Starting the little lifestyle..

[Leashybug]

Hello! I have considered myself a little for about 4 months now but have been too scared to act upon it due to the response I was given by someone I thought I could trust. I would love to learn some of the best starting things for littles that way I can get into habit! If you guys have any advice, please share!

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

I think the first thing you need to do is get into the mindset that a little is just like a baby. Both are vulnerable, dependent, gentle, need to be guided, nurtured, and loved by someone else. The best way for you to learn would be to take the role of a baby. What do you think a little baby would do? A little one would watch cartoons, color, drink from her sippy cup and hug her stuffies^^

Expose yourself to some of these things and see how you feel. Later down the road when you have your daddy itll be much easier because the "dependency" role will come into play. Being taken care of and having someone baby you is a surefire way to get anyone into little space.

 

And I'm sorry for assuming you don't have a Daddy! If you do then by all mines disregard that last bit there^^ sorry heh

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

Well it's a bit ramdon (?) Because there are many types of littles and you do not have to follow some kind of personality, some are quieter and other littles are very hyperactive, and there are also the brats ones (and many others)

So I think the first thing you can do to start is, remember the things you did when you were a little girl, what cartoons you liked to see, what things you liked to play, so find the little space that suits you, since we all have different ages! Some are more accommodated at younger ages and others are more pre-teens or even teenagers. It all depends on what you feel comfortable with.

Another thing, if you have or do not caregiver, you could start with a little tracker of habits, and go marking them every time you meet them and when you meet them all during the week you have a prize. They can be simple things, like brushing your teeth, exercising, meeting your bedtime, drawing pictures for your caregiver, or telling you how your day was, and if you do not have a journal, it is also valid.

[Leashybug]

Thank you so much guys:) I have been slowly building my little space for a few months but without a caretaker/daddy it's been hard finding the right guidance. I definitely like coloring and movies and doing things like that when I am able to be in my space. I really like the tracker idea! I think that's something that would really help because I get off track so easily

[Nymph]

The best you can do is be yourself! I know it sounds corny but do things you like without being ashamed of it. It's better to do these things on your own anyways to find out what you are comfortable with and what you like before you involve someone else anyways. You think pacifiers are cute and you might enjoy them? give them a try! prefer just wearing girly outfits? that is ok too! or you just like pink a lot and glitter, have as much of it as you want.

 

I suggest you make friends here with both littles and daddies (and a few mommies!) to just talk about whatever. That way you learn about the lifestyle and feel less lost when you meet someone special