Older/Mature Littles/Middles

[Nymph]

I need to make a pack for the hospital. I gettasta be in the delivery room!   I know clothes but and other suggestions for me to help the new momma! 

 

- def one of those tiny suction things for nipples in case she (or baby) has trouble get the milk out at first! "Lansinoh LatchAssist"

- and their lanolin cream... believe me, she should use it even if it doesn't hurt at first. If she doesn't breastfeed it can still be used.

- and if it's a boy perhaps the cup thingy so he doesn't catches you by surprise when you are changing a diaper and he gets cold

- and the wipe warmer thing XD

good luck!!!

[Kittykat83]

Tbf, I think it would be nice to have a search option for age ranges, ie 30-35yrs old. As I know in the past when I was trying to find older daddies to talk to I couldn't. Then it may not separate the site, but just make it easier to find someone to your liking x

 

But yes anyone who would want to talk to a 38yr old little from the UK, hiya I'm here!

[Bumbl3B33]

- def one of those tiny suction things for nipples in case she (or baby) has trouble get the milk out at first! "Lansinoh LatchAssist"

- and their lanolin cream... believe me, she should use it even if it doesn't hurt at first. If she doesn't breastfeed it can still be used.

- and if it's a boy perhaps the cup thingy so he doesn't catches you by surprise when you are changing a diaper and he gets cold

- and the wipe warmer thing XD

good luck!!!

Thank you so much. It's been 20+ years since I had my kiddos. I didn't even think if the baby's do latch. So cool thank you

[Bumbl3B33]

Tbf, I think it would be nice to have a search option for age ranges, ie 30-35yrs old. As I know i

Haiii, 

 

This is a safe zone for us older littles to talk and enjoy each other. Good luck finding your Daddy. 

[Nymph]

Feeria your right it is a big truth. I haven't myself worked up the courage to tell my children or to discuss the topic. 

Now that's not to say they're dumb. They have asked me questions kinda suggesting they know more than they want to talk about. 

 

My opinion is that is not something they should know, would you tell them you like to be chocked up or fisted? they don't need to know, it's not you hiding, it's just over sharing :/ why force that thought into their minds? little or not, you are their parent.

 

Unless you are trying to make them your caregivers (and if are then you need to look for help or read up on narcissistic tendencies and work on that) being a little doesn't make you less of a parent, I have found we have so many advantages at different stages of their lives!

 

Of course you might reach an age when they might choose to become your caregiver instead of hiring someone due age... but it's still a different thing, it's important to know the difference I think.

 

Now it would be a whole different story if you see them struggling with something and they could find relief in knowing of alternative lifestyles and/or kinks. You could help them be more comfortable with exploring and know you will not judge and that it's a private matter. It would be at this point where you would decide to share about your stuff or not, if you feel it might be helpful.

 

I was not going to talk about this because I was worried it would seem negative or judgy, but it's been bothering me so figured I would put it out there.

[Bumbl3B33]

 

 

I was not going to talk about this because I was worried it would seem negative or judgy, but it's been bothering me so figured I would put it out there.

 No judgement!  I absolutely understand your point of veiw and agree with that veiw point!  However, there are two sides to every coin. I myself have suffered from D.I.D. I have survived though horrible events my mind regress as a mental survival mechanism. I can't control outside triggers. Or when it happens or who it is around. So as I see your point of veiw and hope you understand your looking at a specific point. Just be aware of other points of veiw.

Edited April 19, 2022 by Bumbl3B33

[Bumbl3B33]

I'm on Grammy watch!  My daughter is due any time now. So excited to my the newest member of our hive!  A Little Princess!

Edited April 29, 2022 by Bumbl3B33

[BrassyBabyGirl]

I'm on Grammy watch!  My daughter is due any time now. So excited to my the newest member of our hive!  A Little Princess!

How exciting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!

[Bumbl3B33]

So need advice please! 

 

So my daughter and I haven't had the best relationship while she was growing up.

 

But now she is due with her first baby and she is clinging to me like a lifeboat and I love it. 

 

So here the problem I don't do boundaries very well and that's been 2/3 of the problem before. But now it's different. She's different and I just don't wanna mess it up.  But at the same time she said her needs me right now. How do I know when or how when it's time to step back without hurting this new bond?  Any and all positive advice or experiences.

