Dom but not very daddy ?

[Psychée]

I am since three weeks with my first dom. He is very kind and gentle and listen to my needs etc. We talk a lot and he really do his best i know it but he doesn't seem very interested by my little side. I know it's been just three weeks and everything is so knew that we can't talk about everything but he talk about petplay with a smile. This is not like when we talk about ddlg and the only time i had the courage to ask him about little space he just tell me that he know i am a little and is ok with it but being ok is not being happy and interested... I know i should just ask him and he will just say to me what is on his mind but i am so afraid that i just bother him by being little and don't want to make him feel like he is bad by not liking my little side. Maybe i overreact because little space is kind of knew for me too or maybe even if he is a dom since ten years he is interested in ddlg not since a long time and don't know how to speak about it with me. Have you all any advice or idea on my situation ? Thank you all and sorry for my bad english.

[Onceuponatime]

First of all congrats with your first Dom

 

Maybe you could write some of your little fantasies down and let him read them. Maybe he still has to get used to the idea. It is totally normal for you to bounce so much in the beginning, to be honest I'm still bouncing too. Take your time and see what he thinks of your fantasies

[Psychée]

First of all congrats with your first Dom

 

Maybe you could write some of your little fantasies down and let him read them. Maybe he still has to get used to the idea. It is totally normal for you to bounce so much in the beginning, to be honest I'm still bouncing too. Take your time and see what he thinks of your fantasies

 

thank you very much your advice is really good i will write a letter to him.

[Onceuponatime]

You're welcome, good luck to you! *hugs* Edited July 26, 2017 by Onceuponatime