What are your rules?

[Guest Mossy]

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Edited September 13, 2018 by Mossy

[Echo__]

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Edited July 20, 2018 by Echo__

[Unikitty69]

No daddy=no rules. I love alot of these though.

[Lilmisstiaa1997]

My rules are quite simple  

 

1. Princess must always say good morning/good night to daddy
2. Bedtime is when daddy says (as I have a habit of being insomniac)
3. Princess must eat at least 2 meals a day
4. Princess must ask before using a lighter/oven and I must be supervised
5. Princess will do 1 thing per day to get her into little space (otherwise her anxiety plays up)
6. Princess must tell daddy when something is wrong (mentally or physically, I have a lot of health issues)
7. Princess will not use sharp things unsupervised!
8. Princess will not use vulgar language
9. Princess will aim to drink a big bottle of water (at least 3 big sippy cups)
10. Princess will use her nummie every night to try and help her sleep
11. Princess will have a nap (only when needed, or poorly and only for 2 hours)
12. Princess will tell Daddy if she feels poorly
13. Princess will do her chores for the day
14. Princess will not back chat daddy

[LittleSubPrincessAdina]

These are my Daddy rules. I am your only Daddy

First one you text in the morning and last one you text at night.

Honesty is an absolute must

whatever I say goes, sexual or non. Back talk will result in spankings and other punishments depending on the severity

[princekatsudon]

My CG has given me really specific rules to protect me against self harm. I once broke one, and she cried her eyes out... It was horrible and I felt like a monster. u_u But she told me she was crying for me, not for her. I felt even worse... Aside from that I don't have really specific rules other than self care and it trikes me as odd how so many daddies are so possessive of their littles. XD Maybe because we're poly, hehe. And incidentally we do have rules for that as well.

Bunny's rules for Little Prince:

1. Always have something to eat that is nutritious and well balanced. Never pass a day without eating or punishment will be enforced.
2. No Friday treat if you're being too difficult without reason.
3. No going onto pro-ana/mia or self harm websites AT ALL. Things will get really bad if you go to those sites. If you feel the urge call Bunny immediately.
4. No hiding things from Bunny. Bunny can't help if you don't tell her what's going on.
5. No adding another member to our relationship, be it Daddy, Mummy, Oniichan, Seme, little, or uke without having both of our consents. 
6. If Bunny says "Come over here", you come over here, don't make Bunny count or a punishment will be ensured.
7. Follow your self-care routine. 
8. Drink water everyday, at least 1lt.
9. If Bunny says "Not now, little one", it means NOT NOW. Bunny also needs her space and time, and to relax from a long stressful day at work outside of home.
10. Always tell Bunny if you're feeling low, or sad, or you're having a crisis. We'll take immediate action and make it all okay again.

There's also stuff like:
I'm the owner of my own body, I say if, when, how and with whom, not even Bunny will have 100% power over your body. 
Swear words are useful and fun and help with stress, just don't insult Bunny, that's not ok.
Nobody else can call Bunny Bunny except for the Little Prince. 

This one is mine because I have OCD (yes, I've been diagnosed) and it irks me to no end that there's stuff all over the floor:
Pick your shit up or it goes in the wastebasket... I mean it... An angry little is a dangerous little... Pick it up!

And I think that's it. We do have structure, but it's hard while living with the in laws to not be suspicious. Also, we're more carefree. XP We believe that if we have to set a rule to be exclusive there must be a problem. 

[Kitten Fluff]

Since Daddy is new to this there isnt many.

 

-I behave but if I'm a brat daddy counts to 3 and I get punishment. 

-Go to bed early (I have depression so..Sometimes I dont do this. Daddy understands)

-No swear words! Spankies if I do.

-Use manners. 

-Princess always gets headpats. 

[SmartAssLittle]

If you don't mind to share, what are your rules if you have them?

Don't look at my Daddy.

 

Don't talk to my Daddy.

 

Don't touch my Daddy.

 

Daddy is mine!

