What are your rules?

[little paper stars]

I'm not really sure how we would go about making rules for us because I'm not really a bad girl. The problem is, I'm getting really bad about not doing what I set out to do! And we're both very new to this so two vanillas awakwardly trying to figure this out really isn't making it go anywhere.

[little paper stars]

Thank you so much, Rosie! That's really helpful. I found out recently that he's really into spankings so I'm sure he'll jump on that to be a punishment if I break any future rules. . .

[LilJenn]

Hello, everyone! I'm new here and this was the first thread that caught my attention and I wanted to share Daddy's rules for me:

 

1. Princess is to always refer to Daddy as "Daddy", never "Master" or "Sir".

2. Princes is to only address Daddy as "Daddy" when we are alone or via messaging and notes. Not in front of others.

3. Princess is allowed to consume alcoholic beverages, but never in excess.

4. Princess is to wear her hair in pigtails during playtime.

5. Princess is to address all concerns and complaints respectfully. 

6. If Princess has a case of the grouchies, she is to tell Daddy immediately and what is bothering her so that he can make it better. Princess is to never intentionally take out the grouchies on Daddy.

7. Princess is to respectfully hold Daddy accountable when he steps out of line.

8. Princess and Daddy are allowed to come to one another at any point in time something is said or done, within the DD/lg dynamic,  that makes us uncomfortable.

9. The safe word is to be used any time Princess is unhappy or uncomfortable during a scene. If she is unable to speak clearly, she is to use the assigned hand gesture.

10. Princess is to sleep naked every night.

11. Princess may not interrupt sexy playtime by bringing up non-sexual things.

12. Princess is to not wake Daddy to pick a fight, rehash a discussion from earlier, or air a grievance. Emergencies or being ill are exceptions to this rule.

13. Princess may not post provocative photos of herself on public websites. Sexy photos are for Daddy's eyes only, and He does not like to share.

14. Princess is to bring any major purchase or decision to Daddy to discuss it together first.

15. Princess is to keep a close eye on expenditures and make sure to write everything down in the check register.

16. Princess must let Daddy know when she is feeling excited and needs his "attention". 

17. Princess is to not argue with people on the internet, even if they say something that really makes her angry.

[prncesskittn]

1. never lie to mommy and mommy won't lie to you

2. always tell mommy when something is wrong

3. bedtime

             school night-10:30

             weekend- 12:00

4. do not hurt yourself

5. no swearing, princesses don't say naughty words

6. mommy always knows best. respect her and her decisions for you

7. if at any time you don't trust mommy/ feel uncomfortable, tell her

8. you are mommy's and mommy is yours

9. complete submission

10. always speak your mind- you can tell mommy anything, even if you are mad at her

11. no putting yourself down

12. you are very important to mommy. always remember that

13. respect when mommy is busy, but don't be afraid to ask for help

14. if any rules are broken, respect the punishment given by mommy

[Daddy's Snowflake]

 

We don't really have written down our rules, but we have an ark of paper with the following rules that Daddy wrote down after a very tiring week (in my defense, I was sick and full with antibiotics... and bored).

• Princess is always to ask for permission before eating cookies or any other sweets. (I cleared the stash.)
• Princess is to obey all orders when playing with others, even those not by Daddy or take the punishment in silence. ( I didn't want a babysitter.)
• Princess is not to cut her stuffies hair alone and without supervision. (My Barbies needed a fresh style and I cut my finger)
• Princess is not to maneuver the stove or oven alone and without supervision. ( I wanted cookies and I burnt my hand)
• Princess is not to climb the furniture alone and without supervision. ( I wanted to reach the cookies Daddy bought after I failed baking my own)
• Princess is not to leave Daddy's sight without clearing it with him first. (I walked off to find a place to sit when Daddy was buying said cookies)
• Princess is not to take out the batteries out of Daddy's alarm because she doesn't want him to go to his job. ( I was feeling lonely.)
• Princess is not to refer to her Daddy's job as stupid. (He asked why I did it.)

Omg this is adorable. Taking the batteries out is an amazing idea.

[WarriorPrincess]

I and my Daddy are both new to ddlg so I have a simple and small rule list at the moment.

1. I have to try to get 6 hours of sleep especially on work nights

2. I have to eat everyday

3. No clothes in bed

4. Must let Daddy know if I feel like hurting myself

5. Must let Daddy know if I am having a nongirl day

 

Editing this because I have been given more rules

 

6. No saying daddy is "cute"

7. No saying daddy is better than me or I love him more than he loves me

8. No saying bad things about my self or fighting Daddy when he says good things about me

(Can you tell I have trouble keeping my mouth on track?)

