a very very sad kitten

[Guest Kittykitsune]

I have a feeling am not going to get a daddy because of my location or rather where I live   :( :( :( :( :(

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

I live in a very rural and conservative state. There aren't very many people here, much less people who are into DDlg. I thought I'd never find a Daddy, because of where I live, until I found someone on Tumblr who lives locally, and they have a Daddy. It's not a long distance relationship either. The Daddy is also from here. I know it feels like you'll never have a Daddy, but you will. You just have to go online and find a community that's close by. You'll make friends, and I'm sure you'll eventually find a Daddy! :3 *hugs*

[Guest Kittykitsune]

Thank you that made me feel better

[Vatus]

Well I live in Finland and there's about handful of littles I've come across.. So yeah I can see that feeling a bit depressing when wanting someone local. Then again if you are patient you will eventually find potential ones. But as always you still should get to know them rather than just jumping into anything.

[BruceDaLittle]

you will find a daddy. I live in fl but I havent given up on finding my mommy. so nots give up

[Guest Kittykitsune]

Thant chu

[Guest MisterE]

Daddys are everywhere. Sometimes yo start off with a long distance relationship, only to be brought together.

[minahbird]

Dun give up! I was gonna give up but someone told me not to and I decided I'm not gonna. I don't know anyone near me, and I have to be really careful because people scare me so it's gonna be real hard finding a Daddy, but there's always hope! LDR can work, and you never know what you'll find when you're not looking for it.

[Hastings]

Like the others have been saying, don't give up. Sometimes it just takes a little time to find the right person. You will find someone. It might be soon or a little while off. But you will. Try to smile and don't let the journey make you sad. It's easy to fall into sadness when you're alone and struggling to find someone. As much as you can, though, try to find happiness along the way. It'll make the journey more rewarding when you do find a Daddy. 

[plumflower]

Don't give up baby girl. I live in a liberal state but I found my Daddy across the US. It's though but I know someday we'll be together.

[Guest Kittykitsune]

I feel so happy now thant Chu all

[Amiu]

Yeah, where I live is also a bit disadvantageous. I've never met another little or a daddy before so I lack any advice.. sorry :(

But with patience and perseverance I believe it will be worth it in the end!

Sometimes things come at an unexpected surprise. 

[Guest ODaddy]

[Guest pacibrat]

There are caregivers,and littles, everywhere.  The problem is that it's harder to meet because you can't see that someone is a little or a caregiver out in public, at work, online (except in forums like this), etc. and we are definitely in the minority.  Just keep going.  For me, giving up is not an option because I don't want a man who isn't into DDlg.  

[Guest Sweetie77]

Yes, don't give up!

I almost did but then I realized that I didn't want a life with a man who didn't embrace DD/lg. I won't sacrifice my feelings ever again, won't push down that little girl who wants her Daddy. I was extremely fortunate to find my Daddy here.

LDR is practically a necessity in our group, but you may end up with a Daddy only a few hours drive away (or closer!).

Hang in there, it is worth it!