 

That's Little me

[cosmicbalance8cmk]

So I'm new to this but daddy doesn't want me having caffeine like energy drinks or coffee after a certain time mainly 5 but on long work days 8. 

 

Never leaving the room if I get upset... he hates this, I need to learn to communicate better even when I want to hide. 

 

Drink plenty of water.

 

Limit intakes of sweets.

 

Only drink alcohol with daddy's permission. 

[Alexdander]

I dont have anything such as rules but I promise not to hurt myself and to be careful with myself. Also my big one forbide me to say things that can hurt to other, if I do that he wont enter in little space for a while

[LyraFaye]

Mine are

Limit swearing, no f word

Bed by midnight (I struggle with that one bad)

Eat breakfast lunch and dinner (also struggle with that)

Up by 9 but up by 8 is preferred currently

Ready by 12 at least but ready by 9 is preferred

No candy, soda or meals after 8 unless it’s because of work

[dada_little_princess]

Am making daddy make me a list of rules TONIGHT!!! hee hee hee.... 

He is looking over my shoulders and mentioned something about punishment... piiifffff........

[dada_little_princess]

I now have some rules and a reward chart!! Yay!!!

 

My reward chart:

Get up by 8.30am - I often fail at this

Take my healthy supplements

Drink at least 3 ltr water

Eat properly 3 times a day

Exercise at least 30 mins a day

Take breaks every hour during work

Junk food limited to 3 times a week

Don't use mean voice - like all day

 

My rules are:

Always wear collar in house or choker out

Kiss daddy's lollipop good morning each day

no panties unless I have permission

No swearing

write blog at least 3 times a week about little time

Must always do as daddy say and say yes daddy (in and out)

 

Yesterday was my first day with rules and reward chart... I got 20x spanks for not doing the right thing and 3 rewards

 

My gold stars are coming soon so I can stick them on the chart!!! Whoooop whooop

[Guest Sokyogoku]

I really want my daddy to start implementing some simple rules but he seems not to be so comfortable with rules and punishments yet, but I've told him we don't need to have punishments. Does anyone have any nice suggestions for new Daddies and littles about rules and rewards? I was trying to look for some ideas and these are my ideas so far:

~no self harm

~never talk bad about yourself
~take your medicines
~eat regularly and drink plenty of water
~be polite and don't swear
~listen to your daddy
~do schoolwork if needed
~no electronics past bedtime (unless for music)
~ask for sweets and treats (and don't eat too many!)
~send daddy updates throughout the day
~remember you are loved!

As for bedtime routine I thought of:

~brush your teeth
~take your meds

~put clothes away
~wear pyjamas and grab a plushie
~bedtime story and/or music
~bedtime at 10:30 unless daddy says otherwise

Are any of these good to start with? Should there be more or less of them? What would be good (small and big) rewards for obeying the rules, doing chores and behaving well? Overall I think I want easy rules to stick with and mostly related to self care because I suffer from depression and often feel bad about myself and Daddy doesn't like when I punish myself. 

So far for rewards I've received praise, more pats and cuddles, treats, gifts and extra bedtime stories. And I think that reward only method would work for me? I'll be glad if anyone would like to share their thoughts and opinions on this topic thank you ^^

[Mrose]

we just started our relationship so we are making rules as we go, so far : 

Rule 1. Never Disrespect Daddy, or yourself 

Punishment if do: No smoking for half a day > 

Rule 2. Self Love <3 

Rule 3. when daddy say come, you come 

rule 4. Pills are important. Always must take them . no ifs and or butts. 

 

Still figuring things out as we go. 

[Amelia2610]

[BabyDoll_Carmen]

These are my rules:

1) No swearing in little space

2) No tantrums! Do what Daddy says

3) Do not raise your voice/ talk back/ poke tongue or roll your eyes at Daddy

4) Use your manners (please/thank you)

5) Clean your bedroom and keep it clean

6) Tell Daddy where you are going and when you'll be home

7) Brush toothies twice a day

8)No self harm or hurting yourself in way

9) Bedtime is 10pm unless Daddy says otherwise

10) NSFW Do not touch your princess parts without permission

11) Always be honest to Daddy, no white lies!