[Dylan]

these are my rules i wrote as a basis and if me and my future partner want to modify or add to them we will but this is just a begining structure i came up with. im also new to this

 

 

1.  You must always listen to Daddy.  He has your best interest in mind and wants you to be safe.

2.  Use your big girl words, fussing can earn you a spanking!

3.  Do not be meant to yourself! No selfharming or speaking negatively of yourself.  It hurts Daddy when you do.

4.  You must eat at least one meal a day.

5.  You can tease but Daddy will tease back!

6.  Dont be mean to daddy!

7.  No talking back!

8.  Ask permission for touchies and cummies.

9.  Saying 'safeword' will stop all that is going on and we will check on each other.

10. Aftercares will wlays be provided!

[BH_Bambi]

We updated my rules recently! Here's a link because they're super long. 

http://notquiterapunzel.tumblr.com/post/137571033296/updated-rules

 

(the post itself is SFW, but my tumblr is NSFW)

[PennyGoodfellow]

I don't have too many rules because usually I'm very good  - I don't like spankies, but here is our list. My nickname is Sheepy (long story) and my "mommy" is Meg, since she doesn't like the term "Mommy." 

 

Work

1. Sheepy will go to work every day that she's scheduled. (I loathe my part time job and sometimes I called out sick when...I was less than sick...) 
2. Sheepy will fill out job applications in order to leave her bad job. 
3. Sheepy will eat the lunch that Meg has packed for her, and will eat real food before the snacks. 

School

1. Sheepy will go to school when she has classes or when she has to have studio time. (I...may have skipped a dumb class once or twice...) 
2. Sheepy will do all of her homework and tell Meg of deadlines so they go on the calendar. Meg will have a copy of the syllabus as well. 
3. If Sheepy gets good grades then she will get a prize. (Last semester I had a 3.85 GPA and Meg got me a 3DS xl, so I'm making sure to follow this rule!) 

Home

1. Sheepy and Meg must go to bed together and can never go to bed angry with each other. 
2. We share blankets. (This is one of my weird things. I don't like when we have separate blankies.) 
3. Sheepy will make sure to brush her teeth before bed. 
4. Sheepy will take all of her vitamins.
5. Sheepy will take Ronmo (my favorite pink stuffie bunny) with her everywhere. (Don't worry, he likes my purse and back pack.) 
6. Sheepy will ask before snacks. 
7. NSFW: Sheepy will ask for sexy times when she wants it. 

[PrettyOceanPrince]

I have no idea how to go about getting Daddy to set rules for me  ; ~ ;

Well we have two

Don't Self Harm and Always listen to Daddy in the bedroom

 

I don't know I just really wish he would at least set a bedtime for me  > ~ < Is that bad?

[BabyGirl78]

Love this thread... Don't have our list yet

[Kirstylou]

With my last DD I had rlues for both my big and little side alot of them over lapped

ask permission before going somewhere

No touching princes parts without permission

Call Daddy sir when out in public or with non DD/Lg couples

That's just a few the list was huge

[Guest cherryteapot]

hey! so i just found this and with the help on here and a few other ideas me and my daddy came up with a few rules they're not finished but i thought i'd drop them in here

 

- Daddy is always correct (unless his Baby protests and get's very upset, then we can talk about it together).

- Baby should ALWAYS tell daddy the truth, no matter what.

- Baby should never hesitate to say something to Daddy. Doesn't matter how embarrassing or scary it may be (Daddy will always understand and never judge).

- If Daddy asks for Baby's advice on style and clothing etc, baby must give her honest opinion. Daddy doesn't want to look silly.

- Daddy always keeps an eye on girly clothing, if he sees something he thinks you'll like, he'll send a picture or show you. You have to always tell daddy if you do or don't like it. If daddy REALLY likes it, it would be nice if you liked it too, and wore it.

- Baby must always try to eat healthy to keep her strength up and to help stay fit and well. Daddy doesn't mind the odd rubbish meal now and again.

- Daddy loves smart girls, so baby must always go to school, unless she's really ill or genuinely can not go to school. Education is very important!

- If daddy wants to by baby something, she cant say no. And she doesn't have to do anything in return. If daddy wants to spoil his baby, he will.

