Need advice please....

[GothicPrincess]

Hi, so I thought i might be interested in a ddlg relationship with a person but i don't know how to tell him, i already act like a little in front of him and have had binkies and bottles around him. It is hard for me to say when i want to try new things even though he's not judgemental at all. Also can anyone give me any idea's or advice on putting together goth little outfits, i already have a few halloween ones but would really like some just goth ones too please, thank yous

[wanderer]

It has taken me a long time to come out about this to my wife. Something which i did recently that really helped it to ask her about an outfit i was thinking about purchasing. She was much more supportive than allowed myself to expect. Perhaps you should ask him to help you look and describe a bit about what you want. 

 

It is better to be open and honest, but i can definitely understand taking it slowly. Sounds like you are off to a good start though.

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

Does this person know what DDlg is? Have you asked them if they're interested? That's my advice. Just explain DDlg to him, if he doesn't know about it, and then see where it goes from there. Unless he's familiar with the scene, then I suggest just being honest with him about what you want from your relationship. Even if he turns you down, at least you'll know!

 

I hope things work out for the both of you! : 3

[plumflower]

I think that if he hasn't had a bad reaction so far, he might be into it. But like dady's_little_shadow said above do all that.  Here's a great resource site too.

[GothicPrincess]

Thank you all for the advice, i think I'm going to do what daddy's_little_shadow said, I know he has a very basic understanding of what it is so I'll explain it to him more and see what happens. Thanks

[NHDaddy]

Fingers crossed for you.