What are your rules?

[Nia]

This is one of the best parts about DD/lg relationships. I really need that kind of structure in my life. Though reading these give me some ideas for if I ever find a daddy, but maybe I should just set some rules for myself.

 

Does anyone have separate lists for Big and little?

[neko]

We only have two or three rules I think.

 

Always brush my teeth before bed

Bed time is always at 1am during the week (i stay at his house on the weekends therefore bed time is vetoed)

Never call daddy mean names

 

They're not very difficult rules but it shows that Daddy cares

[Rosebud]

New rules for posting pics on my blog.

 

Rules for pictures:

1. Must ask me before posting.

2. No photos that have been posted elsewhere (such as on facebook)

3. No pictures that show your tattoos or higher than your nose.

[little*girl*rosi]

Mine are:

 

1. Always do as Daddy says

2. Always tell Daddy, when I can´t text him back

3. Ask Daddy before I smoke (because if I do, I often don´t feel well)

4. If Daddy texts me, I have to text back within 5 minutes

[Guest Shimoto]

Thank you for posting your lists everyone, they really helped with giving me ideas. ^w^

[BabyKittenBelle]

This thread may be really helpful! Because I have a newer Daddy and he's never done rules before but I love having the structure of rules and was trying to find a way to help him out

[Daddy'sLittlePrincess]

I love having rules and structure in my relationship:

1. Do what Daddy says without question (i often ask "why" when Daddy says something, i'm only a curious little girl)

2. Ask Daddy before doing things different from my normal routine and keep him informed on what you're doing

3. Do NOT tell Daddy what to do - ask nicely

4. Answer Daddy's questions fully and honestly

5. Do NOT intentionally cause yourself harm or do anything with knowledge that it may be dangerous or harmful

6. Always ask Daddy before consuming alcohol

7. Do not take drugs without permission. (I'm allowed 10ml of painkillers without asking as Daddy knows when i'm in pain and need medication he is not always able to respond quickly but anything more than that and I must ask)

8. You will not tolerate direct, inappropriate behaviour from other people and it will be immediately shut down

9. Collar to be worn at all times, unless around family

10. Always be polite and respectful to Daddy answering with please, thank you, sorry ,yes and no daddy. Rudeness will not be tolerated and will be punished

11. You will NOT lie for any reason

12. You must eat at least 2 healthy balanced meals a day. You will NOT eat sugary/fatty or otherwise unhealthy foods without asking Daddy

13. You must have at least 4 pints of fluids a day

14. You must do at least one productive thing a day (this is to keep me motivated, otherwise i will find myself laying in bed all day feeling sorry for myself whilst Daddy's at work)

15. You will go to bed at a reasonable hour (1:30am latest, bedtimes don't count when with Daddy as he will tell me when to go to sleep)

16. DO NOT SAY K TO DADDY (I do this alot when i'm mad and it makes Daddy very angry and I get punished a lot for it)

17. You must shower or bathe once every 3 days at least (this seems like a given but the one thing that suffers when i'm at a low point in my life is my showering habits)

18. Always tell Daddy if you're not okay, especially if Daddy is not there

19. Ask Daddy and wait for an answer before you are allowed to smoke

 

There are a few unspoken rules such as asking Daddy before I cum and also wearing panties when I'm at work or out for a walk (this seems like a silly rule but i work in a shop which my family owns so I will often go downstairs wearing my pyjama bottoms as they just look like leggings and I sometimes won't wear panties underneath because no one can see but Daddy doesn't like this).

These rules have been changed and updated a few times to find what best suits us. I still have difficulty following them at the moment as I'm very bratty and I find it hard to follow rules when I'm in a bad mood. Broken rules result in punishment and if I've been extra naughty then the punishment will be extra severe and privileges will be taken away. Daddy only wants what's best for his little girl <3

[DeltaDDLG]

I have a lot of rules due to being in almost total power exchange. too many to post on here for sure cause they'd go on forever.

