What are your rules?

February 4, 2017

My rules are:

Keep the home clean, Daddy does not live in a pig stye, including laundry and keeping the bed made.
No swearing unless it makes the story better
Only wear Daddy approved clothing, and if possible ask Daddy what to wear
NSFW: No masturbating without permission, no orgasm without permission
Bedtime is when Daddy says, and not a minute later. No arguing about bedtime.
No pajama bottoms when home
Don't talk when Daddy is watching an episode of tv he's never seen!
Practice your Irish lessons - 5 lessons a week.
Exercise and eat healthy at every meal, no treats without Daddy's permission.

February 13, 2017

February 14, 2017

Daddy and I just made these rules so they'll probably be changed a lot.

Joint Rules:

1. Daddy and his sweetheart will always have mutual respect for each other.

2. Daddy and his sweetheart will always be open and honest with each other.

3. Daddy and his sweetheart will always love each other equally.

Daddy's Rules:

1. Daddy will always try to let his sweetheart know when he will be gone for a while.

2. Daddy will always try to let his sweetheart know when the battery in his phone is about to die.

General Rules:

1. Sweetheart will always do her best, in her ability, in everything she does. Strive to make Daddy the proudest Daddy everrrrr and everrrrrr.

2. Sweetheart will put school work first before recreational activities.

3. Sweetheart will always respect her parents.

4. Sweetheart will address people who are older as Sir or Miss when possible.

5. Sweetheart will refrain from cursing and using undesirable language.

6. Sweetheart will use her initiative to work on self-improvement and become the best version of herself she can be.

7. Sweetheart will not speak badly of herself. She is Daddy's property and will respect herself as such.

8. Sweetheart will adhere to the House Rules her parents have in place.

9. Sweetheart must ask nicely and use her manners if she wants something.

10. Sweetheart will always communicate with Dadd when she is upset with him or just in general.

11. Sweetheart will be understanding when Daddy needs to go and will not whine or pitch a fit.

12. Sweetheart will message Daddy good morning and goodnight.

13. Sweetheart will send at least one selfie a day.

Health Rules:

1. Sweetheart will never harm herself in any way and will always tell me if you have the urge to do so.

2. Sweetheart will eat a minimum of one balanced meal and two pieces of fruit per day.

3. Sweetheart will aim to drink at least 2 to 4 glasses of water a day.

4. On school nights, Sweetheart will go to be 6-8 hours before she needs to wake up.

5. Sweetheart's nap-time can only last up to one hour and is permitted no later than 4 pm.

6. Sweetheart must have permission to watch a scary movie and other questionable things before bedtime.

7. Sweetheart must ask permission before having any sweets, chocolate, and other treats.

8. Sweetheart is not permitted to excessively drink alcohol unless Daddy has given you his permission and he knows you're not driving.

9. Sweetheart is not allowed to use drugs.

10. Sweetheart is not allowed to message Daddy while she is driving.

February 15, 2017

Hai~ I've been with my Daddy for a month and a bit, we have a long distance relationship but are working towards seeing each other for a few weeks as soon as possible.

Before we met I was a bit... intense. Polyamorous, heavy drinker and smoker, basically allergic to attachments and commitments but I've found a different side to myself in this relationship I'm eager and terrified to explore.

He brings out the best in me, and it seems I do the same for him So I'm ecstatic, and these are my rules (sorry for the long intro >~<)

1. Remember Daddy always loves you.

2. Eat a good breakfast, lunch, and Dinner every day.

3. Look both ways before crossing the street [if Daddy is around always hold his hand when doing so.]

4. Good manners, Please and thank yous

5. Do not let another male touch Stardust in a sexual way.

6. Notify Daddy before doing stuff with a girl, Write in detail or send photos/videos of what happens.

7. Work hard but don't overload yourself.

8. NEVER hurt yourself.

9. Curfew is still 11, Bed time is 12.

10. If Princess drinks she is only allowed half a bottle.

11. No smoking or doing drugs of any kind.

12. Never Talk back to Daddy.

13. Trust Daddy with everything he has only your best interest in mind.

14. No secrets should be kept from Daddy even things you don't want to tell he will still love you.

15. Daddy always opens doors and goes through first to make sure it's safe[hand in hand.]

16.Give Daddy Good morning kisses and Goodnight Kisses

17. No means No.

18.Daddy knows best

19.Answer Daddy properly, examples: "Yes Daddy, Yes Sir." ect

20.Ask before having sugaries and cummies.

21.Let Daddy know where you'll be and when to expect you home.

