Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Cebakes]

I love older middles….❤️

[Kitsune no Kasumi]

Hi everyone! I’m 39 and just now starting to navigate figuring this all out. I’d love to talk more with people and learn more.

[MellyCat]

Hey There New Friends!

My name is Melly. I am 31 years old. I will be 32 in a few weeks. I have had that same realization here. I mean absolutely no disrespect tothe younger Daddies on here but I know what I was like in my early 20s. I definitely didnt have a clue what I was doing. For that reason and just for common interest, i generally find I have more in common with Daddies in 30s and 40s. The Daddy I ended up choosing is actually only a few years older than me.

 

I would love to make some little friends

[WigglyBun]

Hello other 30+ littles, middles, daddies, mommies, etc!

I decided to bite the bullet and make a 30+ discord server. You can see the post with the Discord Link here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/53947-30-kingdom-of-wonders-discord/

The server name is Kingdom of Wonders and it is still a work in progress, but I'd like to have some folks join & see if it takes off, then I will add what people are interested in and we'll go from there! If you need help with Discord (signing up, joining the server, or anything else) please let me know and I can help out. Hope to see you all there!

[BrassyBabyGirl]

I just need to say the word inflation. As an older little/middle, I have my own little home to hold down and though it is just the kittys and I, I am feeling so stressed and sad. Gas went up, my rent went up, and I am in the odd place where I make to much to get help but not enough to not feel stressed. I know it will pass and being the BossBabyGirl I am it will all work out but I know it is making me snappy and not a joy to be around. Papa helps as He can with stuff I cant get to like chores and kitty care but I feel myself pulling away because I am so cranky and stressed. I am a fiercely independent lady and take pride in it..yet I just want to crawl in bed with stuffies and stay forever . Just wanted to share because I know I cannot be the only person feeling like this though it may manifest different for others (littles who are parents of small children and such). Just wanted to remind myself and each other its allllll right.

[Little Tigress]

On 7/15/2021 at 9:02 PM, linabee said:

Any littles want to make friends with other littles but are too shy or don't know where to look? well that's me. I'd feel comfortable with having other girls as friends. I'm 5 when I'm in little space (18 irl) I love bees, coloring, naps, painting, reading, stuffies, soft clothing, sushi, and sloths.

 

Also I use snapchat and instagram

Hi🖐

I love coloring and reading too. I'm also 5 when in little space(20 irl) but I'm scared of bees

[AngelwithoutWings]

37 year old little/middle....sorting it out but leaning towards middle.

Always down for making friends and chatting!

[Knickerbockers]

On 6/23/2022 at 9:02 PM, BrassyBabyGirl said:

I just need to say the word inflation. As an older little/middle, I have my own little home to hold down and though it is just the kittys and I, I am feeling so stressed and sad. Gas went up, my rent went up, and I am in the odd place where I make to much to get help but not enough to not feel stressed. I know it will pass and being the BossBabyGirl I am it will all work out but I know it is making me snappy and not a joy to be around. Papa helps as He can with stuff I cant get to like chores and kitty care but I feel myself pulling away because I am so cranky and stressed. I am a fiercely independent lady and take pride in it..yet I just want to crawl in bed with stuffies and stay forever . Just wanted to share because I know I cannot be the only person feeling like this though it may manifest different for others (littles who are parents of small children and such). Just wanted to remind myself and each other its allllll right.

Feeling all of this, I completely understand in a lot of similar ways. Would love to chat more if you’d ever feel like taking. Could use little friends who get it ❤️

[Little Becca]

In my heart and mind, I am about 2-5 years old. But I have been alive for 42 years, lol!!!  It is kinda hard for me to think of my “real” age as 42 because it feels like my “little” age is my real age. But maybe I am getting too technical!!! 🤔😅😅😅

I am happy to be friends with any nice person, but I understand wanting to have some friendships with littles/middles with similar life experiences. 

[ALilPinkPrincess]

On 6/15/2022 at 3:03 PM, Kitsune no Kasumi said:

Hi everyone! I’m 39 and just now starting to navigate figuring this all out. I’d love to talk more with people and learn more.

I’m 41 and just figuring it out too… I think I’ve only been completely in little space once and it was for only like 30 mins. Daddy talking like we usually do pulled me right out of it. 😢 we are trying to figure out when helps me let go and get to little space. I have 2 kids and he has a pre schooler so time without kids where I can get into little space is hard to find!

[moondust mochi]

On 6/19/2022 at 5:33 PM, WigglyBun said:

Hello other 30+ littles, middles, daddies, mommies, etc!

