18 in most places online would loves to meet new friends my ageish 

Hhheellllooooo! And welcome to the nut house! 🤪 we loves us some chaos round these parts and there’s lots of that to get into here. There’s also lots of clubs and stuff you can join. I saw you make pacis! You should def post pictures. I make paci clips!! That’s so awesome! lol

[Princess stuffie monster]

1 minute ago, Aikko said:

Hhheellllooooo! And welcome to the nut house! 🤪 we loves us some chaos round these parts and there’s lots of that to get into here. There’s also lots of clubs and stuff you can join. I saw you make pacis! You should def post pictures. I make paci clips!! That’s so awesome! lol

Totally im just trying to navigates atm i added one to my profile i think and ty everyone is so awesome her 

 

chaos at the ready hehe

[hotmesshermit]

9 hours ago, Aurora_Elizabeth said:

I hope i can connect with other older littles and CGs, its hard on me emotionally always to see younger littles(18-25) get picked and loved, over us older aged littles. I know I sound cynical and I should be happy for everyone, but I always feel like the last choice.

I feel the same way. It's frustrating and lonely and hard

[Little kaiya]

I still sometimes am surprised my Daddy fell in love with me when I was 39 and He was younger. He had the opportunity to be a Daddy to much younger littles but in His words, "all I wanted was you" 💗💗

Personally my Daddy and I both prefer to connect with folks 30 and older, far less drama in general and usually connections that go beyond DDlg into deeper topics across a broader spectrum of life.

[Juju]

@Aurora_Elizabeth , @hotmesshermit, Hello, I believe whole heartedly you will be found by or you will find your Daddy. I've had relationships with both younger and older. It just depends mostly on the people and their mindset, what they're looking for in a person. My Daddy is 12 years older. So the age limitation I believe, is just that. People limiting a potentially wonderful relationship, because of a few numbers. Anyway, I welcome you and wish you happiness. Just don't lose hope. 

[Aurora_Elizabeth]

6 hours ago, Juju said:

@Aurora_Elizabeth , @hotmesshermit, Hello, I believe whole heartedly you will be found by or you will find your Daddy. I've had relationships with both younger and older. It just depends mostly on the people and their mindset, what they're looking for in a person. My Daddy is 12 years older. So the age limitation I believe, is just that. People limiting a potentially wonderful relationship, because of a few numbers. Anyway, I welcome you and wish you happiness. Just don't lose hope. 

You are likely right, I guess because I have never been picked by someone (except to be belittled and made an example of), it has made me more cynical of the world. I have been trying to work on it, but seeing the same thing reoccur cements it further.

[BJZ]

Im 72 and learning. It took a heart attack and divorce, moving to a foreign country and then back to US to stop lieing to myself and admit who i am. I'm a middle and learning as i go. The chance to find a Daddy are slim to none but it's absolutely heaven finding other older middles to chat with. Anyone wants to chat PM me. 

And welcome to all littles and middles regardless of age.

Edited December 30, 2024 by BJZ

[pipsqueak79]

I'm a little on my 40s,is it really that uncommon?

Edited May 15, 2024 by pipsqueak79

[Guest Runa]

11 hours ago, pipsqueak79 said:

I'm a little on my 40s,is it really that uncommon?

I'm turning 40 this year and I know plenty of other littles my age and older so it's not uncommon at all.  There's lots of us out there!  😊

[Little kaiya]

Honestly, I think there are quite a few littles over 40, my Daddy and I know a bunch. They may not be on sites like this one though as they are in long term relationships and comfortable with who they are and their relationship.

My Daddy and I, although we post here, spend far more time offline just living life. We aren't into finding partners or playdates or drama so we just live our Daddy and little life.

It may be one reason you see a far higher representation if young folks as they are often starting out, more vocal and seeking more advice or friends in the community.

Edited May 17, 2024 by Little kaiya

[pipsqueak79]

5 hours ago, Little kaiya said:

Honestly, I think there are quote a few littles over 40, my Daddy and I know a bunch. They may not be on sites like this one though as they are in long term relationships and comfortable with who they are and their relationship.

My Daddy and I, although we post here, spend far more time offline just living life. We aren't into finding partners or playdates or drama so we just live our Daddy and little life.

It may be one reason you see a far higher representation if young folks as they are often starting out, more vocal and seeking more advice or friends in the community.

I'm not really here to find anyone,  just to be part of a community.  I have a dear friend here whom I trust explicitly. 

[Guest Runa]

I think you're in a good place for community @pipsqueak79.  It's a good place to find others who are like you whether that's little, middle of something else. 

[pipsqueak79]

Thank you!!!

[PetitChocolatPrince]

On 7/30/2017 at 9:10 PM, Guest daddy_zach said:

Apologies from me for entering this Little place, but..

 

 

There should be a thread for the more mature little i.e 30s, 40s and over.

 

It's not easy for daddies to find you at all

I made an adult only Telegram ABDL/DDLG/etc. group. I believe there's a group called 30+ Middles and Littles. I linked it as well.

Edited June 2, 2024 by PetitChocolatPrince

[Melly]

Hi friends to be!

I'm glad I found this thread, it's how I found this whole site. I'm 38, so I relate to a whole lot of what people are saying.

I face the added challenge of being trans, and a system: one of my alters is little. So finding community has been a challenge for me.

[PrincessPeachy95x]

I love this! I’m hitting 30 soon and feel like there’s many more younger littles than there are older now! (Though I do actually forget I’m almost 30 and feel more like 18 hehe) 

 

If any older kitties wanna connect I’d love that 🐼❣️

[rainedemon]

As an older Middle looking for a Mommy it's very difficult 

[PrincessAster]

Just wanted to chime in as a 36 year old little whose without a caregiver! It's rough, but this thread made me feel less alone. I'm also plus size and disabled. I'm still hopeful my DD is out there. 

[Cebakes]

Don’t give up hope, my new middle is 36, a mom, local, and new to ddlg.  While she is new,  she is a natural for this and I told her this would be addicting.  She said I wasn’t wrong, loves having and calling me daddy.   When I met her, I knew she was a glove fit for DDLG.

I would say I’ve been looking for a middle in the Philly area for about 18 months. It’s tough out there.   I was focused on finding a woman in her 30s or 40s.  So again, don’t give up hope for this age range.   

[Aikko]

On 6/28/2024 at 11:57 AM, PrincessAster said:

Just wanted to chime in as a 36 year old little whose without a caregiver! It's rough, but this thread made me feel less alone. I'm also plus size and disabled. I'm still hopeful my DD is out there. 

Definitely don’t give up hope! This is an excellent community where you can meet one, but like cebakes said, there’s also a chance finding someone local that is just a natural you can explore this side of you with. I’m also a plus sized little with a lot of health issues and my Daddy is the perfect one for me. You WILL find the DD for you. 💜