February 16, 2017

My daddy loves to spoil me rotten so we had to come up with a few basic rules I can follow everyday to get some points (this is mainly relating to health/fitness as that's one thing I struggle to do but he doesn't want me to feel like I'm not ok without it!! or household chores which he doesn't want me to feel like I need to do for him!!) which I can then spend on *treats*.

I know it's not exactly extensive but this is just simple everyday things, we also have more set rules like the ones mentioned above but I didn't want to repeat what everybody else already said!!

Also if anyone can suggest any everyday kind of rewards or more tasks to do I'd appreciate it!!

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February 19, 2017

I don't have a caregiver, but I have a couple rules for my prospective cg

1. My pronouns are they/them, and my nicknames should be gender neutral. If you want to use a gendered one, you can ask what gender I am that day

2. Make sure I do "normal person things" and don't forget them (showering, brushing teeth, eating)

3. Always ask if I have homework.

4. Don't ask for explicit pictures. If I'm in the mood, I'll send them to you.

5. I wanna know about ur day, too!

6. Let me know if you'll be unavailable for a given period of time. Sudden loss of contact can easily freak me out.

March 3, 2017

Joint Rules:

This TCH Ddlg relationship is to be strictly monogamous. Only between Daddy and His Princess. This is a lifestyle and is to be treated as such, but is to be kept under wraps around family and in church settings.

1.) Daddy and Princess will ALWAYS be respectful of each other.

2.) Daddy and Princess will ALWAYS be open and honest with each other.

3.)Daddy and Princess will ALWAYS keep promises, whether verbal or written.

4.) Daddy and Princess will attend social events together unless approved otherwise.

5.) Daddy and Princess will check in with each other periodically when not together.

6.) Daddy and Princess go to bed and wake up together.

7.) Daddy and Princess will ask permission before buying anything over $20.

8.) Daddy and Princess will practice typical daily maintenance. ie: showers, brushing teeth, shaving, etc.

9.) What Daddy says goes and Princess needs to listen without an attitude.

1Daddy's Rules:

1.) NEVER ask Princess to snap into "big girl time" unless it's an emergency. It's not easy for her to transition between "big girl time" and "little space".

2.) ALWAYS address Princess properly. ie: Princess, babygirl, Alexus.

3.) Daddy is in charge of Aftercare and is to IMMEDIATELY follow any punishment or scene. The following is base procedure:

A.) Stuffie, Sippy & Covers

B.) Cuddles & Kisses

C.) Reassure Princess that she is safe, loved, etc.

D.) Wait until Princess is ready

E.) Ask what Princess wants to do next

4.) ALWAYS be patient with Princess, she can't always process things on your terms.

5.) Don't get huffy with Princess.

6.) Reward Princess when she deserves it. ie: a movie of her choosing, something from the Treat Box, a massage, extra cuddles & kisses, $10.

7.) Punish Princess as soon as she misbehaves, don't rack up the numbers if we're out. ie: spanking (no more than 3 at a time), timeout, no sweets, no juice, one Stuffie taken for the day.

8.) Give Princess lots of cuddles & kisses.

9.) Daddy arranges all of Princess's doctor's appointments, etc.

10.) Daddy is in charge of Princess's intake of alcohol, sweets, & cigarettes.

11.) Daddy ALWAYS drives unless Princess is given permission.

12.) Make Princess food & order for her when in public.

13.) Help Princess with chores if she asks.

14.) Daddy keeps his stubble, under NO circumstances is he to clean shave unless he is in uniform.

15.) Give Princess baths/showers, brush her hair.

**NSFW** 10.) Sex is on Daddy's terms, but Princess can always request or deny. Safe words are YELLOW & RED.

11.) Church is to be attended every week unless Daddy, Princess, or kiddo is sick.

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Daddy's Rules:

1.) NEVER ask Princess to snap into "big girl time" unless it's an emergency. It's not easy for her to transition between "big girl time" and "little space".

2.) ALWAYS address Princess properly. ie: Princess, Babygirl, Alexus.

3.) Daddy is in charge of Aftercare and is to IMMEDIATELY follow any punishment or scene. The following is base procedure:

A.) Stuffie, Sippy & Covers

B.) Cuddles & Kisses

C.) Reassure Princess that she is safe, loved, etc.

D.) Wait until Princess is ready

E.) Ask what Princess wants to do next

4.) ALWAYS be patient with Princess, she can't always process things on your terms.

5.) Don't get huffy with Princess.

6.) Reward Princess when she deserves it. ie: a movie of her choosing, something from the Treat Box, a massage, extra cuddles & kisses, $10.

