Casual sex in our community

[Little_Bratt]

Most people are pretty sexual (myself included) but is there a way to just have little/big time with casual people. Like if you are little and you find a big that you are similar sexually, is it okay to spend a day with that one person and dedicate that day to little space and enjoy each others company? You know casual. No strings but all the fun! Edited June 18, 2017 by Little_Bratt

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Of course! As long as both people know exactly what it is and agree with it being casual! Obviously you don't want to be leading anyone on so honesty is key! Otherwise - I don't see an issue with it!

[Guest Stainedblack]

While I'm definitely not into this. I see a lot of people are specifically into this. Check fetlife and look up your area, there may be a ddlg meetup.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Wouldn't be my cup of tea, but that's okay! It's perfectly okay as long as everyone involved knows what's going on!

[Guest Sexynaughtydaddy]

I'm fine with that as long as it's upfront and honest. Not my end goal but, rewarding still. Most I've met will not be upfront with that and it is disheartening. Even play can lead to great friends and be rewarding for both.

[DarkAvatar]

Honesty and transparency are key here. Make sure you tell them your not wanting a relationship at this stage if that's the case. That will minimise the chance of expectations being let down.

 

If you can, stay friends afterwards. These types of friendships are often the best friendships. Contrary to popular belief sex does not destroy friendships.

 

As long as your honest and upfront, there's nothing wrong with a bit of play.