Little + little relationships?

[Guest qtpie]

I don't know how it's happened, but recently I have been talking to another little and it has evolved into some weird sexual friendship I think?

We are both subs and have no interest in becoming dominant caregivers or switches, we have play time both as subs. We are always in our little space together and everything is normal but we kind of take care and love each other as well? It has happened naturally and I don't know if it's normal in the ddlg lifestyle. We haven't really felt the need of adding a dom to what we do either. It seems like it's always dom+sub or a combination with switches.

 

We are a bit confused cause we always thought every little just needs a mommy or a daddy, and that littles don't go together as couples.

She says we should get a caregiver for both of us (as if we were a little package) but I'm not sure about that cause I'd want a cg for myself and not share someone so important with anyone else. 

But at the same time I don't want to stop playing with her or stop being friends because what we have is really nice too.

 

Is this normal? Can sub-only relationships even exist? Has that ever happened to you?

[Guest Lycan]

Don't worry about the usual relationships in DDLG and not be with her because of a dominant not being there. If you're having these feelings for her go for it!  Do what makes you happy. Nothing is weird about sub-sub relationship as long as you're happy. If you really want a cg in the relationship at all, maybe have someone there as a platonic dom figure to set some lines for you to follow/activities for you to do TOGETHER.

 

The only way I could see you having one to yourself in a sense is to have a platonic dom of some sort of your choosing, same with her if she wants one. 

 

I am not sure though, I have never been in this kind of situation, I am just going off the top of my head trying to be helpful. I really wish you both the best and to never let the stereotypical ddlg relationship stand in the way of you being happy with someone.  I am a go with the flow type of person, so my say may not be as easy to you as it is to me.

 

Good luck <3 

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

There're no rules about love and attraction. (Well y'know, if it's not hurting anyone)

Two subs can be in a relationship, of course! And it makes perfect sense.

If you both want a dom, I think you're better off having one each- however it's not a necessity.

There's no reason you can't be happy together by yourselves. I think it's adorable ^^

[Guest qtpie]

Thank you guys for the advice! I will show all of this to her and we'll see!   

[chubbylilwolfcub]

I do have a Dom/sub relationship with my Daddy. However, I have a girlfriend/playmate. Our relationship is not currently sexual for reasons, but has been in the past. Our relationship is romantic, and we are both little and love being together. She has her own Daddy who is a switch, and I do occasionally take on a care giver type roll for them both when that happens (still non sexual).

 

Do whatever makes you happy. Every relationship is different, even ones inside a specific dynamic. Folow your heart, not "guidelines".