Punishments

[Guest Lele the Marshmallow]

Our rules are and punishments have changed a lot. Edited May 31, 2021 by Lele the Marshmallow

[Guest Daddy’s_pumpkin]

My Daddy punishes most with corner time. I have to stand there and no talking, and no wiggling around. I have the hardest time staying still so if I keep wiggling and not focusing, he will add time if it’s excessive until I calm down. Once had time-out/corner chair time and got my phone taken for a little but that was a special case. I don’t misbehave too much and I can usually get away with a bit of sass because it’s just my personality. And he really only uses punishments for repeat offenses, really important things like not taking my meds, or if I take my sass too far.

[Guest TokidokiHelloKitty]

do punishments have to be physical?

 

Like is it okay to be a little who has literally 0 physical punishments?

[LittleCelticLass]

Yep. Lots of litles, as indicated above, don't have physical punishments.

[LittleTeacup]

do punishments have to be physical?

 

Like is it okay to be a little who has literally 0 physical punishments?

 

Of course not! Your punishments should be something you and your partner both agree on, and if you don't like physical punishments, you don't have to endure them. I don't like physical punishments, or even really much punishment at all, as I'm not too into rules and discipline - I just want a soft, nurturing partner. And if I'm acting up, I might just be upset about something or frustrated and having trouble expressing it. In which case a conversation about what's bothering me is more appropriate than a punishment. We're all different and need/want different things.

 

Examples of non-physical punishments include writing lines, a time out, having to go to bed early, loss of gaming time, writing an essay about what you did wrong and why, having to do an extra chore, no dessert, etc. Even just having to sincerely apologize could be a punishment.

[Guest daddygentle]

In my opinion the punishment must be commisurated to the gravity of the broken rule and conditional on how many times the little has been warned. for instance backtalking to Daddy could earn her only a scolding it it is the firt time, on the other hand something dangerous as unauthorized drunkness or crossing the road withot checking would mean something significantly more serious, as a good spanking and a grounding. as long as spanking is accepted by both parts I think it should be the principal way of dealing with misbehaving littles, nothing is more nurturing and intimate than a hand applied to a bare bottom otk. the little knows she broke a rule but at the same time cann feel dadd's affeection and closeness. otherwise, corner time, grounding, and a punishment notebbok should be implemented. or the worst of all, an early bedtime and no cartoons.

[BlackRose13]

I once got grounded to my room for a week.

 

It was terrible. I could leave for things like work and food, but once I was done I had to go back to my room ASAP. As an adult who is used to freedom, being stuck in one place was very constricting, even if I still had devices, laptop, tv, etc.

 

However, it very effectively underlined "Do Not Do That Again".

Thats kinda funny cause most gamers do this by nature they only leave if they need a toilet or food. 

[Guest Sassy.Little.Princess17]

My punishments are no PS4 (which is basically no Netflix for me. Which I hate. Netflix is life), no laptop or other electronics, lines, timeout in my room without my awesome kitty cat or Daddy until he says I can come out (Daddy sits in the next room and makes sure I do it and I know he's there), and no Kindle/Books. Some people might say the timeout punishment is not kind, but it's only if I've been super bad and done something really bad. He's never had to use it yet it's only for extreme cases is what he says. I hope he never will have to.

Daddy does do spankings but he knows I like it too much and doesn't do it very often.

Edited July 16, 2019 by SassyLittleGirl17

[LittleTeacup]

I came up with an idea for a Soft^TM punishment for us Soft^TM littles and caregivers.

 

We good little girls and boys may still end up accidentally annoying daddy/mommy or can't calm down or bounce off the walls. In these cases, the punishment may be having to be restrained within our caregiver's big hug for five minutes.

[Breakingrules]

I feel like my punishments are somehow a bit harder than most of the reactions above. 

 

I do have some soft punishments like writing lines, sleeping with my socks on, soft spankings, going to bed early, that I cant shower with Daddy, my stuffies in a timeout.

But some of them are harder like spankings with Daddys belt, crawling for a few hours, washing my mouth with soap, standing in a corner for 30 minutes, ass play without lube, wearing a mouth plug of my paci for a few hours so I cant talk, wearing a plug for a while in public. 

 

But to each their own. 

 

Im quite a brat so yesss, I do need punishments and rules and it really depends on what rule I break and how bad I break it. 

[PrincessTeddyBear]

Daddy has a lot of different punishments but the main ones are 

-Time out

-Spankies

-No tv

[GemmaAdapt]

i get spanks and no talking to daddy and no reading if i was a bad girl but id only get to see daddy every 5 months so if i would normally get a spank he'd tally them up and then when he next saw me he would do how many spanks are talled up

[Guest HisBabySunny]

I don't like the taking away stuffies punishment. : ( For some Littles, stuffies are comfort items, and I just don't think taking away comfort items is a good thing to do to a person.

