my daddy taste of the way i dressed

[Ruetta]

Hello little friends! ♡

 

so me and my daddy is already 2 years together, by the way he see me is that he is fine with me dressed up like lolita or kawaii. we both know that im middle and he doesnt really enjoy seeing me dressed like adult baby with diapey and paci or bottle, he likes the baby-talking tho, he did it everyday and he gets mad when i didnt do it too. so there i go dressed cute and childlike. i started to buy cute stuff, i fill my bed with stuffies. then this day i was just ask that i saw Princess Ariel bracellet, and he didnt allow me to buy it. well, he kindly didnt allow me, he talk softly everytime. but then i sent him couples of hipster fashion and he said he prefer me to dressed like that or simple. idk why it hurts me because, tbh i started to enjoy myself dressed lolita or kawaii and stuff and i thought he is into adult baby since everytime we had playtime he always like "baby-ing", when i cried he rock me like im a baby. but today its just confused me.

 

so what im about to ask is

should i get hurt by what he said? and changed the way i dressed to be more hipster or just simple? if this happened to you, would it makes you/me feel less little?

 

thank you so much for having the time to read this and I appreciate what all of your answers! ^ω^

Edited June 12, 2017 by Roocha

[Joe]

I think it would just be good to talk to him and better understand what he meant. Also, let him know that it hurt you and you are unsure what he means. Just focus on communicating to better understand each other's needs.

[angel-k47]

tell him what you said hurt you and that you're not sure why, maybe he can better explain what he meant by it.

 

i think that you should still dress how you like though, he probably thought you would look good in hipster clothing and that's why he said you should wear it.

 

if anything maybe mix the different styles together since with fashion anything can be done! 

[Zenmackie]

Communication is so important in any kind of loving relationship, but especially in DD/lg.  Far too many Littles think they just have to do whatever their Daddy wants and that their own feelings and preferences don't matter, and that is simply not true.  You have the right, and in fact the duty, to tell your Daddy when anything about the relationship is making you uncomfortable or unhappy.  If he is a good, loving Daddy, then your happiness should be the most important thing in the world to him.  Talk to him.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/21396-a-littles-bill-of-rights/