[daddyslittlekitten23]

My daddy and I have a pretty long list of Rules and Chores that we sat down and made together :3

 

Rules: 

 

1. Bedtimes are 10 on Sun-Thurs and 11:30 on Fri-Sat

2. No Belittling Yourself

3. Take Medicine Everyday 

4. Always be open and honest with Daddy

5. Do not drink alcohol without Daddy's explicit permission

6. NO MASTURBATING

7. Tell Daddy where you are going and who you are with and who is coming over 

8.No TV or games until homework is done 

9.No napping until homework AND chores are done 

10. Always tell Daddy what you want 

11. Daddy's word is final 

12. Trust Daddy 

13. Drink 16oz of water everyday and tell Daddy after every cup 

14. No talking to anyone on the banned list 

15. Show Daddy what you are wearing before you leave the house 

16. Come home directly after school unless you get permission from Daddy first 

17. No self-harming 

18. Tell Daddy every time you start your period 

 

Chores: 

 

1.Shave every Saturday 

2. Clean room every Wednesday or Friday 

3. Workout every Monday and Thursday 

4. Brush teeth twice a day 

[Little Rivas]

My dadd is still slowly adding rules! We are new to this

❤Don't ask too many questions

❤Don't sass daddy

❤When in public always be within eye site of daddy never stary more than ten feet!

❤No cussing around daddy! Little girls don't cuss!!

❤Never put yourself down! Daddy thanks you are perfect!!

❤Never ever say you hate daddy, it hurts his feelings!

❤Princess is to do her chores before any playtime! (no paci, sippy, stuffie, or coloring till they are done!)

[LittleHoopDragon]

I like rules!

 

My Daddy and I basically have these rules (there's a typed up version on my laptop but I'll paraphrase):

 

I have three daily assignments to complete (takes about an hour or so):

1. I must practice my hula hoop dance/tricks in some sort of way for a minimum of 15 minutes.

2. I must do 30 minutes of some sort of exercise (I generally do yoga).

3. I must complete my two (sometimes three) journals:

-Gratitude journal (5 things I'm grateful for every day)

-My submission journal: I write it as a personal diary but I present it to Daddy to read. I share thoughts about my journey into submission and exploring my little side (among other fetishes), how much I worship and adore my Daddy (gushing to him romantically ), and sometimes just whatever I'm thinking about.

-Fantasy journal: I am not required to write in this one every day, but only when I think of some new fantasy that makes my princess parts tingle. I am supposed to rate my desire for this fantasy on a scale of 1 to 10.

 

*I must take care of myself: eating relatively healthy, not too many sweets, stay active, drink enough water, maintain proper personal hygiene.

 

*I must ask Daddy to drink alcohol.

 

*I must ask Daddy's permission to touch my princess parts and again to cum.

 

*I must cum when Daddy tells me to.

 

*I must obey Daddy's commands and answer him in private with either "Yes, Sir," or "Yes, Daddy" and in public with "Okay, baby".

 

*I must always be ready and willing to please Daddy in any way He needs, be it sexual or not.

 

*I must ask Daddy's permission to spend more than $20.00. (I have a bit of a spending problem). ((I am currently on punishment for this due to spending $151.00 on Wish.com. I cannot buy anything that is not a "necessity" (I have a list of what these are) until April and I'm not allowed to online shop until May. In addition, I am to only use my credit card for one small purchase a month until this time. Punishment for violating this is not being able to go see Daddy for three whole days! I just got done with that because I couldn't resist pink wine and cute sippies at the grocery store!).

 

I think that's most of it.

[Sweet-Cinnamon]

We just made some rules. It's a short and simple list. We didn't feel the need to add a lot because my little side is strictly nonsexual, so there's no sexy time rules.

 

1.) Listen to Mommy and Daddy always, they have your best interest in mind

 

2.) Take your pills every morning and night.

 

3.) Tell Mommy and Daddy when you take your pills.

 

4.) Wash your face and princess parts everyday.

 

5.) Brush your teeth every day.

 

6.) Eat at least 1 meal during the day - tell Mommy and Daddy what and when

 

7.) Exercise for at least 10 minutes a day - send Mommy and Daddy a picture when you do

 

8.) Always ask for sweets

 

9.) Do your daily chores

 

10.) No swearing

 

We also have a list of things they can do to help me get into little space when I'm having a hard time letting go of being an adult.

 

1.) Call me Cinnamon

2.) Call me pet names - i.e. princess

3.) Reminds me to call you Mommy and Daddy

4.) Get my paci or sippy, or a snack

5.) Brush my hair / put into pigtails

6.) Pick out my clothes

7.) Put on cartoons / movie

8.) Tell me I'm too small to do something

 

The list goes on, but it's helpful.

[MrFox's Princess]

Daddy finally came up with our list!!! I'm so excited!!

Still a work in progress though.

