My little wants to be punished

[Taken101]

Okay sonny little has came out and told me she likes to be punished. For me this is fine and I'm quite happy to include that in our life. But she's fairly new to this and thinks that enjoying being punished is bad/embarrassing. To me it's a normal part of this lifestyle and nothing to be embarrassed about.

 

Does anyone have any good advice to help me convince her it's okay?

 

Constant reassurance ✅

Gentle persuasion ✅

 

Any other tips/tricks/ideas are appreciated

[ronja]

try to explore different kind of punishments?

not only spanking, but writing lines, time out and so on too

because maybe it's only spanking she likes (nothing wrong with that!!!!). if so, accept and don't use it as a punishment 'cause it isn't haha

 

Maybe she can get an account on here, it helped me learn it's okay to like these things?

[Taken101]

We have different punishments but I mean that she wants to be punished without having to break rules. She wants to be punished just when she feels like because she enjoys it including time outs and such.

 

Trying to convince her it's okay and she's not 'broken' is really hard right now

[ronja]

We have different punishments but I mean that she wants to be punished without having to break rules. She wants to be punished just when she feels like because she enjoys it including time outs and such.

 

Trying to convince her it's okay and she's not 'broken' is really hard right now

 

My only advise then ig is have her take a look at this forum? maybe that will help her and realize it's all good!

 

i for myself like punishments like timeout a lot, mostly because we watch a movie or adventure time together

[Taken101]

Thanks I'll get her to have a look

[Taken101]

[DaddysBeta]

I love being punished if I feel like I am lacking structure and discipline. I am a strong willed adult but a needy little. It's the joy of being able to be and have both. If she wants to be punished and it doesn't come organically then just make it fun and put her into situations playfully that allow her to "break the rules" in a relaxed manner. Like truth or dare or just challenges etc. nothing crazy but I am sure the joy of punishment includes the action that leads to punishment as reaction, if she just want to be punished then just take her over your knee and spank her and say "just because daddy feels like reminding his little girl who is the dominant one ;)"

[Littlest_Bee]

If I've been good but feel like I want/need a punishment. My guardian and I will talk about it and set up a roleplay scenario.

I'm still being a good girl but in the scene I can misbehave and "earn" my punishment

[Baby Neko]

We use punishments I actually like as rewards for being good, otherwise I just ask for them. 

 

If she feels like she wants a reason for punishment without really breaking the rules maybe you could make up some less serious rules or set silly tasks for her to break and then punish her. Then she won't be breaking any real rules.