A Daddy Told Me He Really Disliked Non-virgin Littles... Is that normal?

[LilPrincess977]

So, I have been talking to someone for the past few days, and we started talking about sexual questions, but the subject of me not being a virgin came up and made me feel really bad. I told him that it was only one time two years ago, and admitted that I regretted that choice. But he kept telling me that he could not stand the thought of his little not being a virgin.

What should I do? Am I just over thinking this?

[DaddysMonkey]

You're not over thinking this in the slightest. While everyone has preferences , in my opinion this preference is a very biased one and not very realistic.

 

Most adults have sex before marriage these days , if he wants a virgin he should clarify that from the beginning and should not be making you feel bad about your past choices whether or not you regret them.

 

Sounds to me like you should move on.

 

Best of luck,

Monkey.

[Little.bear.tori]

I think you may be over thinking it. Some daddies just like littles to be more experienced and others don't like the idea of being the fort because the dirt time is always painful. And sorry for spell mistakes I'm typing fast

 

Sorry if you read this before I could fix it I thought it said he didn't want virgins. Well I think you could pull the second chance virgin card am technically cirginity is not a thing because the hem grows back and people say you lose cirginity when that is broken

Edited June 23, 2017 by Little.bear.tori

[PennyGoodfellow]

Honestly, to me, this sounds really, really creepy. Seems like he's confusing little with actual virginal child. It's unreasonable to expect littles to stay virginal, because they're grown people, and usually (not always) in a ddlg type dymanic there will be some sex. Again, it's my personal thoughts, but it just sounds creepy. 

[LilPrincess977]

[mylittlesidewearsblack]

Tell him to screw off. It's not his business whether you are or aren't. Virginity is a stupid social construct anyway, and isn't even a real thing. If he wants a chick with a hymen then he's bound to be disappointed, because hymens don't always get torn by sex, sometimes they are torn by activity or by a tampon or are never torn at all. If he's that obsessed with the idea that you need to have some kind of "purity" then clearly he's at least a little bit nuts.

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

Do not worry about it. Your partner's past decisions should never affect your present, especially if they are things that can not be changed like losing your virginity. If someone judges you for that or makes you feel guilty or regretful, they really are not the right person for you. A person should NEVER NEVER judge or move you for the decisions you made before meeting him, much less criticize you for that or tell you that you should have waited for him. It's ridiculous.

[LilPrincess977]

Thank you, this makes me feel so much better

[Creepy_Pirates]

heheh same profile pic

 

but that's a toughie question hmm I think theres no problem with preferences

but if he wanted a virgin he should've said so earlier  People are free to like and dislike whomever they please

we may not like it but we cant say its wrong or right because its his opinion. Sowwi that happened to you

[Literate Little]

that's not normal. he should accept that you're not a virgin... virginity doesn't really matter unless you're religious, anyway. i think it adds to the innocent image of a little, but it definitely should not be a requirement that must be met to be an acceptable little! you're a wonderful little, virgin or not.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Is he a non sexual cg? The idea of a sexual cg expecting to be everyone "first" is knda cringe worthy.

[Chicki]

as if people like that deserve virginity or are "owed" it as they sometimes think LOL

 

nah, it comes off entitled, creepy, and like he expects adults to be as pure as children. red flags imo.

Edited June 23, 2017 by Chickette

[Littlegirl1516]

No...that sounds like a unatral child fantasy....

[Guest littleprincess_7]

He sounds like a complete moron, you deserve better.

 

 

Also agree with Mylittlesidewearsblack completely.

 

Virginity and the concept of it is a social construct and gets fetishised to the point of being unrealistic.

 

Can't believe he's guilting you over it too. Anyone who makes you feel guilty for no reason is someone to avoid avoid avoid.

 

Take care!