A Disappointed daddy

[LittleNekoLexy]

Ummm Hello im Lexy and i think my daddy is dissapointed.

So here's what happened, Daddy and i have just meet on a website. We talked alot but only for a few days, yesterday he said that he'd pay for my ticket and fly me there to his place then i said that i was still young and i wanted to finish school and that i was still too shy since we only talked recently. Today, he asked for my phone number and he wanted to talk i say ill tell him when i get my new phone this week and he said ok, But then he asked for my skype and wanted to video call but i said "No sorry daddy but we just met and im still shy and nervous" then he stoped answering he and i said "sorry daddy i disappointed you" then he replied "everyone does little one" after that i tried to chat him and he didnt reply anymore.

Edited June 22, 2017 by LittleNekoLexy

[Guest Prat]

You're not the bad one, he was. He didn't respect your boundaries, he expected an easy girl instantly up for anything and then moved on when he realised that that isn't you. Don't think for a second you did anything wrong. You stood your ground and you should be very proud of yourself.

 

And a tip, avoid those kinds of Daddies in the future. Anyone who offers to fly you to his place within a week of knowing you is a big red flag..

Edited June 21, 2017 by Prat(Praetorian)

[LittleNekoLexy]

You're not the bad one, he was. He didn't respect your boundaries, he expected an easy girl instantly up for anything and then moved on when he realised that that isn't you. Don't think for a second you did anything wrong. You stood your ground and you should be very proud of yourself.

 

And a tip, avoid those kinds of Daddies in the future. Anyone who offers to fly you to his place within a week of knowing you is a big red flag..

Thank you sir

[xBabydollx]

I think u dodged a bullet tbh. He might be a seriel rapist/killer for all u know, or just looking for a quick one night stand situation. It was a lot of red flags there. First, he didn't respect ur limits/boundaries. Secondly, he was manipulative to try to make u feel bad about not doing something you're uncomforable with. Third, u don't really know him...so why was he in such a rush to see u and meet u? Sounds like red flag city to me. I'm sorry it didn't go as u hoped, but honestly sounds like it was for the best.

[Guest Prat]

No problemo

[LittleNekoLexy]

I think u dodged a bullet tbh. He might be a seriel rapist/killer for all u know, or just looking for a quick one night stand situation. It was a lot of red flags there. First, he didn't respect ur limits/boundaries. Secondly, he was manipulative to try to make u feel bad about not doing something you're uncomforable with. Third, u don't really know him...so why was he in such a rush to see u and meet u? Sounds like red flag city to me. I'm sorry it didn't go as u hoped, but honestly sounds like it was for the best.

Oh thank you i guess i shouldve noticed~

[Guest blumonkey]

There are so many males parading around as daddies, just a new way for them to entice vulnerable girls into very bad situations. Please have a friend evaluate potential daddies from now on. Which includes reading his texts

[MoDaddy]

Don't rush it, and don't let him rush you. Take your time, pay attention to the smallest of details in your chat etc. You'll weed out the fake ones in time. NO RUSHING!!! 

Everything else that has been said before I posted is very helpful! 

Be cautious!

 

[Guest Loki]

As others have said, he sounds dangorus and fake. I'm glad you stood your ground and you're safe. Never let anyone pressure you into anything!

[Guest Prat]

There are so many males parading around as daddies, just a new way for them to entice vulnerable girls into very bad situations. Please have a friend evaluate potential daddies from now on. Which includes reading his texts

Bit overboard but it's a safe idea.

[Guest blumonkey]

Bit overboard but it's a safe idea.

Not overboard for the OP, who described the red flags of what to watch out for then asks "am I bad little"

[baby__boo]

Ummm Hello im Lexy and i think my daddy is dissapointed.

 

So here's what happened, Daddy and i have just meet on a website. We talked alot but only for a few days, yesterday he said that he'd pay for my ticket and fly me there to his place then i said that i was still young and i wanted to finish school and that i was still too shy since we only talked recently. Today, he asked for my phone number and he wanted to talk i say ill tell him when i get my new phone this week and he said ok, But then he asked for my skype and wanted to video call but i said "No sorry daddy but we just met and im still shy and nervous" then he stoped answering he and i said "sorry daddy i disappointed you" then he replied "everyone does little one" after that i tried to chat him and he didnt reply anymore. Please help me am i a bad little? I didnt mean to be a bad one its just i had trust issues and we have only talked for less then a week.

NUUUU your not a bad little!! What you said to him is completely understandable tbh i would have said that too. Don't let him try to guilt trip you or make you feel bad just because of this.. if he was a real daddy and cared for you he would understand.

[Guest Lulua]

We talked alot but only for a few days, yesterday he said that he'd pay for my ticket and fly me there to his place [...]

 

Anyone who is so quick to make such a suggestion to a young girl is either a human trafficker or completely unaware of human trafficking and why girls should distrust proposals like that, which is also messed up.

[LittleNekoLexy]

Not overboard for the OP, who described the red flags of what to watch out for then asks "am I bad little"

oh umm sorry ill just remove the last part then

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

Everyone here has given you such good advice, I really don't think I can add to it. What I can do, & what you need to hear is this:

 

Ias a Middle, not a CG, im very, very proud of you. You stuck to your boundaries, you didn't let him talk past them, and you let him know you weren't going to risk your safety. His closer "everybody does" was a sick, twisted, narcissistic attempt at making you feel bad, in the hopes you'd panic & change your mind. And you didn't. im just really proud of you for sticking to your guns.

 

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "No one can make you feel bad without your permission." You're not a bad Little, you're a very smart &'strong Little. Don't ever forget that. If you're tempted to forget that, just remind yourself, "She may be small, but she is FIERCE!"

[kissingkitten]

Everyone here has given you such good advice, I really don't think I can add to it. What I can do, & what you need to hear is this:

 

Ias a Middle, not a CG, im very, very proud of you. You stuck to your boundaries, you didn't let him talk past them, and you let him know you weren't going to risk your safety. His closer "everybody does" was a sick, twisted, narcissistic attempt at making you feel bad, in the hopes you'd panic & change your mind. And you didn't. im just really proud of you for sticking to your guns.

 

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "No one can make you feel bad without your permission." You're not a bad Little, you're a very smart &'strong Little. Don't ever forget that. If you're tempted to forget that, just remind yourself, "She may be small, but she is FIERCE!"

I agree ^^^ plus...

 

You REALLY dod a good job and were vewy brave for posting your experience. That is how we learn.

 

Warm fuzzies for chu from another little.

[LittleNekoLexy]

Thank you everyone ^.^ I knew i could always come here for advice or to let something out 

[Guest Bread]

omg that's mean

[Sweetlittlemiss]

I am so very new to all of this, but I would be alarmed by anyone who seemed so pushy and ready to jump the gun. I don't know all the rules and the dynamics yet, but I assume that personal safety is standard across the board. Coming from a background in Public Safety, I strongly urge you to exercise caution and if at any point you feel that the person with whom you are communicating is trying to force your hand whilst ignoring your safety concerns, please understand that it is OKAY to say no. It doesn't make you bad. It keeps you safe. I wish you the very best of luck!