Bed time is as and when daddy bear decides so or when hes away its 10pm. The rest of my rules surround self maintenance e.g. shaving and caring for myself, honesty, obedience and general behavior since i spend 90% of my time within little space. I also have a rules to punishment thing too which dictates what punishment i get for what think i've done wrong and for good behaviors i get to pick a piece of paper with something nice on it or i get given a treat.  My daddy definitely makes sure all my rules are to look after me and keep me safe and healthy.  

[Twixieshores]

Structure is great

 

• Mommy is also my Goddess. I am to refer to Her with one of those titles when we're alone.

• Mommy loves me, despite what my bpd tells me

• I deserve Her, despite what my bpd tells me

• I can have other girlfriend's with Mommy's permission, but I sub to nobody else but Her.

• Get at least 7 hours of sleep a night.

• Take my hormones and other pills

• A good girl eats between 1400 and 3000 kcals/day.

• No purging, ever

• No making Mommy uncomfortably horny right before She has a hair appointment or class (It's been two weeks and She's still getting back at me for that)

• I can touch myself at certain times each day. Outside of that, I need a partner to get me off.

• I am to put something in Her worship diary every day.

• When her boyfriend and I are with her together, my place is at Her feet looking up.

• Tell Mommy if I feel like hurting myself or relapsing

• Tell Her when I messed up

• When having a meltdown, excuse myself to the bathroom and suck my thumb or paci until I can calm down.

[hbear]

1. Be kind. Listen! (Daddy knows best)

2. No bad words

3. No talking back/pouting

4. Do art/crafts everyday

5.Sweets are for rewards ONLY

6. Ask questions if confused

7. Always be honest/don't lie

8. Don't spend too much money (I have a spending problem...)

9. No cummies/touching princess parts without permission

10. In bed by 9:30 (on work nights)

[Guest wet4Daddy]

Hmm Daddy & I do not have written rules as such. Although he was talking about it the other night... I will ask him

 

The only rule I know we have is :

 

1) Daddy is *always* right

 

 

As we are Daddy/babygirl 24/7 (pretty much) Daddy informs me of his opinions and views on how I should behave as it is appropriate.

[Guest buddhagirl]

Here are my Daddy's rules for me. They've evolved and changed over time as our relationship and I has changed and evolved...

 

1.  Always treat Daddy with respect and behave in a way that makes me proud when we are together or apart.

 

2.  Do as Daddy guides and tells you to without arguing or hesitation. You can tell me if something scares you or makes you uncomfortable, but Daddy decides if there is a compromise or if you still need to do it—because I know it's good for you or because it pleases me and won’t permanently harm you.

 

3.  Do not hide things from Daddy, like other men being inappropriate with you, or if you are upset about something.

 

4.  Tell Daddy when you break any of the rules so that I can ensure your safety and keep you on the right path.

 

5.   Accept all spankings and punishments like a good girl and be thankful for my love, strength and guidance.

 

6.  Do not let anyone touch you suggestively or sexually except for your Daddy.

 

7.  Do not be alone with men other than your Daddy.

 

8.  Inform me of any nights you are out, with whom, and where. This is for your safety and for my comfort in knowing that you're safe.

 

9. You are allowed to be friends with whomever you choose, so long as that friendship is not toxic or disrespectful to your most important relationship with me. I may tell you to limit your time with that person, or cut them out altogether.

 

10.  Your body belongs to me and is mine to do with as I please. Therefore, your orgasms are mine to control as I wish. You will be ready whenever and wherever Daddy wants to touch and use your body. You must receive explicit permission to orgasm and when you do, consider it a gift from Daddy and thank me.

 

11.  You will never be ashamed of being wet or of what makes you wet.

 

12.  No using grown-up language (cursing) unless you need to ask or beg Daddy to do something naughty to you.

 

13. You will wear a collar at all times as a reminder that you are mine: under my protection, care and authority. If you feel it will be detrimental to wear your collar for any reason, you may explain it to Daddy and I will decide. Only I am to lock and unlock your collar when we’re together.

