Seeking advice on Rules: stepping outside of being Daddy character

[Daddyirish49]

I am completely new to this and stumbled on being a daddy quite by accident, although since I realise I am perfect for the role having played daddy for a significant period of my life at home as well as work.

Question: I met my little girl recently. It's early days so want to get it right. Do I ever step outside my role to ask questions, seek feedback or am I always better to stay in character and use my character to understand if I am being successful or not? For the more experienced daddies and little girls out there what advise can you give me? Thanks

Edited July 12, 2017 by Daddyirish49

[Guest Ginger]

You can most definitely step outside your role of Daddy! Just like your LG can step outside of her role to be an adult and take care of things.

[lovelylittlelion]

Communication is key! Talk everything over! The more talking, the better you will both come to agreements and understand each other better. :3

[Daddyirish49]

Thank you Ginger and LLL, really valuable feedback. I have been a caregiver for decades now and pride myself on living daily with virtue and being of service. My strongest attribute is patience and I pride myself on effective communication practising the 7 habits of effective people as an almost belief system. I have explained to my first lg that I am happily married and have responsibilities. I care for her dearly so in order for this to work I need to be upfront and clear on boundaries and consequences, is this the right approach?

[lovelylittlelion]

Absolutely! Thats perfect.

[Daddyirish49]

Thanks LLL, gives me more confidence now. Have arranged to meet her this evening to talk through. She loves hugs but tends to get very horny quite quickly. I have a lot to learn.