 

 

 

1. Daddy knows best.

2. Use your manners (please and thank you)

3. Clean up your arts and crafts

4. Bedtime is 12am unless Daddy says otherwise

5. No junk food after 11pm (unless smoking with Daddy, munchies will happen)

6. No bad words about yourself, no self harm, no belittling yourself.

Ex. Saying Im not pretty, burning or self tattoos, Im not good enough or it's my fault.

7. When going out:

~Daddy must approve of outfit

~Be on your best behavior

~Hold Daddy's hand/stay close to Daddy

~Don't make a scene; "no means no"

8. You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with

9. Keep up on your hygiene

10. You're Daddy's and that's it.

11. Obey Daddy.

12. Embrace all of Daddy's love.

13. Always be honest about your feelings. No hiding anything from Daddy.

14. Accept your punishments.

15. Take care of your body (eat good food, exercise)

[Guest Daddy'sLilMonster]

Rini's Rules:

 

1. Rini must immediately tell daddy if she is uncomfortable or being pushed too hard or beyond her limits

 

2. Rini must always be 100% honest and open with daddy, and never lie or hide anything from him.

 

3. Rini must always be completely obedient and respectful to daddy.

 

4. Rini must send daddy a good morning text every morning when she wakes up and a good night text every night when she is in bed.

 

5. Bed time is 10 pm

 

6. Rini must ask permission for sodas, sweets, and alcohol

 

7. Rini must eat 3 healthy meals every day.

 

8. Rini must ask permission for "play time" and is only allowed to touch her "princess parts" to wash our shave unless she had permission. And must ask permission separately to cum.

 

9. Rini must tell daddy immediately if she breaks any rules.

 

10. Rini will submit to any punishment daddy deems fit for breaking rules.

 

11. Rini must send daddy a picture of herself at least once a day.

 

12. Rini is not allowed to use profanity or inappropriate language of any kind

 

13. If another daddy or mommy contacts rini privately she has to let Daddy know immediately and isn't allowed to respond without Daddy permission

 

14. Daddy may alter, add, our change any rule as

12. Rini is not allowed to use profanity or inappropriate language of any kind

[Guest MachoPrincess]

I can't think of all of mine right now and we haven't gotten an official list or anything yet, but here's some of my rules that I can remember right now:

• I can only miss school if it's necessary. Skipping is not allowed.
  
• My homework comes before play
  
• I must take my medicine
  
• If I'm getting too sassy Daddy will give me a warning
  
• I need permission before drinking soda
  
• Daddy decides when I've had enough candy
  
• I must drink a healthy amount of water every day
  
• I can't go to parties unless Daddy is with me
  
• I'm not allowed to drink grownup drinks without Daddy's permission
  
• I'm not supposed to hide from Daddy when I'm scared or sad
  
• I have to tell Daddy when I'm getting scared or sad
  
• I'm not allowed to watch scary movies
  
• I'm not allowed to bring random animals home, I have to earn pets
  
• I can't buy every cute stuffy I see
  
• I'm not supposed to keep any secrets from Daddy
  
• I must always tell Daddy the truth
  
• Bedtime is when Daddy says it is
  
• I shouldn't wear anything too revealing, Daddy has final say on all outfits
  
• I should try to use my manners
  
• Absolutely NO talking to other daddies/mommies
  
• I can't play on Omegle
  
• Daddy can/will monitor my social media accounts
  
• I can only hangout with people Daddy approves of
  
• I can't hangout with boys, except for school related stuffs
  
• No touchies without permission
  
• No cummies without permission
  
• I have to do what Daddy tells me to, especially during playtime
  
• I need to listen to Daddy
  
• I shouldn't tell Daddy no
  
• Daddy knows best
  
• Arguing/procrastinating during spankies will result in more spankies
  

Edited May 1, 2016 by MachoPrincess

[Sunny]

My rules sometimes change to reflect my progress. For example, I used to have a rule about not biting my nails, but I now haven't bitten them in over six months and that rule was no longer needed. These are my set of rules, some more permanent than others.