 

On that note, I can't think of any to add, but I can think of one I see a lot that I just see as abuse. The "no contact from Daddy" punishment. I'm sorry if this offends anyone, but I think that's neglect. It's only going to do damage to your Little and subsequently your relationship. That's just my opinion. I don't mean to come off judgemental. Maybe it does work for some people, but I just don't understand the point and can only see the harm it does.

I absolutely agree with you. My last daddy did this to me without consent/prior discussion and I actually have a lot of trauma related to communication issues such as that so it was really triggering. I tried to explain how it affected me but he didn't care. Needless to say he is no longer my daddy.

[angelbaby_eden]

punishments we have so far are only spankings, tickles and a stern talking to... I’d love suggestions for some (no pain or minor pain, no neglect) punishments tho!!

[Littlepiggy0]

[131736_1655600858]

So my Daddy are in an ldr, and absolutely hate the idea of no contact. I'm a bratty little so not the best at listening. We like the punishment wheel idea and the being grounded idea but were wondering what other punishments we could do while apart.

[Guest HisBabySunny]

Hi everyone. I would like to know how you cope with getting in trouble/disappointing your Daddy. I have not been behaving very well in the last few days and have upset my Daddy. He is so patient and giving with me and I just feel terrible that I cried last night but didn't tell Him. I won't know which punishment He will give me until this weekend.

 

My punishments are:

Mild

• early bedtime

• time out

• stand in corner

Medium

• kneel in front of Daddy for set period of time

• no video games for 2 hours

• slapping

Severe

• caning

• cold shower

• genital pinching

• multiple slaps

 

☹ I know Daddy will always give me aftercare, but I am more sad about disappointing/upsetting Him than the punishment itself. Advice for regulating my emotions here?

[BabyDaisy81]

Mine are spanking (which usually means getting nailed quite soon after), time out in the corner, no rocket fuel (I love McDonald's coffee  ) and he withholds the biskies and other sweets from me.. Since I is a little fat little it's probably a good thing but  I like my treats..

 

He NEVER yells (because it scares me and makes me cry), uses anything but his hand to spank me, doesn't deny coffee (instant is drunk instead) and he brings biskies nearly every time we're together so I get plenty of them.. He's super loving and lenient so I don't get punished often.. He NEVER uses sex or denial of sex, knows that he's not allowed to ignore me as a punishment (although he does sometimes need time to calm the heck down), I can say pretty much what I please as my conversation is important to him.. I try not to be rude but I can be cheeky.. He never uses any kind of punishment that involves putting things like soap in my mouth or hurty things anywhere, doesn't tie me up or anything.. He doesn't like tantrums but I'm autistic and have meltdowns which he manages.. The only thing that does make him super angry is if I've been keeping something from him like if I'm feeling sick and haven't said.. Then he gives me a lecture on my not being honest and that upsets me because I've disappointed my daddy..

[BabyDaisy81]

First let me say that each thing I suggested is something that I have endured myself and also had others (in their adult headspace) consent to having done to them. I have both directed the use of this over Skype/voice and done it to others/had it done to me in person. So yes, it is safe and yes, it is labeled to only use for external purposes because of the sting. I will add, though, that those with heart conditions (and other physical health issues) need to be careful and look farther into anything they use rectally because the reason suppositories, etc are effective is because they are absorbed into the bloodstream and work quicker when using the rectal route. Therefore anything that isn't explicitly designed for rectal use could cause more harm than good. 

 

Vicks contains camphor (same as the stuff in mothballs) and is actually toxic so shouldn't go anywhere where it can be absorbed into the bloodstream..

[131736_1655600858]

What are some good punishments for LDRs? I wanna put them on a prize wheel (really like the idea bunnyblossom!!) But my daddy and I dont know what some punishments we can do are because we hate the no contact one.

[Guest Pipa_Brook]

. Edited July 16, 2020 by Pipa_Brook

[Guest ♥️ Hayden Babygirl♥️]

Mine are taking away my toys like my stuffies and stuff

[SparkleLime]

I get early bedtime, no sweets, spankings. Which is coming today at 2 causw I was a bad girl.

[Littolnobody]

[DangerousBananaKrytonite]

I was naughty yesterday so daddy's punishment for me was Bobby pins on both my nipples and one on my princess parts all day. Whenever he text I had to take a picture to prove they were still there and I had to remove them on video chat .