12) Always ask for sweets and juice

13) Discuss, do not argue

14) Be good in public!

15)  No yelling, throwing things or grumping

16) No drugs (smoking, pills etc) speak to Daddy before doing so.

17) Be respectful to Daddy

18) Have a positive attitude

19) Eat healthy food, reduce eating junk food!

 

If I follow the rules then my rewards are:

1) Stay up past bed time

2) New stuffie/toy

3) Daddy and Little date

4) Sweets

 

However if I'm naughty then my punishments are:

1) Spankings

2) Time out corner

3) Write lines

4) Early bed tme

5) Taking stuffies away

6) No phone/ social media

Edited December 26, 2018 by BabyDoll_Carmen

[Guest SweetOne]

Because of these i want to make rules now! >.< I don't have a daddy tho but when i do i want rules and than some minor rules that aren't disrespectful so i can break them because in all truth i am definitely a brat!

[Daddy549]

https://imgur.com/gallery/e1WsC7b
(Relative NSFW Warning (it's all in very small text amidst SFW text) and minor trigger warnings (touches on a rule or two regarding Selfharm).
Hi! I'm a daddy, and personally I'm very new to all of this-- however, I've recently established a relationship with a little, and she asked for rules.

 

With inspiration from this forum and elsewhere, plus my own ideas, I've come up with some rules and organization for them.

 

Bear in mind two things-- it looks as long as it is, and that is explained for in the post.

Also, Little and I's relationship is long-distance, so that's a little context for you.

Let me know what you think and what you like!

 

(I hope it's understood, I know the implications of the "DD" in DDLG".

I mentioned that I appear to be either largely submissive, if not fluid.

The relationship is long distance, in fact all four of mine have been, never in person.

So not only do I not have the capability to be fully assertive, but neither do I have the experience.

I might have a proclivity for being dominant better expressed in action than in spoken word, or a passion for it.

I get if I receive remarks like "So who's really the DD in the relationship" but I hope that I have explained that, if not a DD, I am at least something of a caregiver.

My little is definitely a sub and wants a daddy dom, so I'm trying my best by her to make things work without a hitch-- frankly, most of my relationships were vanilla anyways and don't depend on dominance and submission as much, although characteristics of those temperaments are exhibited through actions and treatment.

My rules and punishments, my wording, assertiveness and lacking thereof in this example spoke truly to myself, and to her, given the context of our relationship.

I'm new, so I've got a lot to learn, and a lot of changing to undergo to find what works for me and her.

Hopefully, my example isn't far off from one that qualifies as pretty standard.

A lot of the notions in my rules also speak to a reflection of how I would treat her, were we in a standard relationship, my wanting to remind her of that. I could be a gentleman in the streets, and a freak in the sheets. I felt the rules there should represent a way for her to feel able to safely and happily transition from big-space to little-space.

Constructive criticism and opinions are welcome, suffice it to say.)

Edited January 7, 2019 by Daddy549

[Littlepiggy0]

[Princesspunzie21]

[Guest Baby_Kitty9818]

I have a bunch...

Daddy's Rules for his Kitten
1. I will refer to him as "Daddy" whenever I'm alone or with little friends.

2. I will tell him about any school work and deadlines.

3. No keeping secrets from Daddy.

4. I will ask Daddy when I want to get on any social media (forum included).

5. I must tell Daddy when I'm eating and must ask for sweets or any liquor (mainly sweets).

6. When Daddy says its bed time I must be in bed. I can still text him,but I must be in bed.

7. I will tell Daddy when I'm getting in the shower.

8. Minimal swearing.

9. (NSFW) If I want to touch myself,I have to ask for permission to do so,and I must ask for permission to cum.

