swapping roles and lgbtq in dd/lg

[softangel]

hello everyone! <3

 

this is kind of a mix of two topics so stick with me.

 

first of all i'm bi sexual and i've had both relationships with boys and girls. i don't know if i'm the only one but i haven't seen anyone embracing their sexuality on this website. once i told someone i'm pansexual on this website they told me that i'm a "fake little" and that i couldn't have a mommy. okay i guess suddenly i'm a "fake little" just because i like boys and girls?? i'm not sure if being anything other than heterosexual is something that is frowned upon in the dd/lg community.

 

this got me thinking how i haven't seen any dom girls or sub boys. someone could be a boy and take on the little role and a girl could take on the daddy role (i guess that would be mommy then??). i'm not just talking about lgbtq now. are there any couples that have the girl as a dom and the boy as a little?

 

in my opinion it's all a matter of preference and people should do whatever makes them feel safe and happy. if a boy slips into little space why should anyone in the dd/lg community judge them? i hate the whole idea of roles with genders and how if a person feels differently than what's "normal" that some people will judge them for it whether it's silent or being being directly told. we should love and accept and encourage them!

 

personally, i would love to have a daddy or mommy and i am 100% a little!

 

is anyone else a member of the lgbtq community and or have different roles other than the typical dd/lg relationship? what's your view on this?

 

remember to love yourself no matter what <3

 

 

~softangel~

[Antoinette]

I'm bisexual... Not exactly in the 'LGBT' community because most LGBT people hate me as they're very liberal and I'm just... Not. This isn't the place to talk politics though. 

 

I think you'll find, if you look around, that there is a wide variety of people that identify with this kink (or lifestyle, whatever you wanna call it man) girls and boys. When it comes to things like DDlg that have been highly promoted by sites like Tumblr (also a very liberal-type site) you'll find that those people also tend to be very liberal - so very accepting of everybody in the LGBT sphere and whatnot.

 

People who are calling you a fake little are just dumb, what does that even mean. How can you be a fake little or a fake daddy? If you identify with the term and you feel as though you are that thing then you are. If people don't like that then boo-fucking-hoo. 

[Strongbad456]

Whoever told you that you were a "fake little" should be ashamed of themselves. You are free to express yourself as you feel the need to. And you should be just as free to have a mommy or a daddy, or even gender reversed roles. I am personally not LGTBQ but I support their and your right to be happy as you see fit to do so.

[Spooky]

The type of relationship you are describing is very common!

Just look around and you will see lots of dominant women and submissive men, also men and women who are switches and like to play both dominant and submissive roles!

 

And I am also pansexual, I personally have never had any negative commentary on here about my sexuality but I am sorry you did. You just gotta ignore the haters and be you!

The LGBTQ community on here is rather large.

[Daddy's Meg]

We're all over. Need only look.

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17251-lgbt-littleskittens-3/

 

As for little Males and Dom Mommies, they're here as well but definitely less common on this site. Yet I see plenty on IG. Not sure the reasoning one way or another.

 

As for my view on the subject I could care less. I have met littles with Female daddies and several genderfluid littles. Whatever works is fine by me.

[LittlePupRune]

There's actually a few threads like this.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3623-lgbtq-littles/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/13661-the-mommy-list/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/6698-lgbtq-caregivers/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/20901-where-are-the-mommies-and-little-boys-including-non-binary-people/

 

I'm a genderqueer caregiver to a genderfluid little. There's a lot of us around, but we have low visibility. Its still very hetero-centric, but I'm seeing a bit more of us be vocal and such.

[nevergrowup]

I'm pansexual too

Imma little girl n Ive had a trans daddy but Id love to have a mommy

 

It's nice to see lgbtq community exists here too. I fink it's harder to find a mommy than it is t find a daddy.

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

I'm genderfluid so sometimes I'm a guy and sometimes I'm a girl, sometimes I'm both and sometimes none. I am also demisexual, but I like girls or not binaries more than boys. It's complicated, people often take me as a joke. So many times to save me bad times, I just say that I'm a lesbian.

People sometimes do not listen and believe that it is a way of attracting attention with labels. But it is simply the most accurate way of describing how I feel about my body and other people.

 

[mykryptonromance]

I'm Bisexual and though I have no experience having a Mommy or Daddy I think I would honestly prefer a Mommy because I tend to be more trusting and relaxed around girls.

[HisuianLilligant]