 

Thank you much luvs

[Sinfullyshort]

I agree, I'm a 46 yr old little.

[Athena-BubbleBee]

I joined this site a while ago but this is the first post. I’m a little in my 40s and an older section would be excellent. I haven’t had a Daddy/ Care giver since my 20’s. My issue is not so much my inner age but my physical age.

[Fragile Princess]

I am only 23, but I feel like I am on different side than most littles already, since I have a kid that's almost two with my past Daddy. I cannot connect to all those sweet activities I used to like, they are only an impossible scenario now. And I feel like I will never find someone again too... also language will be now probably a deal breaker, since baby won't understand a word

[Bumbl3B33]

I joined this site a while ago but this is the first post. I’m a little in my 40s and an older section would be excellent. I haven’t had a Daddy/ Care giver since my 20’s. My issue is not so much my inner age but my physical age.

I'm so glad your here. Welcome. No worries about your age. When it's right it's right. And hopefully you'll find that person. Lots of luvs

[Bumbl3B33]

I am only 23, but I feel like I am on different side than most littles already, since I have a kid that's almost two with my past Daddy. I cannot connect to all those sweet activities I used to like, they are only an impossible scenario now. And I feel like I will never find someone again too... also language will be now probably a deal breaker, since baby won't understand a word

Welcome. Myself and so many others have felt that way. And bring a single momma to boot. That baby is you world. Be careful not to jump in to anything. It does get lonely and seem impossible. But your looking at the wrong things. You and your wee one are so SPECIAL! You don't just want any Tom, Dick, or Harry. You deserve your Superhero. Hang in there. And I'll send lots of calming happy vibes! 

 

Lots of luvs

[Harlee-qwinnie]

I just stumbled into this topic tonight, and I have not read every post. But I will say majority of 'daddy' profiles have very young aged males.

[Knickerbockers]

Yes for 30 and over!

[cocolatecrybaby]

I wish Admin would set up a forum group for us. That would help a lot.

Admin.. are you listening ??

 

I've been here a few weeks now, and trying to find more mature little/middles from the UK has been impossible.

Starting to think they don't exist. Or are already taken, so not looking for anyone.

 

I've only just come into ddlg. I thought finally.. I've found where I belong;

but without a suitable partner, it just feels hopeless (sigh)

[Bumbl3B33]

Haiii Gang, my daughter had her daughter. It was so cool to be there for her!  We text daily so I'm doing good in boundaries!  Yah!  And daughter-in-law is T-18  days but I think this little guy won't wait!  Lol 

 

Welcome all the new Bees, pun,  

lots of luvs

[Nymph]

Hmm, maybe IT IS time for our own area, but what would the cut off be? 35+ ? I was in a discord that did that at first it was great then they kept lowering the age and once we hit 30 there was a big change in the vibe, could no longer relate as much.

 

I guess 30 is usually an age where our lives are going through big changes so we are usually more settled by 32/35 or so but maybe it would be ok?

 

But honestly I would just rather a discord server, I don't know enough to do it, I know how to make it but not how to moderate it and such, if someone here had experience and time that would be awesome.

[Sugarnspice849367]

[WigglyBun]

Hmm, maybe IT IS time for our own area, but what would the cut off be? 35+ ? I was in a discord that did that at first it was great then they kept lowering the age and once we hit 30 there was a big change in the vibe, could no longer relate as much.

 

I guess 30 is usually an age where our lives are going through big changes so we are usually more settled by 32/35 or so but maybe it would be ok?

 

But honestly I would just rather a discord server, I don't know enough to do it, I know how to make it but not how to moderate it and such, if someone here had experience and time that would be awesome.

I have been thinking of this for the last few years since I started getting into online ddlg & littlespace communities. I can definitely help out, I have a lot of experience with discord servers (creation, managing, bots, etc).

 

If you or anyone else would like to talk about this via discord in a group I would really enjoy helping out! Please feel free to contact me. :]

[Babygirl77]

I'm a 40yo little. Would love to chat with others my age.

[WigglyBun]

I'm a 40yo little. Would love to chat with others my age.

 

Hello! I am 35 years old, we can chat if you'd like! Feel free to add me as a friend.

[Red Squirrel]

I'm a 40yo little. Would love to chat with others my age.

Hi! I literally just turned 40! Would be happy to chat with you

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