 

GENERAL RULES

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifAlways be polite to Daddy

This means saying please, thank you, yes sir etc.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifRespond to all of Daddy's requests

I have a bad habit of ignoring Daddy sometimes when he asks things of me. This rule is saying that I must always respond to what he says, even if it is to explain that I cannot do what he is asking of me, instead of just not doing it.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifAlways wear Daddy's tag unless given permission to remove it

I have a tag that was engraved for me. It has my nickname on the front and the words "Property of [Daddy's Name]" on the back. I always wear this tag unless I want to wear another necklace, in which case I can ask Daddy if he will take it off for me. He can say yes or no.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifFollow Daddy's schedule and do your chores

Some days, Daddy will give me a list of tasks to complete, including homework. I also have chores to do and I have to do them when he tells me. On weekdays, I have to be in bed by 10pm.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifAlways communicate with Daddy, even when you're upset

When I'm really, really upset, I sometimes shut down and refuse to tell Daddy what's wrong. This rule means that I must always be open with him about my feelings.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gif No unhealthy treats without permission

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gif Don't leave food and drink or their containers sitting around

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gif Clean up after yourself

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gif Don't squirrel things

Sometimes, I will take small things that belong to other people if a. I really want the thing in question and b. I do not think that the person who owns the thing wants it as much as I do. Examples are chairs from a dollhouse, a pair of tweezers, pretty beads etc. Daddy calls this behaviour "squirreling" and it is forbidden.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifDo not neglect your own self-care

When Daddy is at work, I must always take care of myself as best as I can, such as getting food when I am hungry, going to the bathroom when I need to go etc.

 

SECRET RULE

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifDo not touch yourself without permission

Daddy must give approval before I can touch myself in a sexual manner. I must ask permission again if I can orgasm. The exception to this rule is when Daddy is asleep.

 

GOLDEN RULES

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifAlways "woof" when you want to

"Woof" is my safeword, and I must use it at any time if I feel the need to.

 

http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww278/Topher89/u3002_m2_zpsfqxvu9h3.gifAlways remember that you are loved

Edited May 1, 2016 by Sunny

[xbabygirlbx]

Here are the rules my Daddy and I agreed on (do note that my daddy and I are in a long-distance relationship, so ours are based off of that aspect):

 

1. Take medications at 10:15p.m. unless there are special circumstances. Text daddy as soon as they are taken.

2. Drink AT LEAST 2 bottles worth of water each day. More if possible.

3. No junk food/unhealthy food without asking Daddy’s permission first

4. Brush teeth 2x a day

5. Exercise properly at least 3x a week.

6. No procrastinating on homework/projects. Finish all of it.

7. In bed for the night by 2:30a.m. at the latest, except on weekends.

8. Keep room tidy and clean. Daddy will check in every other day

9. Always tell Daddy when you’re feeling anxious/depressed.

10.  Always be there for Daddy when he is feeling anxious/depressed

11. Ask permission or wait to be told before touching myself, with or without him.

12.  Show Daddy my outfit everyday before I leave on Snapchat/Kik

13.  Tell Daddy when I need to be awake the next day so he can check on me.

14.  Always be honest and tell Daddy when rules are broken and why the rule(s) were broken

[princessbabydoll]

{here's a lil image of my rules ♡} 

this was made by a friend of mine on tumblr,

so Daddy could keep an image on his phone 

to remind me because I'm a wittle forgetful sometimes ;;u;;

 

http://i.imgur.com/3EPu6gc.jpg

Edited May 8, 2016 by princessbabydoll

[mitchie]

Rule list in the making. This is what we have so far...

 

Rules for Mitchie

1.       Be honest at all times

2.       Treat Handsome with respect and kindness

3.       Don’t talk to strangers

4.       If there is  problem, tell Handsome, he is not a mind reader

5.       Minimal swearing

6.       NO SELF HARMING. Talk to handsome

7.       Bedtime is when Handsome says. No arguing

8.       Dindin on table by 5 or 6

9.       Tell handsome what food I ate

10.   SCHOOL IS IMPORTANT. Be sure to keep up on deadlines

[Guest Teagan (means little poet)]

My Daddy and I have A lot of rules here are some of them.

 

1. Daddy will never withhold water, food, or medicine from Teagan.

2. Daddy will never withhold air from Teagan. 

3. Daddy can not say I can't go to the bathroom.

4. Teagan can only play in her room if Daddy is tired or sleeping.

5. Teagan has to stay in Daddy's site at all times, unless Daddy is sleeping.

6. Teagan gets one warning before she will be punished.

7. Teagan will not be punish for making a mistake.

8. Teagan can only play sexy games with Daddy.

9. Teagan can't have any candy, except for her 95% cacao chocolate medicine.

10. Teagan can only have frozen treats if Daddy gives it to her.

11. Teagan can not eat anything with added sugar in it.

12. Teagan has to tell Daddy if she is not happy.

13. Teagan can only have alcohol is Daddy gives it to her.

14. Teagan will not be punished unless she does something wrong.

15. Tegan can ask Daddy anything and for anything without getting in trouble, but Daddy can say NO.