In need of advice

[Jotck8]

So, I'm very new to this, and I'm not sure if its right for me. It appeals to me in theory, being a caring "daddy" for a little, but I'm not sure I'd be a good fit for it. In life, I'm not a serious adult type of person, and it worries me that I wouldn't be able to fill the roll of daddy. However, the concept of having a little to care for just clicks with me for some reason, and I don't want to abandon the idea without at least trying to make it work. If anyone can tell me how I could make this work, or if I should be looking somewhere else, it would be greatly appreciated.

[Guest Ginger]

Hiya :3 So, first thing you should know! Being a Daddy isn't written in some handbook. You don't need to be a serious person to fill that role. Just like being a Little isn't some cookie cutter kinda deal, being a Daddy isn't one either! Each person is unique ^-^ And figuring this out is just like anything else. You have to try and just see what works. I had to try 3 different times before I finally figured out myself and what kinda Dom I needed. Some are strictly "Daddy" and some are a mixture of different roles.

 

You can always check out the Personals section, fill one out if you fancy, and explain what you're looking for and whatnot. That's a good way to maybe find someone or just get feedback on a personal. Good luck either way!

~Ginger

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

My Daddy is 10yrs older than me but still goofy and immature sometimes. Plays video games, likes cartoons etc.

But he's a Daddy where it counts.

Being supportive, helping me, being stern. And the bedroom stuff *covers fase*

He's my Daddy because he's more than just a husband to me.

I feel like "Daddy" gives him a more appropriate title.

[Mikaitaku]

isn't that kind of the way of things for everything and everyone? You know the theory but until you live it you won't know the practical application of said theories, there is not set way being a daddy or little. 

[Daddy_Pzy]

I agree with all the posts here.  I am a new Daddy as well and new to the lifestyle.  It's just like being a parent (with extra benefits of course *smiles).  There are no handbooks to follow, you just take one day at a time and do your best.  You will make mistakes, just learn from them and continue to do better in the future.  The forums here have a Caregiver section that will assist you with tips and guidance, I have found this very useful in my learning process.  I think you will do fine if you just don't give up hope and continue to try to better yourself as a Daddy.  Best of luck to you

[Guest Fros†beard]

My Daddy is 10yrs older than me but still goofy and immature sometimes. Plays video games, likes cartoons etc.

But he's a Daddy where it counts.

Yeah, I'm a huge comics buff and I've got about 300 euros worth of Kamen Rider figures on display on my shelf.

Still, my little thinks I'm the best daddy for her. Besides, not being dead serious is a huge plus because littles generally like it when their caregiver is able to play along with their silliness!

Edited July 10, 2017 by Frostbeard

[wanderer]

So, I'm very new to this, and I'm not sure if its right for me. It appeals to me in theory, being a caring "daddy" for a little, but I'm not sure I'd be a good fit for it. In life, I'm not a serious adult type of person, and it worries me that I wouldn't be able to fill the roll of daddy. However, the concept of having a little to care for just clicks with me for some reason, and I don't want to abandon the idea without at least trying to make it work. If anyone can tell me how I could make this work, or if I should be looking somewhere else, it would be greatly appreciated.

I'm this way, I'm a little and I have my own two year old (actual age). If i can be a real parent than you can be a daddy. Us littles have a better ability to communicate what we need and are very willing to help make the experience work. I would say to find someone you are interested in and let the relationship evolve, much as you would any other relationship... just a lot more adorable

Edited July 10, 2017 by wanderer

[Guest Bunnyfeet]

you could always be a switch too

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

There are lotsa Daddies from lotsa different backgrounds, and they're all amazing Daddies. You don't have to be a serious adult type of person to be a Daddy Dom, or to take your role as a Daddy seriously. You just have to find what works for you as a Daddy, and then find a good Little match. : 3 It's just that simple. There's no wronng way to do it! Good luck!

[Little Dancer]

So, I'm very new to this, and I'm not sure if its right for me. It appeals to me in theory, being a caring "daddy" for a little, but I'm not sure I'd be a good fit for it. In life, I'm not a serious adult type of person, and it worries me that I wouldn't be able to fill the roll of daddy. However, the concept of having a little to care for just clicks with me for some reason, and I don't want to abandon the idea without at least trying to make it work. If anyone can tell me how I could make this work, or if I should be looking somewhere else, it would be greatly appreciated.

I agree with the posts above and I believe that as long as you care and love your Little you will be a good Daddy. Best of luck!

~Little Dancer