Balancing Being the Big With my bbg being my TOTAL weakness

[PartyAnimal]

There is nothing I crave more in life than the presence of my bbg.  I long to meet her needs and spoil her.  I love it when we share little time.  I treasure our times regardless of if it's on the phone, on video, or real life.  I find myself tremendously conflicted because although I have no doubt that I was created to be her Daddy in every way imaginable, I find that she is without any comparison the greatest weakness I've ever experienced.  How does one balance being the Daddy they know they are and this overwhelming weakness that comes from being in absolute need of ones little?

[wanderer]

I think the sensation you are referring to is called love. Caring for anyone so deeply opens one up to being hurt and vulnerable. That is part of what makes being in love and a great relationship so rewarding. The ability to care for someone so much. Sure it opens you up to being hurt... but it also opens you up to immense joy.

[Guest Mittens]

Listen to wanderer. That absolute need to have your little is your attraction and your love for her. This isn't a bad thing, use it though to grow stronger. To fight for her to get farther in life. It could be getting stronger to protect her, it could be to get a better job or education to spoil her, it could be literally anything at all, even loving her and showing you love her. Enjoy it, it's a rare thing to find. I had it once, and for some reason lost it.. I still to this day dont' know what happened, as long as you focus on her, you'll be happy and she will as well. You two sound cute, thanks for this heart warming message!

[Mr.Hoolig4n D@ddy]

Know this topic is old but I gotta admit this hits on a personal level... Couldn't imagine life without my little princess. Even when we were strictly vanilla she was my world... In fact becoming involved in ddlg was due to me figuring out she's actually a little and thats why i joined this forum. To be the best Daddy i can be. And yes i'm also struggling with the discipline part... If i don't control myself I'd spoil her rotten