10. I will brush my teeth and wash my face every morning and night.

11. I will maintain my princess parts.

12. I will do stretches twice daily.

13. Curfew is 10:00 p.m. Monday through Thursday.

14. I will not pull on my hair no matter what.

15. Kitty will eat two meals a day and I have to eat a quarter of it as a minimum.

16. (Slightly NSFW) I will call Daddy "Master" when he controls me.

17. I will tell Daddy whenever I'm anxious and what is making me anxious.

18. If I want to cut or harm myself in any way,I will call Daddy.




Kitten's Punishments
1. No texting or video calling Daddy for a time of his choosing (timeout).

2. Make bedtime sooner and not be able to talk to or text Daddy.

3. Writing down lines (Daddy will choose what I write).

4. No cuddling with Teddy or any stuffies for a time of Daddy's choice.

5. No candy or sweets.

6. I must spank myself on a video call

7. (Slightly NSFW) I will beg for dirty things.

Edited March 30, 2019 by babygirl_princess1299

[♡ LaraBear ♡]

Rules:

 

These rules apply to us in while I'm in big space and little space (I'm not a 24/7 little), though some are specific to each.

We're still revising and changing things as we go along (seeing as both Daddy and I are fairly new to DDLG),

but so far it's been going wonderfully and has improved the quality of our relationship immensely. 

 

For Both:

 

♡ No lying or hiding things from each other.
♡ Always give plenty of attention and affection.
♡ No making assumptions or jumping to conclusions.
♡ Never ignore or treat the other with disrespect or disdain.
♡ No walking away from each other without announcing leave and return.
♡ Safe word or gesture can be used at any time and can never be ignored or contested.
♡ Always send good morning and good night texts while apart.
♡ Always let the other know if they want or need something.
♡ No excessive use of curse words while in little space.
♡ Always talk about feelings (good and bad).
♡ Respect set boundaries.
♡ Mind manners.

 

 
For Daddy:

 

♡ Always be patient with Little.
♡ No sexy times with Little while she’s sick.

* I'm pretty sickly and not in the best health, sadly. :c And sometimes Daddy thinks too much with his peepee and forgets cx *
♡ Always address pouts with a kiss and/or a hug.

* Daddy loves my pouts and knows I usually pout when I want attention ~ *
♡ Always be loving, supportive, and understanding with Little.
♡ Always give rubs, cuddles, and comfort when Little is upset, in pain, or sick.
♡ Never allow Little to feel bad for not wanting or being able to partake in sexy times.

* I tend to beat myself up for said sickness and not being able to do certain things sometimes, so he makes sure to tell me it's okay *
♡ Must always look after his health and try not to overwork himself.

* Daddy can be such a busybody and focuses so much on taking care of me that he sometimes forgets to watch out for himself, too! *
♡ No talking about work in excessive detail while in little space.

* Him talking about what happened at work or the details of it will sometimes take me right out of little space xD *
♡ Never humiliate Little or demean her for her mannerisms.
♡ Never let Little forget how much you care about her.
♡ Always give Little lots of compliments.
♡ Never be too violent with Little.

* I have a history with abuse and can sometimes be triggered by intense violence, so we don't partake in more.. hardcore BDSM practices very often *
♡ No neglecting after-care.

 

 
For Little:

 

♡ Always listen to Daddy.
♡ Address Daddy appropriately.

* I must call him Daddy while in little space, though I have to call him by his name or address him by "normal" pet names (Honey, Love, etc) while around friends and family *
♡ No being passive aggressive/bratty.

♡ Always use her mouthwash before bed.

* I actually don't have any teeth anymore, so brushing my teeth won't apply until I get my implants. I do tend to forget to use my mouthwash, though.. xD *
♡ Must eat a healthy amount of food every day.
♡ Must drink at least 2 bottles of water a day.
♡ Always let Daddy know when she’s feeling frisky.
♡ No posting pictures of self or Daddy without permission.
♡ Never turn off Daddy’s alarms for work and/or appointments.

* I hate it when he has to go to work.. Which he knows, so he made this a rule because I did it once. cx *
♡ No contesting Daddy’s decisions — when Daddy says no, he means no.
♡ Must write in her journal daily, no matter the length of the entry.
♡ Always let Daddy know when she’s going out, where to, and who she’s with (if anyone).

