The personals make me sad

[CharChar]

They all say "under 5'5"" or "petite is a plus" or "only short girls". What about us tall girls? Makes me feel like no one would like me as a little I'm not seeking out a daddy right now or in the near future, but I feel like when I try to no one will take me! Are there any taller littles that found daddies??

[xBabydollx]

Im not a tall little, but i do get what u mean. Ppl seem very particular in who they are looking for physically, even tho I feel in RL most of them would be far less picky. Or at least not "wow you're 2 inches too tall, that's too bad" or "you're not slim, i wont bother to talk to u" I feel most wouldn't behave like that in RL, preferences or not lol and it have that vibe here. However, not everybody is like that and some ppl have wider ranges of acceptability to them, so dont give up.

[Daddy_Shaw]

From a Daddy perspective, I can say that while I definitely prefer a short girl as a Little, I am not in any way put off by a taller Little. A person's personality is what I'm drawn to. 

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

People have their own tastes in what they are attracted to and thats perfectly okay! For every person who wants a short petite little theres a cg looking for a long legged, chubby princess!  

[Guest Prat]

My little is 176 cm tall and that doesn't bother me at all.

[Chicki]

It's just a preference. A lot of people have attraction points but if they end up liking someone, they might change their minds or not care as much. I'm 4ft 10 and I'm pretty sure people have thought I was too short before lol.

[Sparklefrosting]

I'm 5'6 and my Daddy is a giant. I like that my Daddy can beat up all the other daddies.  

I guess my advice is find a daddy that doesn't mind tall girls or find a daddy that your still small in comparison to. 

[Mintea]

Idk I've always thought I was really picky but I find I get to know someone and I usually disregard everything else and am overall happy with the personality. 

[DarkAvatar]

I'm 6ft 2". I'd probably be ok with a girl slightly taller, that's a pretty wide height range for me which would include most tall girls.

 

You'll find tall guys are going to be more accepting of tall girls, for alot of guys they just want someone shorter than them. The actual height of the girl isn't so much a factor.

 

For me personality is going to be more important than height of a girl.

 

You asked are there any tall littles that have found Daddies...years ago before ddlg became as big as it is now and before I knew about it, I was in a D/s relationship with a tall female submissive where I was more or less her Daddy but without the title.

 

She was about 6ft. But her sister commented that she looked short next to me

Edited June 21, 2017 by DarkAvatar69

[SleepyKitten]

I know i am not a daddy so i cant comment on little preferences for height, but on another thread i posted how i liked guys/daddies over 6ft. Then i started talking to a daddy who became my daddy and he is 5ft8, i really dont mind because i have still fallen in love with him...his personality, how we click... everything about him and that easily over ruled height.

 

I hope this helps as a kind of an example that height can be purely preference... even though its about daddies not littles xx

[Ink]

Inside the pillow fort, we're all too tall!

 

But in all seriousness - I get where you are coming from.

 

2^c

 

The best relationship advice about 'Types' that I ever read was from a self-published author named Chris Gutierez (I think it was from his book '1000 First Dates'). Really great guy. He poses the simple question: "How is your Type working out for you?" And, well - its a really fair question, if a bit blunt.

 

I totally understand that people have this idea of what their "type" is. But by pursuing that exclusively you are drastically reducing the number of potential partners. In a lifestyle like DDLG where the numbers are already low, and then factoring in the usual compatibility scales (emotional, sexual, locality, dom/sub dynamic, desired level impact that DDLG has over your life etc.) it seems excessive to throw the matter of height or size into the mix.

 

Fall in love with the person and you'll find you wont need this idea of "type" anymore.

 

/2^c

[Guest blumonkey]

I went back to my post a month old and probably in several pages deep:

 

don't have body type preferences, but I do prefer similar appearance to me: ie brown hair and eyes.

 

Perhaps you are selectively noticing the posts where you don't fit the size description and not taking a mental count of the posts where you aren't excluded by height

[CharChar]

I know i am not a daddy so i cant comment on little preferences for height, but on another thread i posted how i liked guys/daddies over 6ft. Then i started talking to a daddy who became my daddy and he is 5ft8, i really dont mind because i have still fallen in love with him...his personality, how we click... everything about him and that easily over ruled height.

 

I hope this helps as a kind of an example that height can be purely preference... even though its about daddies not littles xx

 

This is actually quite comforting!! Thank you

[CharChar]

I went back to my post a month old and probably in several pages deep:

 

don't have body type preferences, but I do prefer similar appearance to me: ie brown hair and eyes.

 

Perhaps you are selectively noticing the posts where you don't fit the size description and not taking a mental count of the posts where you aren't excluded by height

I just went through the first page or two and most of them said "petite/short/under 5'5"" only. Maybe  you're right in saying that I'm selectively noticing the posts i'm excluded but it felt like there were more that were excluding taller littles.

[HisuianLilligant]

Huh, I've only seen that like once but that's pretty discriminatory :/ People have their types though I guess

[jellicle baby]

psst: personally I think those with sick high standards don't really find anything meaningful most of the time...

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

I'm the same way, but instead of height, it's weight that is the issue with me. I know there are lots of Daddies out there that don't care, but the large majority seem to only want a Little they can pick up and carry around. It doesn't help that that's become a stereotype of what a Little is like. Chubby, as well as tall, Littles are not represented enough in the DDlg community. : /

 

I'm not too hurt by it, though, because I'm not really looking for a Daddy yet, but when I am, that's definitely something that will mess with my chances, I'm sure. It's the same with vanilla folks, too. It's just everywhere, really. : P