Baby_pwincess_is_here Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 So my Daddy and I are currently having an argument and I want to get some other opinions. He likes to push me and I am open to that, however when I say he has gone too far or I am uncomfortable with a task or simply just unable to do a certain punish and ask for a different more reasonable one he will get very angry. He doesn't accept it instead he will yell and call me sames such as an "awful brat". Am I just being over dramatic or is this seriously not an okay way to react?
submissiveboyjimmy Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 You have every right to communicate that you're uncomfortable with a certain punishment, you're communicating, he on the other hand is putting you down with insults.
Guest Mr.Stuffykins Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 There is nothing okay with a dom pushing you over your boundaries. You are in every right to tell him you are uncomfortable and it is his job to stop immediately. Insulting you is absolutely uncalled for and demonstrates a lack of understanding and appreciation. Never succumb to a doms wishes if its something you are not comfortable with. Have a clear talk about this and try to compromise. If he fails to even consider your feelings than his credibility as a dom is questionable. 1
angel-k47 Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 that's not right, for this type of relationship or any! never let anyone push you into doing something you don't want to do or talk badly to you for sticking up for yourself.
Guest Prat Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 He's ignoring your limits. It's unhealthy and dangerous and in my opinion a red flag. I'd leave at the first sign of my partner ignoring safety.
Strongbad456 Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 What they said. Limits exist for a reason, and while they can and do evolve over time, they should be respected until a change is agreed on by both parties.
*Firefly* Posted June 20, 2017 Report Posted June 20, 2017 what he is doing is not okay and i would reccommend talking about it as adults
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