* He always wants to make sure I'm safe and with trustworthy people ~ *
♡ Always attend doctor’s appointments unless Daddy says it’s okay to reschedule.

* ... I really, REALLY hate going to the doctors! >.< *
♡ Always respond to Daddy’s texts and pick up his calls as soon as possible.

* And if I miss it or don't call back soon, I better have a good reason.. xD *
♡ Must ask for permission to orgasm and announce when cumming.
♡ No denying Daddy sexy times unless she has a good reason.

* Other than when I'm really sick or unwell, I'm never allowed to deny Daddy his pleasure~ *
♡ Must never take part in smutty RPs online without Daddy.

* I'm apart of a discord server where this happens frequently, so we made this a rule ~ *
♡ Must ask for permission before using sexy toys.
♡ Must always go to bed when Daddy says.
♡ Must never give up on her dreams.
♡ Must always practice self-love.
♡ Must accept her punishments.

* .. I have a bad habit of contesting this one.. xD *
♡ No eating too many sweets.

* I have a feeling he's also going to make me ask for permission for them at all soon, because I have a bad habit of giving myself a tummy ache with this one cx *
♡ Must always be herself.
♡ No throwing things.

* ... I have a really bad habit of breaking this one. Don't ask me why, haha! *
♡ No tantrums.

 

 

Rewards:

 

 

 

♡ New Stuffie
♡ Date of Choice
♡ Sweet/Snack of Choice
♡ New Coloring Book and/or Colors
♡ Little Can Make One Request of Daddy

* This is my FAVORITE reward ~ No matter what I ask of him, he does it. :3 Super rare, but that's what makes it the absolute best! *
♡ Extra Hugs, Cuddles, Rubs, and/or Kisses
♡ New Clothes or Accessories
♡ New Makeup Item 

♡ Later Bedtime

 

 

 

Punishments:

 

 

♡ Time Out
♡ Spanking
♡ Writing Lines
♡ Stuffie Jail Time

* .. Not going to lie, this is one of the worst punishments for me. xD I REALLY love my stuffies. *
♡ Orgasm Denial/Edging

* Meanwhile, this one is the most frustrating.. but can also be pretty fun. ;3 *
♡ No Movie/Anime Night
♡ No Sweets/Snacks
♡ Affection Denial

* While Daddy and I can't completely ignore one another, denying hugs and kisses and cuddles is just.. This is a close second worst for me xD *
♡ Early Bedtime
♡ Chores

 

Edited February 7, 2019 by ♡ LaraBear ♡

[Guest Littlebabyunicornx]

My rules are:

1. I must listen to what daddy says

2.try to be a good girl and remember my manners

3.tell daddy if anything bothers me

4.tell daddy when I'm feel sad

5.never hurt myself on purpose let daddy help when I feel like self-harming

6.try and take daddy compliments

7.always give daddy cuddles when ever him or me wants them

8. I must not argue with daddy

9.daddy is always right

10. If I feel uncomfortable with something i have to tell him

11. Never lie to daddy

12. Remember that I'm daddy's little angle

13.that I belong to daddy and no one else

[little1grl]

Well Daddy doesn't have many rules, just ones we know ourselves and aren't exactly written down. But I have a few!

 

1. No touching in public, unless told to do so.

2. Do as you're told.

3. When Daddy says no, he means no.

4. Swallow with a smile (I'm sure this one is his favorite).

5. No horseplaying, such as tickling, in public.

6. Try not to get too wild when there is company.

7. Be respectful

8. Address me as Daddy when we are home together (unless in obvious situations).

9. Always try your hardest.

10. Don't complain when Daddy tells you that you can't do something. 

 

I don't need ones for school because Daddy already knows I do very well in school. Also, as you can tell, I like touching Daddy a lot and I do it in public. 

 

Interesting about no tickling in public. My Sir tickles ME in public lol. I don't think my Sir is very ticklish.