I decided to bite the bullet and make a 30+ discord server. You can see the post with the Discord Link here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/53947-30-kingdom-of-wonders-discord/

The server name is Kingdom of Wonders and it is still a work in progress, but I'd like to have some folks join & see if it takes off, then I will add what people are interested in and we'll go from there! If you need help with Discord (signing up, joining the server, or anything else) please let me know and I can help out. Hope to see you all there!

This made me *so excited!* I'm a 31 year old Little, and definitely often feel like I'm behind the curve/aging out of the community. This gave me a lot of hope!

[Little kaiya]

I'm 44 so a little above the average age but my Daddy, who is much younger than me, loves me unconditionally so I really don't dwell on my age a whole lot.

[moondust mochi]

34 minutes ago, Little kaiya said:

I'm 44 so a little above the average age but my Daddy, who is much younger than me, loves me unconditionally so I really don't dwell on my age a whole lot.

My Daddy is also younger than me! 

[Sloth Fairy]

Hi, I'm approaching 50 yikes ! But little age is sort of fluid between 5ish and older little/middle.  I've always been like  that.  I tend to feel like I don't quite fit as a little because I'm not into some of the things littles are into,  but also don't have the kink aspect in my life either. So I'm just kind of floating in the in between. It gets a bit lonely. 

[sweetblossom]

5 hours ago, Sloth Fairy said:

Hi, I'm approaching 50 yikes ! But little age is sort of fluid between 5ish and older little/middle.  I've always been like  that.  I tend to feel like I don't quite fit as a little because I'm not into some of the things littles are into,  but also don't have the kink aspect in my life either. So I'm just kind of floating in the in between. It gets a bit lonely. 

 

I can relate I am fast approaching 45 and often wonder if a Daddy would want a 45 year old little and not go for all the younger ones out their it can be lonely for sure. Me on the other hand I do have a lot of the likes and a few kinks. lol 

[Sloth Fairy]

On 8/10/2022 at 4:19 PM, sweetblossom said:

 

I can relate I am fast approaching 45 and often wonder if a Daddy would want a 45 year old little and not go for all the younger ones out their it can be lonely for sure. Me on the other hand I do have a lot of the likes and a few kinks. lol 

I think because I'm an older little/middle I just don't get into coloring, pacifiers and the littler little stuff as much. But playing dress up,  playing with make up, I get to do because I'm basically a big nerd who likes cosplay.  Lol. 

Edited September 2, 2022 by Sloth Fairy

[Little kaiya]

I'm 44 and my Daddy and I have been together for almost 5 years. I sometimes wonder if He wants a younger little closer to His age but He assures me I'm the perfect little for Him. There are definitely Daddies that love older littles.

Edited August 11, 2022 by Little kaiya

[Cebakes]

I would love to find an older middle in the Philadelphia area, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Delaware, or Maryland.

[sweetblossom]

32 minutes ago, Cebakes said:

I would love to find an older middle in the Philadelphia area, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Delaware, or Maryland.

Thank you for making us older littles feel better that maybe someday we may find someone 

[Cebakes]

11 hours ago, sweetblossom said:

Thank you for making us older littles feel better that maybe someday we may find someone 

What’s not to like about older littles or middles?   I would love to have one……

[sweetblossom]

4 hours ago, Cebakes said:

What’s not to like about older littles or middles?   I would love to have one……

around where I live that is not the case lol maybe I need ta move now that I can again fml hate the pandemic.

[Cebakes]

54 minutes ago, sweetblossom said:

around where I live that is not the case lol maybe I need ta move now that I can again fml hate the pandemic.

Unfortunately in the Philadelphia area and Pennsylvania in general, I don’t see a large number of people involved in DDLG.   I’m a daddy Dom and prefer middles, but would have zero issues having a relationship with a woman closer to my age versus one in their mid-20s.  My last middle was 24 and we had a spectacular three-year relationship, but that age gap creates some limitations, and we both knew this would end in several years.   

[sweetblossom]

2 hours ago, Cebakes said:

Unfortunately in the Philadelphia area and Pennsylvania in general, I don’t see a large number of people involved in DDLG.   I’m a daddy Dom and prefer middles, but would have zero issues having a relationship with a woman closer to my age versus one in their mid-20s.  My last middle was 24 and we had a spectacular three-year relationship, but that age gap creates some limitations, and we both knew this would end in several years.   

Yeah I can see how that would suck and it is no better when I am at there is more of the kink variety here than anything else which is not something I want which leaves me having to see about moving if I want to have the life I want. Than again I personally am not apposed to moving where I live it is a tourist trap so crazy in the summer and nothing to do in the winter.

[Littlecosplaykitten]

Older Little here!!! 35 (little 4/ middle 12)

[batgirl]

i feel like a little from the stone age, lol. Imagine being 52 and discovering that you’re a little (which is something i had never heard of), then finding any littles close to my age has been impossible.