How Do I Collar Daddy?

[BabyMillie]

Recently Daddy and I have had the conversation about outward appearance of possession. I've been purchased a collar for home use and then slave bell anklets to wear at all times. Unfortunately because of work, I have to be relatively conservative about what I wear and what it represents.

Daddy *loves* outward appearance of possession and I am more than happy to wear whatever pleases him, but it sparked the topic of what he could wear to symbolize something similar. So far, our ideas are a ring on his ring finger on his left hand (something he's not totally comfortable with) or purchasing a claddagh for him. I wear one that he got me nearly four years ago on my right hand, but we are wanting to keep our options open for him!

 

How do you publicly claim your daddy?

[littlecl13]

hello! i've never actually done this myself, but there are very discreet options from eternity collars (that might be more obvious to people within BDSM). they have necklaces, bracelets, cuffs, and rings. most everything they have locks with a special key

 

etsy is always a great option too  c:

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

Etsy has some pretty good stuff, too. I've seen a lot of Dom bracelets, rings, and necklaces that are very subtle.

[Daddy's Meg]

My Daddy wears tungsten ring on his left hand. I have both a ring and a private collar with large bells.

[LittlePupRune]

My little has gotten me a leather cuff that I wear often, its blue like her collar. That could be something you look at, he may not be able to wear it all the time but it could possibly work.

[Himedere-Chan]

Well in my mind if he's a Dom then the only way to show he's yours is to be there with him, a lot of subs (from what I've read anyway) like to be or just are treated like trophies so by just standing next to him is showing them he's yours. Personally I think men shouldn't have to wear anything when out in public to show they are in a relationship since it's unlikely for a woman to approach him and that's because woman are more attractive and are just simply use to being approached so they really have no need to pick up guys when the men come to them. And with that logic that would make sense why men buy things like jewelry or collars for their lady love to show other people that she's in a relationship when he's not there with her.

[BabyMillie]

Well in my mind if he's a Dom then the only way to show he's yours is to be there with him, a lot of subs (from what I've read anyway) like to be or just are treated like trophies so by just standing next to him is showing them he's yours. Personally I think men shouldn't have to wear anything when out in public to show they are in a relationship since it's unlikely for a woman to approach him and that's because woman are more attractive and are just simply use to being approached so they really have no need to pick up guys when the men come to them. And with that logic that would make sense why men buy things like jewelry or collars for their lady love to show other people that she's in a relationship when he's not there with her.

I know that it's less than traditional for the sub to want their dom to wear something representing their relationship, but after the conversation we had, he believes I own him just as much as he owns me. It's a partnership to us. And there have been instances where women have approached him and flirted. It's not necessarily something that bothers me exactly.... okay yea it does. Daddy is mine cx

 

 

 

I really like the leather cuff idea!! He could wear something like to work and it'd be comfortable! Thank you so much for all of your suggestions! You really helped a lot and I'm accepted to present the new ideas to him!!! <3

[HisuianLilligant]

I have a 24/7 collar that doesn't come off that I wear everywhere but I never really wanted to collar Daddy-I always hold his hand in public, so maybe that's how I show possession? I also like to leave marks on his neck (definitely not as much as he loves marking up mine though haha, it usually looks like a mine field or something) but I consider myself his since he's daddy, though he's mine just as much

[Daddy's Lil]

My Daddy has a leather cuff from etsey. It says "Daddy" on it. We don't live together but when we are together I always place it on him to "tag" him to ward off other littles when were together. We were at a festival. The first other little I meet spotted and read my "Daddys little girl " collar. I instantly said, stay away from my daddy - as soon as she said shes a little. On the last night of the festival she made a bee line for him flurting ect. My Daddy didn't give her time of day. She was left with a very brusied ego.

[TheLittlestPixie]

A lot time ago, my ex fiance and I drew our blood and put them in vials which we wore around our necks.

 

Hey, it may seem creepy to some but Angelina Jolie did it.

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

A lot time ago, my ex fiance and I drew our blood and put them in vials which we wore around our necks.

 

Hey, it may seem creepy to some but Angelina Jolie did it.

That's actually kinda sweet. I like that idea.

[TheLittlestPixie]

That's actually kinda sweet. I like that idea.

 

When we were going to get married we were going to make two vials with both of our blood mixed together. 

[mylittlesidewearsblack]

hello! i've never actually done this myself, but there are very discreet options from eternity collars (that might be more obvious to people within BDSM). they have necklaces, bracelets, cuffs, and rings. most everything they have locks with a special key

 

etsy is always a great option too  c:

 

this is the one i use cuz i can't wear a collar that looks like a collar every day, and it is a helluva lot cheaper than the eternity collars

https://wyredslave.com/

[Ink]

Depending on your budget and the time you've been together, I personally thing a nice watch with very personal inscription makes the perfect 'collar' for a Daddy. You could even pick out a specific band for it, that works more with the dynamic.

 

A nice watch is a lot of things. Its a status symbol amongst many men (I find this silly but its a little hard to avoid honestly), it really stands out with nice clothing, it can really add an extra level of sophistication and confidence to a suit. Plus its worn directly over the pulse, which keeps Little's inscription that much closer to her Daddy's heartbeat. It's something that can be worn to any occasion and in-front of anyone whilst keeping the meaning of it just between the two of you. And if you find something that isn't huge, they can leave it on pretty much always.

 

Just an idea for something a little different