Ignored by my Daddy

[HiddenPrincess]

So for the past... three or four days now my daddy has been ignoring me and not messaging me. Our relationship is long distance but we've met in person before. And I mean, he drove six hours to see me.

He's been reading my messages and ignoring them and ignoring my Skype calls and I don't know what to do... like the big side of me is like "Screw him! You don't need no man" but my little side is just so hurt and now every time I enter little space I'm just depressed and don't want to do anything but cry...

I don't know what to do...

[angel-k47]

did you send him a message asking why he isn't responding? and do you really know about his relationship status when you began?

if you have asked him and he left you on read i would listen to your big side bc there's so many wonderful daddies out there, don't waste time waiting on a bad one

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

First of I want to say sorry for everything youve been through. Whatever the reason being ignored by your daddy is never acceptable. Second, I believe your initial response was spot on! "Screw him" I could not have said it better myself. You're completely right to shrug off someone that would carelessly ignore his little. You shouldnt worry about it too much and should find solace in knowing that now you're free to find someone even better!

 

In regards to the pain he caused you - I can only say that you should be upfront with him and simply ask why. Nothing more nothing less. Ask him why he left because in my opinion not knowing may be the cause of your anguish. The feeling of not knowing if you did something wrong, or if he found someone else, or if something happened to him. Whatever the case I think knowing the reason behind it will provide much needed closure.

 

In the meantime you must stay strong and confident knowing that things will only get better. Theres always someone better out there and once you find him itll make all of this but a distant memory^^

 

Take care frau and if you ever need someone to talk ill always be here to listen.

Edited July 1, 2017 by Stuffykins

[PartyAnimal]

I generally agree with all you have been told so far.  A Daddy is to be there for his little.  I find the great need for a little is that assurance and security, much as the great need for many Daddies is respect.  There will be OCCASIONAL small periods in which communication suffers in any relationship, but this should be the tiny exception and never the rule.  If he is not meeting your needs of assurance and security and/or if you have lost respect for him as your Daddy, then ending the relationship and moving on is  the best course of action for both of you.

[plumflower]

I want to say listen to your big side baby gurl. He isn't worth your time, but as a  little I know how hard it can be when your Daddy is ignoring you. Even if Daddy is mad, he should tell you that he needs a little time and he should always answer you.  My previous Daddy went several hours ignoring me and then giving me excuses like "Daddy forgot" or "Daddy zone out" when in fact he was on dates with another girl. Listen to your gut. My current  Daddy, makes sure that I'm always okay. Believe me, ask him about the time I freaked out. He's known The Daddy on here. The point is , he should tell you if he needs space and when he does, you can give it to him.  If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.

[HiddenPrincess]

[Littlest_Bee]

Sorry that happened to you.

[plumflower]

I'm sorry baby girl. We are here for you. *sits with and offers her blanket*

[angel-k47]

i'm sorry that happened to you, but it's for the best.

i know you will find a great daddy someday who truly loves and cherishes you.

[minahbird]

I'm so sorry!!! *hugs* You deserve so much better than that Just remember, you're the bigger person here because you're not the one who cheated. I hope you can recover from this soon and you don't let it make you think badly of yourself. You're special and wonderful and awesome and you're gonna find a Daddy who loves you so much more than he did! *offers her stuffed bunny for cuddles*

[Guest Kali]

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