 

14.  Write in your journal everyday about being my little girl or on a topic Daddy assigns you. Daddy will read your journal every week and we will discuss your progress and Daddy will give you direction and lessons.

 

15. You will be cleaned and washed, maintaining good hygiene so Daddy can taste you and enjoy you as I please. If you are not clean and we are starting to get intimate you will excuse yourself to wash. If you’re on your period you will let me know before we get sexual. 

 

16.  Occasionally you will surprise me by waking me up with Daddy’s cock in your mouth, arousing me from a deep sleep in a most pleasurable way.

 

17.  It is important for you to eat properly and make sure that you are staying hydrated.  You will work out 4-5 times a week to maintain your health. If you are experiencing any kind of health problems you will make any necessary appointments to adequately diagnose and treat them. Daddy wants you to be healthy and sound in mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, so that you may live a long, fulfilling life.

 

18.  You will ensure there is enough food in the house that Daddy likes so that when I am hungry I have something available to eat. You will ask permission to make coffee for me in the morning; I like to make my own coffee, but will allow you to do it for me on occasion. 

 

19.  You will place your complete trust in Daddy. Trust my concern for your safety, your emotional, sexual and physical health and the well-being of our relationship. Tell me if, at any point, you are having trouble trusting in any of these areas. This relationship is built on honesty and trust and our commitment to each other's well being.

 

20.  Being afraid or crying are not signs of weakness. Revealing fears and sharing your tears softens your will, allows me to heal your old wounds and will bond you closer to me. Do not to hide or feel ashamed when you are scared or cry. Daddy is here to take good care of your feelings.

 

21.  I am your life partner, best friend, caregiver and guide. You should not feel bad about what you need and will communicate your wants and needs clearly. Always let me know what you want and need to feel safe, loved and happy. 

 

22.   You are my life partner, best friend and adoring little girl. You will always listen to my wants and needs and do your best to fulfill them with an open heart, generosity, love and grace.

 

23. You are to practice self-compassion and not be too hard on yourself or be too negatively critical of yourself.  Catch negative self-talk energy and call yourself out on how it isn’t serving your best interest any longer. If you encounter struggles with this practice talk to your Daddy.

 

24.  All rules shall not conflict with or impede family or working life. 

[daddysdoodle]

Bedtime is 10pm Sunday through Thursday and 12am on Friday and Saturday. Doodle will be awake by 6am Monday through Friday.

 

Doodle will follow her weekly schedule. Doodle will write out her schedule on Sunday and Daddy will approve the schedule each week. Doodle will always tell Daddy right away if she did not get to something on her schedule and why. Daddy will determine if it is a legitimate reason.

 

Doodle must eat three healthy meals a day. Doodle will keep a food journal and place it in the binder at the end of the week.

 

Doodle will always show respect and be honest and polite with Daddy.

This means no cursing, yelling, or telling Daddy what to do.

Always ask, say please, thank you, apologize when wrong and only refer to Daddy as Daddy or Sir.

 

Doodle will always ask permission before drinking or smoking. No exceptions.

[bbybe11]

[bbybe11]

[misstoria]

My daddy and I just came up with these yesterday!

1. Love yourself

2. Don’t talk bad about yourself

3. Do not use passive aggressive words like whatever

4. Text when you wake up

5. Will be faithful

6. Will not deceive daddy, and when asked will tell him how she feels, be it happy, sad, uncomfortable, aroused, or otherwise

7. If uncomfortable she will tell daddy and daddy will make everything right

8. If horny, she will tell Daddy (if he is around) so he may solve the problem

9. Tell daddy if something is bothering you, don’t keep secrets

10. Massage daddy when he is stressed

11. Never be afraid of asking or telling daddy anything

12. Look in the mirror and say one positive thing about yourself everyday

13. Bedtime is 11:30 and if that is not possible talk to daddy

14. Minimum of 6 hours of sleep

15. Do your best in school, if theres anything you need help with ask daddy

16. I know you don’t want to do your homework, do it anyways

17. No Swearing while in little space

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[Guest IchigoSunshine]

Well, me and daddy follow this set.

