Daddybutt Posted June 18, 2017 Report Posted June 18, 2017 (edited) Hi, I'm a (female) Daddy. My little lives pretty far away and our only contact is through text messaging and social media. She's great and we are constantly texting throughout the whole entire day. During the week. On the weekend she ghosts and I'm left pining for my little for 48 hours of sheer torture. What can I do to cope? We are so codependent and I know she misses me too, but she's not able to stay in the constant contact I crave and it's really hard. Edited June 18, 2017 by Daddybutt
Ink Posted June 18, 2017 Report Posted June 18, 2017 That's really rough. I'm in a LDR also and weekends can be quite tough sometimes. You'd think they'd be the easiest part of an LDR when you can see each other but it never really seems to work out that way. What I recommend doing is trying to set a 'Date Night' - doesn't have to be night time, but just a specific time of the week that you will both set aside for each other and know that no matter how your week goes otherwise you will always have that time together. That way even if it comes to the weekend you still have this mentality of 'I'm going to go out and get everything done and prepped for the week so that nothing is stressing me out when I finally get to see my Little'. LDR can be really tough and moreso when you are just playing it day-to-day and only in contact when neither are busy. Actively setting some time aside for each other is really important and it shows each of you that you are equally important to each other. Best of luck!
Daddybutt Posted June 18, 2017 Author Report Posted June 18, 2017 Thank you, that is really excellent advice. It's nice to know I'm not alone in this and have other people who have been through it too. It's a fairly new relationship, though we've been friends a while, so I'm trying to get my footing I guess.
plumflower Posted July 1, 2017 Report Posted July 1, 2017 Omg there are Daddies and little that don't talk at least once every day? *dies* My Daddy and I talk everyday even if it's just one passing texts. I'm so sorry that you have to experience that. The LDR is hard enough, But yes date night is a must!!!. Is there a reason y'all don't skype and watch netflix?
KiltedDaddy Posted July 2, 2017 Report Posted July 2, 2017 Great believer in daily contact... its the " little " things that count
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