I have a crush on a little friend

[Guest PrincessGuppy]

Does anybody else have this problem. I met her at a party and she has always been really nice to me, and now that I've started talking to her more and more I really like her. But she just had a baby and is dealing with a bunch of stuff right now so I don't know if i should say something and see if she returns my feelings or just suffer in silence and hope it goes away. 

[peachyfoxbby]

i think you should just offer to help with whatever is bothering her and maybe get closer to her that way? and then once she seems less stressed, maybe reveal your feelings under the pretense that you don't automatically expect her to feel the same and you want to remain friends regardless. 

[Guest PrincessGuppy]

I offered to help out last night, so hopefully sometime she will take me up on it. We are both on Fetlife and on her profile that she wrote.... I don't even know how long ago she mentioned that she was looking for another girl, a little, or a pet, or even just a sub. So that is always pecking at me like hey hey hey remember that thing.

[*Firefly*]

definitley tell her, its better than keeping it to yourself. i told my littlefriend and now shes my babygirl

[Guest PrincessGuppy]

definitley tell her, its better than keeping it to yourself. i told my littlefriend and now shes my babygirl

I wish i had the balls to. Im terrified that she wont feel the same way and ill lose her as a friend

[*Firefly*]

I wish i had the balls to. Im terrified that she wont feel the same way and ill lose her as a friend

 

honestly the worst thing that could happen is she doesn't feel the same way. i doubt that she will stop being your friend. if you don't want to come out straight and say it to her, you could hint at it like "i wish i had a mommy" or "you'd be a great mommy" or stuff like that. but don't do it if you don't want to remember that no matter what, you are her friend

[Guest PrincessGuppy]

honestly the worst thing that could happen is she doesn't feel the same way. i doubt that she will stop being your friend. if you don't want to come out straight and say it to her, you could hint at it like "i wish i had a mommy" or "you'd be a great mommy" or stuff like that. but don't do it if you don't want to remember that no matter what, you are her friend

Yeah. I have a daddy but I feel like he keeps hinting at maybe he wouldnt have a problem with me being with a girl. I tend to lose friends a lot so im always afraid that if i say something to the wrong person they will leave. otr that i think i have friends where i actually don't

[*Firefly*]

Yeah. I have a daddy but I feel like he keeps hinting at maybe he wouldnt have a problem with me being with a girl. I tend to lose friends a lot so im always afraid that if i say something to the wrong person they will leave. otr that i think i have friends where i actually don't

 

i woud definitely bring it up with your daddy before you make any decisions about what to do, that way you know for sure that he is okay with it. try not to think about whats happened in the past and think of her as a fresh slate and then everything will be easier xD

[Guest PrincessGuppy]

i woud definitely bring it up with your daddy before you make any decisions about what to do, that way you know for sure that he is okay with it. try not to think about whats happened in the past and think of her as a fresh slate and then everything will be easier xD

yeah Thanks

[*Firefly*]

yeah Thanks

 

no problem