 

Daddy's Rules For Me:

1. Princess must be in bed by 10:30.

2. Video games are limited to half an hour a day, and internet time is 6-10 PM.

3. When Daddy is away, he will call Princess to check up on her. Princess must answer her phone unless there is a good reason.

4. No sweets or alcohol unless permitted. No bad language either.

5. All pencil crayons and felt tips must be kept in the correct boxes.

6. Princess must have three meals a day and eat all of at least two.

7. Our safe word is 'Lemon'.

[graight_little]

Me and my daddy don't have written down rules but we've discussed some before getting into the relationship.  

 

1. Always say Good-morning and Goodnight. 

2. Tell Daddy when you don't feel good and he tells me when he doesn't feel good. 

3. Don't argue with daddy. 

4. Tell daddy how your day at school was. 

5. Kitten cannot eat junk food after 10pm. 

6. Kitten and daddy must always say I love you and send a kissie polar bear emoji. 

[Daddysbrattylittleboy]

I hate seeing all the rules about keeping "princess parts" shaved. It actually causes infecetions and leads to your vagina not being able to clean itself. Also, don't wash your vagina with soap...that's not good for it...just saying

[Daddysbrattylittleboy]

I hate seeing all the rules about keeping "princess parts" shaved. It actually causes infecetions and leads to your vagina not being able to clean itself. Also, don't wash your vagina with soap...that's not good for it...just saying

[cutelilpunkin]

My rules are actually quite simple...

but if im in little space it can be hard because "little children" sometimes don't understand what things mean or they think things that aren't actually true, or they could thing that "daddy/ Mommy" are joking when in fact they're being serious.

anyways I don't necessarily have "Rules" but they're things to do for your daddy to be quote "good little" some of them can be considered rules though.

 

• Be Good
• Don't disobey
• love yourself
• smile for daddy
• Do what you're told
• Be daddy's little helper when asked or just because you want to.
• Tell daddy you love him because he loves you.
• Always say please and thank you, when necessary.
• ALWAYS ask if somethings okay.  example: "is my outfit okay?" "is it okay if i have a cookie?" etc.
• Always ask before you touch your princess/ little prince parts. 

those are just a few of them.

I do have specific rules that my daddy actually gives me like:

• Take baths everyday at a specific time
• take your pill
• ask before i touch my princess parts etc.

[babydaddylala]

me and daddy made some rules☺️

1. I must call daddy if I'm upset

2. Only he can touch my princess parts

3. I must do my chores everyday

4. If I want to touch my princess parts, I must ask daddy first.

5. no self harm, smoking or alcohol (daddy says it's bad for princess)

6. baby must thank daddy after sexy time

7. baby must never lie to daddy

8. daddy will spank me if I'm naughty

9. baby must never lie to daddy

10. baby must always have her medicine, and if she doesn't, consequences will be applied.

11. baby can have little time twice a week

12. daddy will choose what baby wears

[Guest Princesspumpkinface]

Some of my rules:

1. No means no. Don't pester, if He changes His mind He'll let me know.

2. I can have a say, but He has the final say over decisions, and what He says goes.

3. Fibbing will be punished.

4. Bedtime is 11pm unless He says otherwise.

5. Eat everyday.

6. I must do all my chores on time.

7. I must go to all my lectures, and not leave assignments to the last minute. (I now have a assignment/revision timetable.)

8. No answering back or being rude or disrespectful.

9. No bad language.

10.I must stand up for myself with other people.

11. No talking all the way through TV/films, or when He needs quiet!

12. I must do what I'm told without making a fuss or tantruming.

Any breaking of the rules will be punished.

[kitten monster]

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[Guest PrincessCrown]

God I would love rules. Structure is so good for me,because then I have good behaviors to have and to make someone proud of me. Though I love spontaneity, spankings, and just doing things that turn out great without planning it but these rules would be nice to abide to.