7.) Punish Princess as soon as she misbehaves, don't rack up the numbers if we're out. ie: spanking (no more than 3 at a time), timeout, no sweets, no juice, one Stuffie taken for the day.

8.) Give Princess lots of cuddles & kisses.

9.) Daddy arranges all of Princess's doctor's appointments, etc.

10.) Daddy is in charge of Princess's intake of alcohol, sweets, & cigarettes.

11.) Daddy ALWAYS drives unless Princess is given permission.

12.) Make Princess food & order for her when in public.

13.) Help Princess with chores if she asks.

14.) Daddy keeps his stubble, under NO circumstances is he to clean shave unless he is in uniform.

15.) Give Princess baths/showers, brush her hair.

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Princess's Rules:

1.) Princess is allowed the following:

A.) Stuffies

B.) Sippies

C.) Coloring

D.) Cartoons

E.) "Little" Clothes

F.) Storytime

2.) Princess is to address Daddy properly. ie: Daddy, Babe, Seth.

3.) Princess is to do her chores set by Daddy.

4.) Princess can pick out her clothes, but everything is to be approved by Daddy.

5.) Princess can have Playtime whenever she asks Daddy; but when Daddy says Playtime is over, don't argue.

6.) Princess can have up to an hour nap whenever she needs/wants it.

7.) Princess gives Daddy lots of cuddles & kisses.

8.) Princess is to tell Daddy when he broke a rule, and she can pick from the following punishments:

A.) No choice in TV

B.) No alcohol

C.) No phone

D.) No tattoos for 4 days

9.) Princess isn't to go anywhere without Daddy unless approved by Daddy.

10.) Princess is to be especially careful when driving, crossing streets, and cooking when Daddy isn't around.

11.) Under NO circumstances is Princess to touch Daddy's firearm or get into his safe without direct approval/supervision unless deemed absolutely nessesary.

**NSFW** 12.) Princess is not to touch her "Princess Parts" or cum without permission from Daddy.

March 4, 2017

i love my daddy very much and i feel that the rules he has set for us are very caring and agreeable <3

♡ daddy's rules ♡
1• secret. we are a secret. if you dont tell, i wont tell. (exception;; online)
2• do not touch yourself without permission. if you are lonely, tell daddy and daddy will help.
3• you are daddy's and daddy's only.
4• do not keep secrets from daddy.
5• try on new outfits for daddy. daddy loves seeing you dressed up and happy.
6• you will call daddy by his preferred names in bed. otherwise daddy wont call you your preferred names.
7• do not ever. ever. self harm.
8• do not doubt yourself. you are perfect in every way.
9• daddy loves seeing your drawings !! show them to him !!
10• if you ever feel as though you want a "new temporary personality", tell daddy and daddy will call you by any names/pronouns you like.
11• pornography is ok !! but you must have permission from daddy before watching anything pornographic (unless its a movie scene !! if you are watching a movie;; invite daddy. he loves spending time with you !!)
12• you and daddy's "videos" are to be kept private. do not watch them anywhere where you would not "reenact" them.
13• daddy is ok with you doing almost anything online,, except;; give daddy's real name. show yourself without clothing. plan to meet up with anyone. anyone.
14• daddy loves hearing you sing !!
15• come to daddy if you are feeling sad/confused/hurt/angry/lonely/etc. ESPECIALLY come to daddy if you are feeling suicidal or are thinking about hurting yourself. daddy will help you the best he can.
16• if daddy's babyboy wants snacks, daddy will bring him some snacks.
17• tell daddy anything and everything.
18• if daddy does something you dont like;; tell daddy immediately.
19• if you break a rule, daddy may punish you, but he will not be mad at you.
20• daddy will only share his snacks with you if you ask nicely or beg. this depends on daddy's mood, of course.
21• daddy will only share his special candy with you if you ask nicely or beg. this depends on daddy's mood, of course.

22• if you want/need a break from daddy being daddy and you being daddy's little, tell daddy and the both of us can go back to being friends for a while.
23• if daddy makes you cry or hurts you badly.... you have permission to punish daddy..

× reminders ×
• safeword is "no [daddy's real name]/[daddy's real name] no". remember to use a strong firm voice when using the safeword.
• daddy loves it when you play hard to get !!
• daddy is ok with you talking about him online ( as long as daddy's real name isnt given !! )
• haha no, daddy's special candy is not "him", it is merely those hard candies daddy can buy only once a year.
• rule [16] is very important !!!!
• remember, daddy is not just your master;; he is your mate and best friend
and he loves you dearly.

March 7, 2017

These are my rules!! Daddy is very, very kind and I am usually a pretty good girl, so get lots of rewards which makes me happy. :wub:

Rules:
1. Always be honest with Daddy
2. No swearing or talking back to Daddy
3. Be nice and polite
4. No self-harm
5. No big girl things without Daddy's permission (alcohol, scary movies, so on)
6. Show Daddy what I'm wearing for the day
7. No funsies or cumming without Daddy's permission
8. No sharing pictures of myself without Daddy's permission
9. Always strive to make Daddy proud
10. I will tell Daddy if I break a rule

( The swearing one took a bit getting used to, hehe)

Punishments:
-Timeout
-Early bedtime
-No stories
-No pictures of Daddy
-No funsies
-Spanking

Rewards:
-Pictures of Daddy
-Funsies
-Stories
-Treats
-My choice

March 7, 2017

1) No swearing at daddy.

2) No self-hate. Daddy thinks I'm perfect just the way I am!

3)No self-harm or starving myself.

4)Daddy always knows best. Disobeying daddy leads to punishment.

5)Don't hide your feelings from daddy. If you are unhappy or not enjoying something, let daddy know.

6)Always remember that daddy loves you.

March 11, 2017

We don't really have written down our rules, but we have an ark of paper with the following rules that Daddy wrote down after a very tiring week (in my defense, I was sick and full with antibiotics... and bored).

Princess is always to ask for permission before eating cookies or any other sweets. (I cleared the stash.)

Princess is to obey all orders when playing with others, even those not by Daddy or take the punishment in silence. ( I didn't want a babysitter.)

Princess is not to cut her stuffies hair alone and without supervision. (My Barbies needed a fresh style and I cut my finger)

Princess is not to maneuver the stove or oven alone and without supervision. ( I wanted cookies and I burnt my hand)

Princess is not to climb the furniture alone and without supervision. ( I wanted to reach the cookies Daddy bought after I failed baking my own)

Princess is not to leave Daddy's sight without clearing it with him first. (I walked off to find a place to sit when Daddy was buying said cookies)

Princess is not to take out the batteries out of Daddy's alarm because she doesn't want him to go to his job. ( I was feeling lonely.)

Princess is not to refer to her Daddy's job as stupid. (He asked why I did it.)

i find this hilariously adorable! XD -just had to say it lol

anywhose atm, me and daddy are having some communicating issues, cause hes busy and im busy and we have a 2 hr time difference and my phones is broken and i dont get a new one for a few months so i only have 5 rules atm

1.kitten must always dress cutely (but he says im always cute lol, so we clarified it as just not too reavealing)

2. kitten us try to make new friends ( i is very quiets and shys - i literally have 1 friend rn and that is daddy so he saids that i should try)

3. kitten must get good grades 9i do well in skl but i tend to procrastinate)

4.kitten must excercise at least 30 min aday (aside from dancing im a real couch potato - but then i complain about it becaiusse i gets boreds...)

5. kitten must have fun ( i has depression and i has no friends and dont get along with my siblings anymore since they found out i had depression.... so daddy says i has to tries still because iz importants)

March 13, 2017

Daddy is slowing adding rules as we grow. Daddy.and I have only been together 9 months. He didn't want to set off my anxiety by imposing so many rules at once. Daddy is very considerate of my struggles.

He is a old school Daddy with some.traditional rules and some he's made for me.

X Daddy is my only daddy

X Tell Daddy when I wake up, when I'm driving, when I arrive and leave

X Bed time is strictly enforced because work is important

X Always tell Daddy good morning and good night

X Princess is to be truthful and open with daddy. No secrets, no lies, no down playing feelings or worries

X Princess sits at Daddy's knee when I color or watch my shows.

X Princess has to ask if she wants a soda

X Princess sends Daddy the lunch menu and he approves what I can have

X Princess doesn't eat after 8 o'clock unless given permission.

X Princess never touches Princess Parts or watches naughty things.

X Princess doesn't use bad words

X Princess serves Daddy to the best of her ability each day.

X Princess shows gratitude and love for Daddy with kisses, snuggles, shoulder rubs, and "thank you"

X Princess keeps all her toys clean and stuffies neat.

X Princess tells Daddy about each OCD moment and anxiety attack.

X Princess accepts all her punishments without whining or pouting.

X Princess behaves in public and walks a step behind Daddy his left side.

More rules are added monthly. It takes me a while to retain new rules. I might struggle a little in the beginning with a new rule but I honestly thrive with rules. Daddy knows I'm a very routine and consistent Princess, the more guidelines I have,structure, makes all the expectations clear. I never worry if I'm pleasing Daddy because I have rules set in place to eliminate any surprise issues. Make sense??